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EPISODE · Sep 4, 2025 · 22 MIN

How Not to Get Swindled: Lessons from the Tinder Swindler Documentary

from The Confidence Chronicles

Can YOU get Swindled? After watching the popular documentary on Netflix “The Tinder Swindler”, I knew I needed to talk about this on the podcast. If you haven’t seen it yet, It’s about a man who ends up swindling many women out of thousands of dollars he meets on this popular dating app.  Undoubtedly, this man is a cheater and an experienced swindler and these women ended up giving a lot of money to this man without paying attention to the red flags or listening to their intuition.  But the question is how the fuck did this happened to them?  What could these women have done to avoid being swindled? Many say they were “dumb” and “didn’t they see what was happening?” Others see them as victims who are innocent in every way. After this episode check in with how you see what happened… Is this something that could’ve happened to you? I have most definitely been swindled in the past and I hope that if you have as well, this episode resonates. Have single friends, please share this episode with them. Here are the previous episodes mentioned in this podcast. You can check them all to learn more. Enjoy!  • Are you triggered? - The Queen of Confidence (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/are-you-triggered/) - Are Your Triggered (learning from Gabor Mate) • L.L.S. #1 Who I became from dealing with sexual abuse - The Queen of Confidence (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/l-l-s-1-who-i-became-from-dealing-with-sexual-abuse/) - L.L.S. Who I Became from Dealing with Sexual Abuse • The Work with Byron Katie - The Queen of Confidence (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-work-with-byron-katie/) - The Work with Byron Katie • Single Ladies Series – Date Yourself - The Queen of Confidence (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/single-ladies-series-date-yourself/) - Date Yourself (Single Ladies Series) • How to stop being indecisive - The Queen of Confidence (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/how-to-stop-being-indecisive/) - How to Stop Being Indecisive LINKS Where To Find Erika: Watch my FREE webinar: What it takes to change your life (https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/changeyourlife) Ready to work with me? Check out The Sistahood Program (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/) . • MyAudiobook has launched!  Grab MY BOOK (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/confidencebook/) in audio form here!!! • Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) • Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/Theconfidencequeen) • Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzgN7oWfbMJVj41xfJLA5Yg) 👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast! (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcasts/) 👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show (https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022) 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. 👑 *READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND?* ♟️ *The Queen's Table* My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ 👑 *MORE WAYS TO WORK WITH ME* ✨ *The Next Level* Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 📖 *My Book – Becoming The One* → https://www.amazon.com/ 🎙 *Listen to the Podcast* → https://podcasts.apple.com/ 📱 *Come Say Hi on Instagram* → https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/ ⭐ *If this episode resonated, share it with someone who needs to hear it.*

Can YOU get Swindled? After watching the popular documentary on Netflix “The Tinder Swindler”, I knew I needed to talk about this on the podcast. If you haven’t seen it yet, It’s about a man who ends up swindling many women out of thousands of dollars he meets on this popular dating app.  Undoubtedly, this man is a cheater and an experienced swindler and these women ended up giving a lot of money to this man without paying attention to the red flags or listening to their intuition.  But the question is how the fuck did this happened to them?  What could these women have done to avoid being swindled? Many say they were “dumb” and “didn’t they see what was happening?” Others see them as victims who are innocent in every way. After this episode check in with how you see what happened… Is this something that could’ve happened to you? I have most definitely been swindled in the past and I hope that if you have as well, this episode resonates. Have single friends, please share this episode with them. Here are the previous episodes mentioned in this podcast. You can check them all to learn more. Enjoy!  • Are you triggered? - The Queen of Confidence (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/are-you-triggered/) - Are Your Triggered (learning from Gabor Mate) • L.L.S. #1 Who I became from dealing with sexual abuse - The Queen of Confidence (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/l-l-s-1-who-i-became-from-dealing-with-sexual-abuse/) - L.L.S. Who I Became from Dealing with Sexual Abuse • The Work with Byron Katie - The Queen of Confidence (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-work-with-byron-katie/) - The Work with Byron Katie • Single Ladies Series – Date Yourself - The Queen of Confidence (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/single-ladies-series-date-yourself/) - Date Yourself (Single Ladies Series) • How to stop being indecisive - The Queen of Confidence (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/how-to-stop-being-indecisive/) - How to Stop Being Indecisive LINKS Where To Find Erika: Watch my FREE webinar: What it takes to change your life (https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/changeyourlife) Ready to work with me? Check out The Sistahood Program (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/) . • MyAudiobook has launched!  Grab MY BOOK (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/confidencebook/) in audio form here!!! • Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) • Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/Theconfidencequeen) • Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzgN7oWfbMJVj41xfJLA5Yg) 👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast! (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcasts/) 👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show (https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022) 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. 👑 *READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND?* ♟️ *The Queen's Table* My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ 👑 *MORE WAYS TO WORK WITH ME* ✨ *The Next Level* Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 📖 *My Book – Becoming The One* → https://www.amazon.com/ 🎙 *Listen to the Podcast* → https://podcasts.apple.com/ 📱 *Come Say Hi on Instagram* → https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/ ⭐ *If this episode resonated, share it with someone who needs to hear it.*

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