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EPISODE · Dec 12, 2025 · 40 MIN

How to Cope With Grief That No One Understands

from The Heart of Hospice Podcast · host Helen Bauer BSN RN CHPN

There isn’t a greeting card for every type of grief.  Dr. Ken Doka joins the podcast in this episode to talk about anticipatory and disenfranchised grief.  Before death even occurs, people are grieving - anticipating the loss of identity, functional ability, roles, and relationships as well as the actual loss that comes with death itself.  This kind of grief is felt by both the person who’s dying and the caregivers and family.  Disenfranchised grief occurs when the relationship with the deceased person wasn’t one that’s recognized by society, and can't be publically mourned.  Ex-spouses, abusive and estranged relationships can all be situations of disenfranchised grief.  It can be difficult to find support for grief like this, making the griever feel isolated.  Disenfranchised grief can be more complicated than grief related to healthy and close relationships.   If you need information about grief, check out the Hospice and Grief Info section of the Hospice Foundation of America’s website.   Website: hospicefoundation.org Research on grieving: hospicefoundation.org/research-on-grief-and-grieving Grief and other types of loss: hospicefoundation.org/grief-and-other-types-of-loss Facebook: www.facebook.com/hospicefoundation Instagram: www.instagram.com/hfahospice X: x.com/hfahospice Hospice Navigation Services understands that you need unbiased, expert support to have the best end of life experience possible.  And we believe you deserve to get good hospice care.  If you have questions about hospice care for yourself or someone you care about, Hospice Navigation Services can help.  Whether you want to connect by phone or video, you can book a FREE 30-Minute Hospice Navigation Session, or a more in-depth 60-Minute Navigation Session for $95.  If you need to troubleshoot the care you’re already receiving, we’re here to answer your questions.  A 60-Minute Navigation Session by video call allows up to 3 family members to get the same expert information at the same time. Book a session with an expert Hospice Navigator at theheartofhospice.com.   Connect with The Heart of Hospice Podcast and host Helen Bauer Website:  theheartofhospice.com Social media:  Facebook     Twitter    Instagram   LinkedIn Email:  [email protected] More podcast episodes:  The Heart of Hospice Podcast Podcast host Helen Bauer is a great addition to your event or conference! For speaking inquiries, send an email to [email protected].

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There isn’t a greeting card for every type of grief.  Dr. Ken Doka joins the podcast in this episode to talk about anticipatory and disenfranchised grief.  Before death even occurs, people are grieving - anticipating the loss of identity, functional...

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