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You Seem Great
by Talia and Becca
Welcome to the You Seem Great podcast, where Talia Goldstein and Becca Klein talk about swiping, dating, and relationships. Each episode covers specific topics to help listeners better understand and navigate early dating and relationship building. With over 20 years of combined experience as matchmakers and experts in the field, Talia and Becca offer a unique perspective that every single needs to hear. Tune in weekly for the latest insights and learn how to become a better dater. Dating is hard, but the You Seem Great podcast is here to help.
Episodes
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How to Trust Yourself in Dating
Are your expectations helping you find the right person—or keeping you from seeing them? This episode explores the importance of trusting yourself, letting go of rigid expectations, and staying open to people who may not fit your usual “type.” We talk about fear, self-trust, dating patterns, and...
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How to Approach the First 3 Dates
What should you actually be looking for on the first three dates? In this episode, we break down how to approach those early dates without overthinking, judging too quickly, or trying to decide immediately if someone is “the one.” We talk about what each date is really for, why curiosity is more...
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Why You’re Getting Ghosted
Why are you getting ghosted—and what can you actually control? In this episode, we break down some of the most common dating mistakes that can lead to ghosting, from texting too much and moving too quickly to being overly available and sending mixed signals. We talk about how to pace a new...
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What We Wish Men Knew About Women
If you’re successful, independent, and perfectly capable of doing everything yourself, does that actually make dating easier? This episode explores why the answer might be more complicated than you think. We talk about attraction, pursuit, and the dynamics that can develop when two capable people...
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What We Wish Women Knew About Men
If you’ve ever wondered what men are really looking for when they’re dating, this episode offers a closer look at the signals, behaviors, and dynamics that can shape attraction and connection. We dive into what men notice, what makes them feel appreciated, and why clearly showing interest can…
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Dating, Fertility & Surrogacy: Amy Weinblum's Story
What happens when life doesn't follow the timeline you imagined? In this episode, Amy Weinblum shares her deeply personal journey through dating, fertility, and ultimately choosing surrogacy to become a mother. She reflects on the expectations many women grow up with, the reality of navigating...
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Why Dating Is a Skill, Not Just Luck
If modern dating feels harder than it should, you're not imagining it—and this episode explores why. In this conversation, we unpack how technology, social media, and changing social habits have transformed the way people meet, communicate, and build relationships. From approaching someone in…
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The Biggest Dating Mistakes People Don't Realize They're Making
If you've ever wondered whether you should trust the butterflies or focus on long-term compatibility, this episode explores the difference—and why it matters. We dive into one of the biggest misconceptions in modern dating: the belief that instant chemistry is the best predictor of a successful...
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Success Story: When the Right Person Doesn't Match the Checklist
If you've ever dismissed someone because they didn't fit your usual type, this episode might make you think twice. In this conversation, Chris and Christine share the story of how they met, the assumptions they had going into dating, and why their relationship worked despite not checking every…
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Why You’re Not Getting the Results You Want ft. Alec Mountain
In this episode with Alec Mountain, we dive into the core ideas behind his book and the patterns that quietly shape how people show up in their lives, relationships, and work. Alec unpacks the main concept of the book and the stories that informed it, highlighting how behavior—not just...
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How to Meet People in Real Life (Without Dating Apps) ft. Chloe Dworkin
In a world where dating apps feel more frustrating than helpful, how do you actually meet someone in real life? In this episode, matchmaker Chloe Dworkin breaks down what it really takes to build meaningful romantic connections offline—from knowing where to meet people, to how confidence and...
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Building Three Day Rule Into a Modern Matchmaking Empire
In this episode of You Seem Great, we sit down with Talia Goldstein, founder of Three Day Rule, to talk about the journey of building one of the most recognized modern matchmaking companies. From early startup challenges to scaling a people-first brand in the dating industry, Talia shares candid...
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The Psychology of Attraction, Confidence & Healthy Relationships ft. Bree Jacoby
If you’ve ever wondered how confidence, attraction, and self-worth all connect in dating and relationships, this episode gets into it. Along with celebrity stylist and fashion expert Bree Jacoby, we talk about the psychology behind style, the energy people bring into relationships, and how...
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What People Get Wrong About Healthy Love
If you’ve ever wondered what a healthy, supportive relationship actually looks like day-to-day, this episode gets into it. Along with our guest, Lauren Youash, we talk about what it means to truly get to know someone over time — beyond first impressions — and how the right relationship is built...
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Are Your Dating Standards Helping You… or Hurting You?
If you’ve ever felt like dating gets more complicated — not easier — as you get older, this episode gets into why. Along with our guest, Monique, we talk about how expectations shift over time, the unspoken pressures that come with age, and how those factors can shape the way people approach…
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Divorce, Dating, and the Patterns No One Talks About
If you’ve ever felt like you’re dating different people but somehow ending up in the same relationship, this episode gets into why. Along with relationship and divorce coach Laila Aitken Ali, we explore the patterns that shape who we’re attracted to, how we show up, and why those patterns can be…
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A Matchmaking Success: The Shift That Happens Before Love Works
If dating, relationships, or even just figuring yourself out has felt complicated lately, this episode will feel very familiar. Along with our guest, Jana Davidoff, we get into the realities of what happens when something meaningful actually comes along — and why it’s not always as simple as just...
