EPISODE · Feb 13, 2026 · 25 MIN
Friendships with the Opposite Sex (Part 1): Purity and Affection
from afterWord with Pastor Kent · host NorthCreek Church
How should Christian men and women relate to one another within the church? In this episode of afterWord, Pastor Kent Dresdow is joined by Executive Pastors Matt Rehrer and Jeremy Pray to answer a thoughtful question from a church member regarding the boundaries and biblical nature of friendships between the opposite sex. While modern culture often sexualizes these interactions, the Bible calls believers to treat one another as brothers and sisters with absolute purity.The conversation begins by anchoring the discussion in Scripture, specifically Romans 15:7, which commands us to "welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you". The pastors discuss the tension between maintaining high standards of holiness—avoiding even the appearance of indiscretion—while not becoming cold or distant toward sisters in Christ. They explore the biblical concept of the "holy kiss" as a model for warm, family-like affection that is distinct from the world’s sensuality.This episode also offers practical wisdom for ministry and workplace environments, such as open-door policies and transparent calendars, ensuring that our conduct glorifies God and protects the reputation of the church.Welcome to NorthCreek Church!In glad reliance on the Holy Spirit and Scripture, we exist for the glory of Christ, to make disciples who worship God, walk in love, and witness to the world.Connect With Us:Sunday Services: 9:00AM & 10:45AM Address: 2303 Ygnacio Valley Road, Walnut Creek, CA 94598Online Resources:Main Website: https://www.northcreek.org/ NorthCreek Academy (TK-8): https://ncapschool.org/ Sermon Archive: https://northcreek.churchcenter.com/channels/19901 Church App: Download the Church Center App and search for "NorthCreek Church"
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How should Christian men and women relate to one another within the church? In this episode of afterWord, Pastor Kent Dresdow is joined by Executive Pastors Matt Rehrer and Jeremy Pray to answer a thoughtful question from a church member regarding the boundaries and biblical nature of friendships between the opposite sex. While modern culture often sexualizes these interactions, the Bible calls believers to treat one another as brothers and sisters with absolute purity.The conversation begins by anchoring the discussion in Scripture, specifically Romans 15:7, which commands us to "welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you". The pastors discuss the tension between maintaining high standards of holiness—avoiding even the appearance of indiscretion—while not becoming cold or distant toward sisters in Christ. They explore the biblical concept of the "holy kiss" as a model for warm, family-like affection that is distinct from the world’s sensuality.This episode also offers practical wisdom for ministry and workplace environments, such as open-door policies and transparent calendars, ensuring that our conduct glorifies God and protects the reputation of the church.Welcome to NorthCreek Church!In glad reliance on the Holy Spirit and Scripture, we exist for the glory of Christ, to make disciples who worship God, walk in love, and witness to the world.Connect With Us:Sunday Services: 9:00AM & 10:45AM Address: 2303 Ygnacio Valley Road, Walnut Creek, CA 94598Online Resources:Main Website: https://www.northcreek.org/ NorthCreek Academy (TK-8): https://ncapschool.org/ Sermon Archive: https://northcreek.churchcenter.com/channels/19901 Church App: Download the Church Center App and search for "NorthCreek Church"
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