How to Approach the First 3 Dates
from You Seem Great Hosted by Talia and Becca
What should you actually be looking for on the first three dates? In this episode, we break down how to approach those early dates without overthinking, judging too quickly, or trying to decide immediately if someone is “the one.” We talk about what each date is really for, why curiosity is more useful than making a decision right away, and how to focus on the person sitting across from you rather than getting caught up in your own thoughts. We also discuss how to have more fun, stay present, and let a connection develop naturally. From first-date mistakes and red flags to what should change by date two and three, we unpack how to pace a new connection, what questions to ask yourself, and how to figure out not just whether you like someone—but who you are when you're with them. If you're tired of overthinking every date or trying to find your perfect person immediately, this episode offers a fresh perspective on slowing down, staying curious, and giving connection a chance. Join our Matchmaking network here.
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