From Battle-Weary to Fully Expressed in a Happy Marriage

Veronica Nabizadeh, a family law attorney and divorce mediator, has fought to overcome codependency and rebuild her marriage with authenticity and trust. She joins us to explore how healthy relationships hold the space for each person to be exactly who they are, without wishing for change or giving someone else control over their own happiness.  Her clients tend to also come from battle-weary marriages and she has learned that transformational change can begin when one person is really ready to do the work, and their partner begins to see their relationship in a whole new light. In this episode: [00:03:29] Wedding night flips codependency; love changes. [00:12:11] Powerful wake-up call to break generational trauma. [00:15:05] Grateful for opportunity, find resilience in stress. [00:18:35] Mired in endless divorce. [00:19:44] When divorce is not an option. [00:25:26] Everyone gets to do what they want. [00:26:01] Negotiate to satisfy both needs and compromise. [00:31:09] Is this what you want your daughter to remember? [00:33:43] Setting expectations for growth, support [00:37:36] Overcome, embody, let go. [00:39:56] Importance of intervention. [00:42:23] Tools for self-growth Happified listeners can redeem Veronica’s gift of the Stop Drop Roll Baby! Bootcamp ($297 value) for free!  This exceptional offer is only available to the first 30 listeners, and is designed for battle-weary wives who've grown weary of fighting with their husbands. Attendees will gain profound insights into the seven relationship saboteurs that fuel the flames of your marital disagreements and learn how to extinguish them. The event spans three consecutive Fridays: October 28th, November 4th, and November 11th, 2023. Participants are required to attend all three sessions, which will run from noon to 3:00 PM Eastern Time each day. www.relationshiprestart.net/stop-drop-roll-babyFor listeners who miss the Stop Drop Roll Baby! Bootcamp, you are invited to receive a free copy of Veronica’s Sacred Pause eBook by signing up at relationshiprestart.net/bookLearn more at happifiedlife.com or join the conversation in the Live with Less Stress facebook group.  The information in this podcast, or in any linked materials, are not intended to diagnose, treat or cure any specific health problem, and it is not a substitute for professional medical expertise or treatment.  The content of this podcast is not intended and should not be construed as medical advice.  It provides general information and discussions about health and related subjects that are deemed reliable at the time of production.  Always consult with your health care provider so that they can address your specific situation with all the information and knowledge they need in order to provide the fullest extent of medical support that you require. Be well, and thrive!