Friday Taps: Make Clear, Powerful Decisions and TRUST THEM

This tapping session is for you if:* You’re feeling stuck, circling a decision that feels too big to commit to fully* You don’t feel safe trusting yourself to follow through once you do commit* You’re experiencing crippling doubt that keeps you stuck instead of taking inspired actionDoubt isn’t a sign that this decision is wrong for you or that you shouldn’t commit. It’s your nervous system reading this level of change as a threat.So instead of forcing yourself forward or backing out completely, we’re going to create safety around this decision. Because when your body feels safe, it stops resisting. And when it stops resisting, you can finally move.That’s where your energy comes back online. That’s where clarity, creativity, and momentum start to open up.Now, bring the decision you’ve been circling to mind.The one that feels big. The one you haven’t fully landed on.Get really honest about what’s coming up around it — the hesitation, the pressure, the doubt.That’s the energy we’re working through today.Notice how intense it feels in your body right now, and just take a mental note of that. We’ll come back to it at the end.Before we start, a few things to keep in mind:* Stay hydrated today — this helps your body process and release what we’re moving* If emotions get intense at the beginning, that’s part of it. Stay with it. It will shift* Yawning, sighing, crying, stretching — all of that is your body releasing tension* Keep your attention in your body and notice anything that comes up* If something clicks or lands, jot it down — you’ll want to remember it* Come back to this as many times as you need until it feels natural to move forwardAlright… let’s get into it. Here are the points:Tap on the Karate Chop and repeat x3“Even though I feel this hesitation around making this decision, and part of me wants to avoid it, I can feel what’s happening in my body, and I deeply accept and love myself through this.”Remember to breathe deeply.ROUND 1: THE HESITATION (make it feel seen)* I keep circling this decision* Like I won’t let myself land in it fully* It feels too big to commit to* And I don’t fully trust myself with it* I don’t know if I’d follow through* Or if I’d mess it up* So I stay in this loop* Thinking about it instead of choosing* The doubt is loud* And honestly… it’s exhausting* I can feel it in my body* This tension… this pressure* Like it’s not safe to actually decideROUND 2: WHAT’S ACTUALLY HAPPENING* Maybe this isn’t confusion though* Maybe this is fear of what happens if I actually choose* Because choosing would move things* It would change things* And I’d have to meet myself there* This decision asks more of me* A different level of me* And that feels unfamiliar* So my system throws doubt at me* To keep me in the loop and the familiar* Where I don’t have to risk anything* Where I don’t have to expand* But staying here is its own costROUND 3: GROUNDED RECOMMITMENT* I’m allowed to make decisions that change my life* I’m allowed to choose before I feel ready* I don’t need to prove I can handle it first* I build that trust by moving through the discomfort* I’m done outsourcing my power to doubt* I can feel this fear* And I can still decide* I can hold myself through what comes next* I don’t need to stay in this old loop* I can move* I can choose* I am safe to make this decision* So I am deciding, committing, and trustingTake another deep breath and repeat if your intensity is still high.When you’re finished… Notice how that felt for you.Take a moment to notice what shifted. Even subtle changes count.That sense of softening… of your body relaxing…that’s your first sign that something just moved. That’s progress. Let yourself actually acknowledge that.I encourage you to make tapping a regular practice to get the most out of it. Consistency really is key.You can come back to this script whenever things start to feel loud, overwhelming, or distracting. Not because you need to fix yourself, but because you’re building safety within your body.When your body feels safe with you, it naturally starts letting go of resistance and works with you. For you.If you’re feeling called to go deeper into your personal experience with a tapping practitioner, here’s the link to book a private tapping session with me.Certified Master-Level EFT Tapping Practitioner & PoetUNMASKED 1:1 Tapping Intensive | Release past pain, unapologetically trust yourself, and attract relationships that truly honor you!Start your tapping journey with downloadable tapping audios This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thetappingclub.substack.com