From South Africa to London’s Box: Lili Makes History

from TRANS CRUSH · host Pavie Valsa

Lili St Jerry made history as the first Black trans woman to host at The Box, but her story runs way deeper than the spotlight. In this episode of Trans Crush, she gets real about identity, confidence, and what it takes to thrive when the world tries to dim your light.We talk about:– Growing up in South Africa and finding her truth– What to do when your family doesn’t support you– Fashion, bikinis, and the struggle for true inclusivity– Dealing with transphobia and protecting your energy– Her dating advice for trans women🔗 Follow us for more:Patreon: http://patreon.com/transcrushInstagram: http://instagram.com/transcrushpodcastTikTok: http://tiktok.com/@transcrush.podcastTRANS CRUSH EXCLUSIVE ON PATREON:In this Patreon-exclusive, Lili opens up about her past toxic relationships and the trauma they left behind. She gets into how to spot a love bomber, and what she learned from her very first experience with a trans man.Plus, Lili shares the unfiltered truth for men who date trans women—what to say, what to skip, and how to actually show up without causing more damage.🧠 Real talk.💣 Emotional struggles.💖 And yes—some very juicy stories too.Patreon: http://patreon.com/transcrushUnfiltered, powerful, and full of realness.Hit play—you don’t want to miss this one.

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