Fuck U Thought

What if the people who doubted you became the reason you refused to quit? In this episode of FUCK…Where Do We Start?, I sit down with Dr. Ruby Patterson—a space geologist whose story proves that your starting point has nothing to do with where you're capable of ending up. Ruby was told she wasn't smart enough. Her own dad encouraged her to quit. She started college in remedial math, but instead of letting those voices define her, she turned them into fuel. Today, she's earned her PhD, specialized in lunar geology, worked with NASA, self-funded an entire scientific expedition to Iceland, and built her own career on her own terms. But this conversation isn't just about science. We talk about resilience, self-belief, taking risks, relationships, meeting her boyfriend at Burning Man, choosing an unconventional path, and what it really takes to chase a dream that most people don't understand. One of my favorite moments? I have to admit... I invited "Ruby" onto the podcast and didn't even realize she was Dr. Ruby Patterson until we started recording. 😂 To me, she was just Ruby—and I think that says everything about the kind of person she is. She never led with her accomplishments; she led with curiosity, humility, and an incredible story. If you've ever felt behind, doubted yourself, or had someone tell you that your dreams were unrealistic, this episode is for you. Sometimes the best success stories begin with someone saying, "You can't." 🚀 Follow Dr. Ruby Patterson: 📲 @rubythespacegeologist 🎙️ Full episode of FUCK…Where Do We Start? is now streaming on Spotify.