How to Address a Pattern Without Attacking Someone’s Character

What happens when disagreement turns venomous? In this conversation, Kaila breaks down the difference between using past behavior to identify a legitimate pattern and using someone’s history, vulnerabilities, or insecurities as weapons during conflict. She also talks about choosing restraint, communicating what you want directly, recognizing manipulative conflict tactics, and understanding that being capable of hurting someone does not mean you have to choose to do it. #KailaNewYork #Communication #Relationships #ConflictResolution #EmotionalIntelligence