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EPISODE · Jun 3, 2026 · 45 MIN

Grieving the Version of You That Didn't Make It with Lionel Moses

from inside OUT: Navigating the Mental, Emotional & Spiritual with Jojo · host Jojo Cottle

We talk a lot about grieving people we lose  but what about grieving the versions of ourselves that didn't make it? The dream that faded, the relationship that revealed you weren't showing up as yourself, the life you thought you were building that quietly fell apart?In this episode, I sit down with Lionel Moses, Desert Storm veteran, twice divorced, business builder, and author of The Marriage Seed  and we get into the kind of grief nobody puts on the checklist. The grief of lost time. The grief of the people pleaser you became. The grief of the authentic version of you that was locked up while you performed for everyone else.This one is going to land differently. We talk about:Why grief is a trajectory, not a state and where it's actually sending youHow to grieve time instead of eventsWhat purposeful singleness really means (and why it's not just about being single)Why unaddressed grief is cancerous  and what happens when you finally face itThe funeral you need to have for the version of you that didn't make itIf you've ever felt like the life you're living doesn't match the one you imagined this episode is for you.🔗 Find Lionel at lionelmoses.com or themarraigeseed.com or Instagram Thank you for listening! Don't forget to follow along on social media @_insideout.podcast, rate and review. And Join the MESy Mailing List for exclusive content, insights on what is coming up and more! 

We talk a lot about grieving people we lose but what about grieving the versions of ourselves that didn't make it? The dream that faded, the relationship that revealed you weren't showing up as yourself, the life you thought you were building that quietly fell apart? In this episode, I sit down with Lionel Moses, Desert Storm veteran, twice divorced, business builder, and author of The Marriage Seed and we get into the kind of grief nobody puts on the checklist. The grief of lost ...

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