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Do Nice Guys Finish Last?
We’ve all heard the phrase — but is it actually true? In this episode, we dig into the psychology behind why “nice” can sometimes be misread in modern dating, and what really creates attraction, momentum, and long-term partnership potential. We explore how effort, authenticity, and emotional...
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The Stories We Tell Ourselves ft. Monisha Chandanani
If dating lately feels frustrating, exhausting, or just plain confusing, you’re not alone — and this episode gets into why. Along with our guest, Monisha Chandanani, we talk about the hidden habits, mindset blocks, and cultural pressures that can quietly hold people back from forming real...
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Inside the Mind of a Single Man in Los Angeles
What’s actually going on in a single man’s head when he’s dating? In this episode, we sit down with a Los Angeles bachelor to unpack how men experience attraction, connection, and emotional signals — often very differently than we assume. From the green flags that genuinely stand out to the…
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How to Know When to Work It Out — and When to Call It Quits
How do you tell the difference between a relationship that needs effort… and one that’s simply not meant to last? In this episode, we dive into the tension between chemistry and compatibility, the habits we overlook when we’re trying to make something work, and the moments that quietly signal it...
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BONUS Episode: Why are more women giving up on dating?
More women are stepping away from dating — and this episode explores why. We talk about how relationships have changed, shifting expectations around partnership, and why dating can feel exhausting or unfulfilling for many women today. We cover ambition, independence, emotional labor, evolving...
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Why am I attracting emotionally unavailable people?
If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men or women, there’s usually a deeper reason — and it’s not bad luck. In this episode, we explore what emotional unavailability really looks like, why it can feel familiar or attractive, and how these patterns develop. We talk about boundaries,...
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Compatibility Check: How to Know If Someone Is Right for You
Chemistry can feel exciting, but compatibility is what determines whether a relationship can actually last. In this episode, we break down how to identify true compatibility in a partner — and why so many people keep repeating the same dating patterns. We discuss dating on autopilot, overlooked…
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Into You or Just Friendly? How to Tell the Difference
How can you tell if someone is genuinely interested — or if you’re being quietly friend-zoned? In this episode, we unpack the most common signs of attraction, mixed signals, and emotional confusion in modern dating. We talk about effort, flirting, reliability, timing, and how interest often shows...
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Seasonal Trends in Dating
In today’s episode, we’re diving into seasonal trends in dating, how the time of year can shape your love life more than you think. We’ll walk through what dating looks like in each season, from cozy winter cuffing to the breezy energy of summer, and break down the pros and cons that come with...
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Welcome back to You Seem Great: Season 3
Welcome back to You Seem Great! We’re officially kicking off Season 3 with this quick intro. We’re sharing what this season is all about, why we’re excited to be back, and what’s coming next — from real dating patterns we’re seeing right now to honest conversations about modern love…
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You Seem Great… but we need to talk about fighting fair
Welcome back to You Seem Great! In this episode, we're getting into something every couple faces eventually — conflict. But not all fights are created equal. We explore the most common fighting styles, how they show up in relationships, and why the way you argue might matter more than the…
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You Seem Great… but something’s blocking the spark
You know that feeling when everything looks good on paper — the vibe, the values, even the banter — but something just isn’t clicking? In this episode, we explore the invisible roadblocks that show up in dating: emotional unavailability, timing mismatches, or that subtle disconnect you can’t…
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You Seem Great… but something’s blocking the spark
You know that feeling when everything looks good on paper — the vibe, the values, even the banter — but something just isn’t clicking? In this episode, we explore the invisible roadblocks that show up in dating: emotional unavailability, timing mismatches, or that subtle disconnect you can’t…
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Green Flags with guest Lisa Elson
In this week’s episode of You Seem Great, Becca and Talia are joined by Lisa Elson to dive into the positive signs in relationships — the green flags that show when things are really going well. Together, they explore how to recognize behaviors and patterns that signal a healthy, thriving...
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You Seem Great… but some things are always true
Welcome back to You Seem Great! This week, we’re diving into the universal truths of dating — the patterns and lessons that hold up no matter who you are, how old you are, or how many dating apps you’ve deleted and re-downloaded. In this episode, we reflect on why your person might show up in a...
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You Seem Great… but this season is different
Welcome back to You Seem Great! We're kicking off Season 2 with a fresh focus and a deeper look at what matchmaking really means — not just finding the “right” person, but figuring out what right feels like for you. Expect more honest conversations, more nuance, and a matchmaking lens that goes...
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You Seem Great… and we can’t wait to see you again soon!
