EPISODE · Nov 8, 2021 · 15 MIN
Hate – The Why, The Purpose and the How to Deal With It (Hint: It’s Not About You!)
from Business, Wealth And Mindset Podcast · host Alex Sapala
Alex looks at hate, sharing an informative insight into the reasons why people hate from low self-esteem through to envy and failure and explains why it’s not about you it’s about them. He also looks at how you can empathise and receive criticism in a way that helps you to grow because when you understand where it’s coming from you can be the change that you want to see KEY TAKEAWAYS You can learn to master your understanding that it’s not about you Hate can have a purpose and you can use it People will hate because they hate themselves Those with low self-esteem and self-worth reflect this into the world People who hate are trying to pull others to their level Be the change you want to see handle everything with love Hate can come from envy If you show love and see people in a different way you can help them to see things differently Where people perceive you as being above them they can want to pull you down You can see everyone as equal and at this level, there is no hate Understand what is triggering the hate in people You can grow by using criticism as feedback and looking inside yourself You need balance to be at your most useful in society You can empathise with it and be the change BEST MOMENTS ‘If you don’t see people as above or below you then you are balanced ‘You get back what you give to the world’ ‘Look at it for what it is and treat it with love’ VALUABLE RESOURCES Business, Wealth and Mindset podcast series ABOUT THE HOST Alex is a prize-winning chartered accountant with experience in financial markets from trading finance, capital hedging, structural foreign exchange and interest rates to operational risk from the world’s top financial and advisory institutions including Deloitte, RBS and JPMorgan Chase Alex has been involved in property development programmes across different types since 2008, building and managing a portfolio that includes standard buy-to-lets, student accommodation and other houses in multiple occupancy (HMOs). He specialises in raising finance, providing potential investors, investors and joint venture partners with ad hoc (to their specific requirements), hands-free and hassle-free property investments solutions as well as coaching and mentoring Alex aspires to share business and financial knowledge with upcoming entrepreneurs and experienced business minds to learn and master the concepts and mindsets required to succeed, stand-out, have the edge and make a difference. Alex is also a keen traveller, cyclist and photographer. CONTACT METHOD Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexsapalaofficial/ Twitter - @alex_sapala https://twitter.com/alex_sapala You Tube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgZ1DCPGAu5c2yhOkfGZRSQ
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Alex looks at hate, sharing an informative insight into the reasons why people hate from low self-esteem through to envy and failure and explains why it’s not about you it’s about them. He also looks at how you can empathise and receive criticism in a way that helps you to grow because when you understand where it’s coming from you can be the change that you want to see KEY TAKEAWAYS You can learn to master your understanding that it’s not about you Hate can have a purpose and you can use it People will hate because they hate themselves Those with low self-esteem and self-worth reflect this into the world People who hate are trying to pull others to their level Be the change you want to see handle everything with love Hate can come from envy If you show love and see people in a different way you can help them to see things differently Where people perceive you as being above them they can want to pull you down You can see everyone as equal and at this level, there is no hate Understand what is triggering the hate in people You can grow by using criticism as feedback and looking inside yourself You need balance to be at your most useful in society You can empathise with it and be the change BEST MOMENTS ‘If you don’t see people as above or below you then you are balanced ‘You get back what you give to the world’ ‘Look at it for what it is and treat it with love’ VALUABLE RESOURCES Business, Wealth and Mindset podcast series ABOUT THE HOST Alex is a prize-winning chartered accountant with experience in financial markets from trading finance, capital hedging, structural foreign exchange and interest rates to operational risk from the world’s top financial and advisory institutions including Deloitte, RBS and JPMorgan Chase Alex has been involved in property development programmes across different types since 2008, building and managing a portfolio that includes standard buy-to-lets, student accommodation and other houses in multiple occupancy (HMOs). He specialises in raising finance, providing potential investors, investors and joint venture partners with ad hoc (to their specific requirements), hands-free and hassle-free property investments solutions as well as coaching and mentoring Alex aspires to share business and financial knowledge with upcoming entrepreneurs and experienced business minds to learn and master the concepts and mindsets required to succeed, stand-out, have the edge and make a difference. Alex is also a keen traveller, cyclist and photographer. CONTACT METHOD Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexsapalaofficial/ Twitter - @alex_sapala https://twitter.com/alex_sapala You Tube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgZ1DCPGAu5c2yhOkfGZRSQ
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