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In this episode of The Dating Diaries, Emma gets personal about what it's like to navigate a new romantic connection when your nervous system was taught to be suspicious of the good things. She talks about catching feelings and not trusting them, the pull toward assuming the worst in someone who has done nothing wrong, and why she's choosing to stay instead of run — because everything is data, clarity doesn't equal safety, and sometimes the slow burn is exactly what healing looks like. This one is for anyone who has ever talked themselves out of something good before it even had a chance.Follow us on Instagram and TikTok for behind-the-scenes clips, reflections, and updates from The Dating Diaries — find us at @fckthatshitpod on Instagram and @emmaglobina on TikTok. Visit us at fckthatshitpod.com for merch and more, and subscribe to our Substack for the latest updates!

In this episode of Fuck That Shit, Emma sits down with the one and only Dirty Lola — sex educator, Netflix sexpert, creator of Sex Ed A Go-Go, and your go-to when you want sex ed served hot, honest, and a little hilarious. Dirty Lola has been getting real about sex, polyamory, and kink for over a decade, with a microphone in one hand and a dildo in the other, dropping knowledge on Netflix, HBO, Vice, and The Cut's YouTube channel, and making it her mission to smash stigma, spread joy, and help folks find their pleasure groove. Together they get into what it really means to be a picky slut, why cheating is just unethical non-monogamy, how to know what kind of lover you actually are, and how to get back out into the world and meet people like a human being again. Find Dirty Lola at dirtylola.co and on Instagram @dirtylola — and follow us on Instagram @fckthatshitpod and TikTok @emmaglobina for behind the scenes clips, reflections, and updates from The Dating Diaries. Visit us at fckthatshitpod.com for merch and more, and subscribe to our Substack for the latest updates!

Dating is supposed to be about connection — so why does it feel so lonely? In this episode, