Home Buying and Dating: Pros & Cons

What happens when love, money, real estate, and the American Dream collide? In this thought-provoking episode of Urban Birds & Bees, Dr. Kerry Neal sits down with real estate professional Arvion Chase and psychotherapist, author, and relationship expert Dr. Zoe Shaw, Ph.D., to explore the complex intersection of homeownership and modern dating. Should couples buy property before marriage? What conversations should happen before making one of the biggest financial decisions of your life? How do credit scores, financial habits, and long-term goals influence relationship compatibility? And does dating someone in the real estate industry come with unique advantages—or unexpected challenges? Together, our guests unpack the emotional, financial, and practical realities that many couples overlook, including: The pros and cons of purchasing a home while dating Why credit health is a relationship issue—not just a financial one How money conversations can strengthen or strain romantic partnerships The importance of alignment, trust, and long-term vision before buying together The unique dynamics real estate professionals encounter when working with couples What the American Dream means for singles, couples, and families in today's economy Whether you're single, dating, engaged, married, or simply dreaming about homeownership, this conversation offers valuable insights to help you make wiser decisions about both your heart and your investments. Join the discussion and tell us in the comments: Should couples wait until marriage to buy a home together, or is purchasing property while dating a smart move in today's world?