Hilarious parenting stories, books we are reading and Rachel’s intuitive session

But first! Let’s be friends!InstagramTikTokGentle Parenting vs Permissive Parenting, a Wild Mom Storytime + Fantasy & Spicy Book UpdatesRachel and Jessica return to their podcast BDE (books, dating, and everything in between) after a break and announce they’ll be releasing episodes every other week to make the schedule more sustainable. They share a parenting story where Rachel, overstimulated during a school-night routine, argues with her 10-year-old son Brooks, who laughs, gets startled, and calls her a profane name. Rachel describes choosing a gentle-parenting approach: taking a moment to regulate, apologizing for not listening, setting a clear boundary about name-calling, discussing what an apology includes, and following through with a consequence by not allowing him to use her phone that night despite his apology. They discuss the distinction between gentle parenting (high warmth, high boundaries), permissive parenting (low boundaries), and authoritarian parenting (high boundaries, low warmth), and connect emotional regulation and connection to broader issues like the male loneliness epidemic. They also discuss another example of connection-based consequences: Jessica describes having her son help make dinner for a month after he lied about secretly emailing a girl, referencing a podcast idea that “the opposite of addiction is connection.” In reading updates, Rachel talks about loving Sarah Cate’s Good Brothers series and wanting to do a deeper dive later, while Jessica shares being in a fantasy phase, including Carissa Broadbent’s vampire series (starting with The Serpent and the Wings of Night) and another fantasy release, Roots of Darkness. Jessica also recounts a two-hour intuitive/Akashic records reading at a bookshop in El Dorado Hills where the reader, without knowing her background, mentioned a future grandchild soul contract and said “fortune favors the bold,” which matches Jessica’s Irish Quinn family crest. The episode closes with them setting intentions for the Chinese New Year (Year of the Horse) and reflecting on fear and bravery during life transitions.00:00 Welcome to BDE: Books, Dating & Chaos Energy00:48 Quick Life Update: Switching to Every-Other-Week Episodes02:14 Story Time Begins: Parenting, Overstimulation & Bedtime Pressure08:02 The Blow-Up Moment: ‘You’re Being a…’ (and What Happened Next)12:38 Repair & Regulation: The Calm Talk, Apology, and Boundaries17:24 Gentle vs Permissive Parenting (and Why Boundaries Matter)21:41 Lessons Learned + A Hilarious Age Mix-Up in the Salon23:46 Noah’s ‘Kindle Email’ Lie: Consequences vs Connection25:15 Turning Consequences Into Connection: Cooking Together26:01 Raising an Independent Kid (and Reframing “Disrespect”)28:29 Repair After Rupture: Unconditional Love in Action29:01 What We’ve Been Reading: The Good Brothers Series Obsession31:42 Fantasy Kick: Sexy Vampires, Brutal Gods & 5-Star Worlds35:18 Intuitive & Medium Readings: From Skepticism to Curiosity41:25 Akashic Records Session: Soul Contracts, Grandma Energy & a Family Crest Sign43:25 Fortune Favors the Bold: Using the Reading for Direction48:16 Year of the Horse Intentions + Choosing Bravery Anyway50:42 Wrap-Up, Love Yous, and How to Support the Podcast