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EPISODE · Feb 17, 2025 · 36 MIN

He Doesn’t Support Your Investment?! Here’s EXACTLY What to Say

from Put Yourself First · host Kat Horrocks

Talking to your partner about investing in yourself - especially in coaching or personal growth - can feel like one of the hardest conversations.You’re excited about the opportunity, but what if he’s skeptical?What if he questions the investment?What if his initial reaction makes you doubt yourself?In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to navigate this conversation from a place of feminine leadership, confidence, and connection - without defensiveness, fear, or the need for permission.💡 If you’ve ever felt torn between honouring your own desires and considering your partner’s perspective when making a big financial decision, this episode is for you.What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The two extreme responses women often have when facing this conversation—hyper-independence (“it’s my money, I’ll do what I want”) vs. seeking permission (“if he doesn’t believe in me, I can’t do it”). The hidden nervous system responses that show up (fight, flight, freeze, or fawn) and how to regulate yourself before the conversation. Why your partner’s skepticism is NOT about controlling you—it’s actually about protecting you. Step-by-step: How to frame this conversation so it creates trust, support, and understanding instead of disconnection or conflict. How to shift from convincing to connecting—so he can actually see why this investment matters to you. The one thing most women get wrong when bringing up an investment decision—and how to invite him into the decision-making process without handing over your power. Why having this conversation with openness and honesty can actually bring you closer together (and yes, improve your intimacy too! 😉).💌 If this episode resonates with you, DM me on Instagram. I’d love to hear your takeaways or help you navigate your own investment conversation.🌿 Links & Resources:📌 Apply for LULU: The Light Up Level Up Collective → https://www.khorrocks.com/LULU📌 Free Training Replay: Pleasure-Led Success™ → https://www.khorrocks.com/training

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