how to be a better friend to your friends with kids

In this episode, we’re talking about something we’ve been thinking about a lot lately: what it actually means to be a good friend to friends who have kids—when that’s not your life.Because here’s the truth:You can love your friends deeply… and still not fully understand what they need.We’ve both had moments where we thought we were showing up well—only to realize there was a gap between our intentions and our impact.So today, we’re unpacking that.We talk about:Why “let me know how I can help” doesn’t actually helpThe subtle ways we (as non-parents) sometimes miss the markWhat’s really going on beneath the surface for friends with kidsHow friendships shift in your 30s—and how to evolve with themWhat being part of someone’s “village” actually looks like in real lifeThis isn’t about guilt or pressure.It’s about awareness, intention, and becoming a more thoughtful friend—without losing yourself in the process.Because being a villager isn’t about doing everything. It’s about choosing to show up… in ways that actually land.