How Expectations Block Your Intuition

In this episode, we’re diving into one of the biggest energetic causes of anger, frustration, and emotional reactivity: attachment to outcomes. This conversation explores the balance between healthy boundaries and surrender, and why letting go of control doesn’t mean abandoning yourself, your standards, or your values. Becky shares how Reiki taught her to release expectations around outcomes, and how this same principle completely shifts the way we move through relationships, conversations, business, triggers, and everyday life. She talks about: • Why anger is often rooted in attachment to how we think something “should” go • The difference between healthy assertiveness and reactive control • How expectations block your intuitive channel • Why “greatest and highest good” isn’t always the most comfortable outcome • Looking at triggers as invitations instead of punishments • How letting go of control opens you to possibilities you couldn’t previously see • The energetic difference between boundaries and emotional attachment • Trusting that not every uncomfortable outcome is a bad one This episode is an invitation to soften your grip on needing everything to unfold a certain way, while still staying deeply rooted in your truth, your standards, and your self-respect. Because sometimes the thing your ego wanted… isn’t actually the thing your soul needed. This episode is a training from Becky's program Intuition Reignited that can be purchased on its own or as part of the Healing Vault HERE. Connect with Becky on Instagram @beckyroitzhealing, TikTok @beckyroitzhealing, or join her group portal Release + Expand.