How to Be an Epic Lover — It Starts Long Before the Bedroom | #10

Most people think being a better lover means learning new positions, lasting longer, or performing better. But the truth? Epic lovemaking starts long before you’re naked.In this solo episode, Shari takes you back to a moment that changed everything — a conversation in a sun-soaked jungle cabin in Nicaragua that sparked the very idea for this podcast. When a fellow traveler asked her, “What would you tell me if I wanted to be a better lover?” … she realized it’s not about technique. It’s about connection — with yourself, your body, and the person in front of you.Inside this juicy, heart-opening episode, you’ll learn: ✨ Why being an epic lover begins with how you love yourself ✨ The 5 bodies that come together during true intimacy — physical, mental, emotional, energetic, and spiritual ✨ How to communicate your desires and create emotional safety in bed ✨ The secret to rewiring shame around your genitals and feeling confident in your pleasure ✨ Why following the path of pleasure leads to more connection, deeper orgasms, and pure embodimentThis isn’t about performance. It’s about presence. It’s about bringing your full self — body, heart, and energy — into every moment of intimacy.So if you’ve ever wondered how to become a more connected, magnetic, and unforgettable lover… this episode is your invitation to slow down, feel more, and fall back in love with your own body.---LINKSI have 2 coaching opportunities open starting as of mid-November: send me an email with your desire to [email protected] and let's see if there is a match.If you're interested in the course on How to Pleasure the Penis, click here: https://sharivandecraen.plugandpay.nl/checkout/secrets-of-sensual-touch---Connect with ShariFollow @shari.vandecraen on Instagram for sensual tools, embodiment practices, and weekly turn-on inspo. Listen to more episodes, explore workshops, and download your pleasure guides at → www.sharivandecraen.comFollow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraenFollow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radianceVisit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com