flop era survivor: five ways to protect your slay

following from my previous "how to turn a flop into a flopportunity" video - once you've survived the flop, here are five things to consider when maintaining and protecting your slay. after a challenging or down period, its easy to become careless or develop blindspots once we think we've moved on from something, but that can also lead to blindspots and creating an unsustainable cycle. these are some mindset shifts that have helped me to feel like i'm actually growing, transforming and being hot and having fun, rather than being on a floppercoaster. MERCH IS LIVE!!!www.friendcrush.clubsign up for the newsletter for 10% offpaid patreon subscribers get access to additional discount codespatreon.com/amberakilla00:00 - intro01:33 - flop and slay are equally important03:44 - 1. the flop: where you were04:16 - 2. the shift: what got you out05:57 - 3. the aftermath: who & what survives09:23 - you can’t drag other people up, but anyone can drag you down(relationships, habits, patterns)11:12 - 4. maintenance: protecting your slay13:43 - discipline & delayed gratification as a form of self-devotion14:32 - 80/20 rule16:48 - redefine key terms - metacognition18:04 - be your own bestie20:02 - lean into your new identity21:58 - 5. long term: micro-flopping & adaptability22:12 - embrace the contrast, hold multiple truths at once22:53 - be aware of your natural negative bias related videos:flop into flopportunityhttps://youtu.be/Y9iQ_MYCIGUthe price of slaying is hatershttps://youtu.be/086IvuwYzeAthe vibe you bring to the functionhttps://youtu.be/e4hrPViYKK8hot girl habitshttps://youtu.be/DszRCbx0_AEmeditationhttps://youtu.be/3ZWMNxYIusQjournallinghttps://youtu.be/BzY2mc5eoucnon-negotiable hobbieshttps://youtu.be/XlStSk0b4KIhttps://youtu.be/jKVo3bGoyxgslay habits: how to start new habits, habit forminghttps://youtu.be/31_hsYlM6Twmetacognition: speak to the manager withinhttps://youtu.be/I2cBDd8akeodefining lovehttps://youtu.be/mqu4RRzr2ooincrease your baselinehttps://youtu.be/iwT59y8LWfEeverything is vibes: be hot and have funhttps://youtu.be/1mv6EZX003Yhot girls don’t let comparison be the theif of joyhttps://youtu.be/IHXexhPc5ns