From No Dates to Feeling Truly Seen and Accepted: Kirk's Story

💔 How can you find someone to date when dating apps aren't working for you, and all you do is work, stay at home, and meet with the same D&D group or spend full days with one single person at a time playing Warhammer? 🧌In this episode, Kirk shared his challenges to date as a single nerd 😰 Like many people, he was promised that "if you focus on yourself and sort your life out, someone will naturally come." Unfortunately, that was not the case. He found a steady job and a home, but nobody to share his life with 🏡📱 Since dating apps weren't working, he decided to shelf the thought of a partner and focus on hobbies like Warhammer and TTRPG. Ironically, that's what led to his first date ever. Even though Kirk started feeling like he was way too busy and almost without options, he managed to find a date. And in the same way that he found one, he can find another. And so can you 🫵Sometimes, we create our characters in ways that don't help us reach our complete specific quests 🤬 We thought a certain build would do the trick for every single area, but that's often not the case. 🏢 The life you thought would lead to happiness may feel more like a trap than anything else. In those cases, taking a step back and thinking of ways to find your Player 2 may be the best strategy. Like Kirk, with some brainstorming and looking at your past successes, you may find a way to defeat the BBEG and get the loot! 🪙🎧 Are you ready? PRESS START! 👾👾 FREE GUIDE: WHERE NERDS REALLY MEET THEIR PLAYER 2 🕹️Based on real-world nerd data. Download it at https://datelikeanerd.com/reality📱 Have questions? Join me on Discord! https://www.datelikeanerd.com/discordRelated Episodes:Find Love Through Online Games, with Kaylee LopezIRL Lessons from Video Games, with Dr. Daniel KaufmannPhysical Escalation from Friends to Lovers: the Nerd Love Story of Jose and JulianShy meets Socially Anxious, and Going Slow: the Nerd Love Story of Steven and ChristinTimestamps for lazy nerds:#datingtips #datingadvice #dating #nerdlife #nerd #gamer #single #socialskills #podcastContact:[email protected] or@datelikeanerd on social media