Happy Birthday, B*tch.

How DO birthdays work anyway? In this episode, Amanda and Sarah are together in person and discuss growing up without birthday parties, never learning what celebrating yourself looks like, and the weird elder millennial habit of wanting to feel deeply loved while simultaneously not wanting to inconvenience a single person. Somewhere between surprise party logistics, Trader Joe’s sheet cake, and a casual discussion about emotional needs, we find ourselves asking a bigger question: How are people supposed to know what we want if we never tell them? Also: fruit does not belong in cake. ✨ If you're an elder millennial still trying to figure out how to receive love without feeling like a burden, follow us @iymn_podcast and join the conversation.