In this week’s episode of You Seem Great, we’re diving into cuffing season and how to make the most of this cozy time of year! We’ll share why this season offers so much for singles as the colder months approach and how to embrace this time of year with intention. Plus, we share a podcast update…
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You Seem Great… and you’re ready to date after a breakup
In this week’s episode of You Seem Great, we’re diving into the post-breakup dating world! Whether you’re feeling unsure about getting back out there or simply looking for guidance, we’ve got you covered. We’ll discuss how to heal from a breakup, rebuild your confidence, and approach dating with…
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You Seem Great… but you could use some help with flirting
In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're diving into the art of flirting! Whether flirting feels like a challenge or you're just looking for fresh ideas, we've got you covered. We'll break down everything you need to know, from mastering the slow burn flirt to acing a first date flirt, and...
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Empowering Neurodivergent Daters: Insights with Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh
In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we sit down with Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh, a dynamic duo specializing in coaching autistic and neurodivergent individuals on dating. Together, we explore practical strategies to help neurodivergent daters navigate the complexities of relationships and…
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You Seem Great… but you feel anxious about dating
In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we dive into the topic of dating anxiety and offer practical solutions to help ease your nerves in the search for love. Whether you're struggling with the fear of rejection, past relationship trauma, or feeling the pressure of societal expectations, this...
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Dating Over 60 with Maryann Roberts
In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're joined by Maryann Roberts, a matchmaker with Three Day Rule, to discuss the ins and outs of dating over 60. We'll explore the pros and cons of finding love later in life, how to approach relationships at this stage, and the role of technology and...
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You Seem Great… and you’re wanting to date long distance
In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're diving into the world of long-distance dating. With more singles open to dating beyond their city since the pandemic, we're here to show you how to make it work! We’ll explore everything from where to search for a long-distance partner to how to…
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Prenups and Dating: Building Stronger Relationships with Raymond Hekmat
In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we sit down with "The Prenup Guy" Raymond Hekmat to discuss the often misunderstood topic of prenuptial agreements and their role in fostering stronger relationships. Raymond sheds light on how prenups aren't just for marriage but can be a tool for...
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Dating in Miami with Elisa Del Castillo
In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're continuing our city series with special guest, matchmaker Elisa Del Castillo. Join us as we dive into the vibrant Miami dating scene and explore how Latin culture plays a significant role in shaping relationships. Elisa shares insider tips on the…
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Q&A with Talia and Becca
In this week's episode of the You Seem Great Podcast, Talia and Becca dive into your most pressing questions! This special Q&A session covers essential topics like how to manage burnout, navigating the path to exclusivity in relationships, and overcoming the challenges of dating as a parent....
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High Achievers’ Guide to Love: Insights from Simone Grossman
In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we discuss dating with VIP Matchmaker Simone Grossman. Simone brings her expertise in helping high-achieving individuals navigate the complexities of finding a stable partner. Key Takeaways: Navigating Dating as a Successful Professional: Explore the…
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Navigating Money and Love with Dr. Jenny Olson
In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we delve into the intersection of money and love with Dr. Jenny Olson, Assistant Professor of Marketing at Indiana University's Kelley School of Business. Dr. Olson's expertise lies in consumer behavior, particularly within interpersonal contexts. Key...
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The Intersection of Technology and Love with Liesel Sharabi
In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we welcome Liesel Sharabi, Associate Professor at Arizona State University. Liesel, an expert in communication technologies, explores how these tools shape the ways we start, sustain, and end relationships. Key Takeaways: Effective Use of Dating Apps:...
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Cultural Identity and Dating: Insights from Communication Expert Dr. Sunny Lie Owens
In this week's episode of You Seem Great, join us for an enlightening conversation with Sunny Lie Owens, Associate Professor of Communication at CalPoly Pomona. Sunny, an expert in culture and communication, delves into the intricate relationship between religious communication and ethnic…
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Dating after Divorce with Melissa Rogers
In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we dive deep into the world of dating post-divorce with expert matchmaker Melissa Rogers. Melissa offers her professional insights on knowing when you're ready to start dating again, navigating those crucial first dates, and building confidence after a...
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You seem great… and you’re curious about matchmaking and date coaching
This week, we're giving you a peek behind the curtain of the matchmaking process. Get all your questions answered, from understanding the costs and choosing the right company to asking the best questions when hiring a matchmaker. Plus, we break down what date coaching is and address some of the...
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You seem great… but you miss connecting in the wild
This week, we're diving into everything you need to know about making organic connections. Whether you're looking to enhance your dating life or build meaningful relationships, we've got you covered with a step-by-step guide. Discover proven techniques to establish genuine relationships...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Welcome to the You Seem Great podcast, where Talia Goldstein and Becca Klein talk about swiping, dating, and relationships. Each episode covers specific topics to help listeners better understand and navigate early dating and relationship building. With over 20 years of combined experience as matchmakers and experts in the field, Talia and Becca offer a unique perspective that every single needs to hear. Tune in weekly for the latest insights and learn how to become a better dater. Dating is hard, but the You Seem Great podcast is here to help.
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Welcome to the You Seem Great podcast, where Talia Goldstein and Becca Klein talk about swiping, dating, and relationships. Each episode covers specific topics to help listeners better understand and navigate early dating and relationship building. With over 20 years of combined experience as...
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