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EPISODE · Apr 27, 2026 · 25 MIN

How I Became the Queen of My Own Life (And How You Can Too)

from Put Yourself First · host Kat Horrocks

Why do some women seem to have it all together - consistent, disciplined, showing up for themselves - while you're stuck in that exhausting all-or-nothing cycle?I used to wonder the same thing. In my 20s, I was the ultimate pendulum swinger - smashing my goals one week, completely off the wagon the next. And I realised it wasn't about what I was doing wrong. It was about who was in the driver's seat.In this episode, I'm breaking down the real reason you struggle with consistency, discipline, and self-sabotage - and it has nothing to do with willpower or motivation.I'm talking about the emotionally immature part of you that's secretly running the show, why I was never going to fix this with a productivity hack, and what it actually looks like to step into your Queen energy and lead your own life.In this episode:Why the all-or-nothing cycle isn't a discipline problem - it's an identity problemThe maiden, mother, and queen archetypes and what they have to do with your goalsHow unconscious rebellion keeps you stuck (even when you know what to do)What it means to parent your inner child rather than let her run the showWhy embodiment work creates the lasting change that tips and tactics never willLinks mentioned:1:1 Coaching - 12 Week Programme https://www.khorrocks.com/private-inviteThe Put Yourself First Sisterhood - join before the doors close in June https://www.khorrocks.com/sisterhoodPut Yourself First LIVE Manchester - grab your early bird ticket and save £30 https://www.khorrocks.com/PYFlive

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