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EPISODE · Jan 15, 2026 · 1H 7M

Guest Episode: Understanding If You Are With a Man or a Boy and How to Feel Safe and Seen in Love

from Heal You, Heal Your Relationship

This week on Heal You: Heal Your Relationship, Sasha welcomes her first male guest—men’s coach Alessandro Frosali—for a raw, honest conversation about what it really means to show up as a partner. From his home in Spain, Alessandro shares the moment his wife told him she needed him to “be more of a man or I’m leaving”—and how that wake-up call became the catalyst for his entire transformation. Together, Alessandro and Sasha explore the brick walls we unknowingly build in relationships, why consistency matters more than perfection, and how owning what’s yours creates space for your partner to own theirs. By the end of this episode, you’ll see that becoming a better partner isn’t about reaching a destination—it’s about committing to the path and standing firm in the heat of emotion instead of running from it. 🌊💛Soulful Trio Reflection Questions for this week:What would it take for you to become the best husband or wife that you can be?What would it take for you to fall in love with being the best husband or wife that you can be?What would it take for you to fall in love with your life?In this episode, you’ll discover:The two pedals of relationships: owning what’s yours and loving your partner enough to trust them with theirsWhy brick walls of resentment build differently for men and women—and how to take them down brick by brickHow to separate attachment behaviors from identity so you can actually change your patternsThe three layers of mental load and why understanding emotional labor transforms partnershipWhy holding space when your partner is dysregulated creates the safety they’ve been searching for💘Join Sasha’s mini-experience 2 weeks to secure love: ditch anxiety for trust, communicate calmly and authentically and reconnect with your partner - Fear to Freedom💘Want to know if you're inadvertently sabotaging your relationship? Take the quiz now at: pw556n5gt0l.typeform.com/to/lqsEV0Qvvv💘Get Sasha's most used tool to regulate your nervous system when triggered by your partner straight from her VIP library here - Regulation ToolLearn more about Alessandro Frosali: Website: https://alessandrofrosali.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alessandro_frosali Email: [email protected] Learn more about Sasha Quince:LinktreeInstagramInstagramFor more insights and guidance, reach out to [email protected] or connect on Instagram @sashaquincelovecoach or @healyouhealyourrelationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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