How calls with your spouse go sideways (& how to fix it)

Phone calls with your spouse should be simple… so why do they so often go sideways?In this episode, we unpack the subtle dynamics that quietly derail connection:• unspoken expectations• not checking if the other person even has capacity• unclear intentions (are we connecting or handling logistics?)• hoping for something deeper… without saying it...and the hurt that builds when your spouse can’t show up the way you needed—especially in the middle of a workdayWhat starts as a quick call can quickly spiral into misunderstanding, frustration, or even conflict that leaks into the rest of your day.The good news? Most of this is preventable.We walk you through a simple 3-step framework to help you:• set clear expectations• honor each other’s capacity• and actually get what you need out of the conversationSo your phone calls stop feeling like landmines… and start becoming small, consistent moments of connection (or pure logistics exchange) again.Our Pre-Marriage E-course is like coaching from your couch. What’s inside?✅ 6 bite-sized video sessions (30 min each)✅ 50-page workbook to guide real conversations✅ Topics on communication, conflict, intimacy, money & moreDon’t just plan your wedding—prepare for your marriage!➡️ Buy the course  [cl Support the show-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------GRAB Jenna's Summer Course Here >>> Become a sponsor of our shows <<<This helps Jenna & Aaron to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much.Simply click on this link & you'll support both of the Zints' podcasts!!patreon.com/TheHabitLabCheck out our website ZintSquad.com for coaching individual and couple's coaching appointments, Online Small Groups, Aaron's book, Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course and more. Please review, subscribe and share your favorite episodes with a friend!Links:Online Small Group - Porn Recovery CourseCouples Coaching, Habit Coaching, Porn Recovery Coaching, Emotional & Relational Health CoachingBook: Numb to Known: The Surprising Path Away From Porn