How to Decenter Dating & Alcohol

Episode 2 of the F*CK THAT SHIT podcast, hosted by Emma, titled "How to Decenter Dating & Alcohol " was published on January 8, 2026 and runs 60 minutes.

January 8, 2026 ·60m · F*CK THAT SHIT

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Summary

In this episode, we sit down with Sam Bail to talk about the complexities of navigating relationships, particularly through the lens of dating apps and the impact of COVID-19 on personal growth.We discuss:Breakups and the transition to online datingHow the pandemic disrupted our plans for self-improvement and social engagementWhat it means to decenter both alcohol and dating in our livesFinding authentic connections in a world that often feels performativeSam shares her journey of creating intentional social spaces and rethinking what dating and connection can look like when you strip away the usual crutches.This conversation is for anyone who's ever felt like they're going through the motions in dating, using alcohol to make it more bearable, or wondering if there's a different way to show up for themselves and others.Guest: Sam BailWebsite: https://www.brightnightssocial.com/#aboutNewsletter: https://brightnightssocial.substack.com/Instagram: @brightnightssocialConnect with the show: Instagram: @fckthatshitpod

Episode Description

In this episode, we sit down with Sam Bail to talk about the complexities of navigating relationships, particularly through the lens of dating apps and the impact of COVID-19 on personal growth.

We discuss:

Breakups and the transition to online dating
How the pandemic disrupted our plans for self-improvement and social engagement
What it means to decenter both alcohol and dating in our lives
Finding authentic connections in a world that often feels performative

Sam shares her journey of creating intentional social spaces and rethinking what dating and connection can look like when you strip away the usual crutches.

This conversation is for anyone who's ever felt like they're going through the motions in dating, using alcohol to make it more bearable, or wondering if there's a different way to show up for themselves and others.

Guest: Sam Bail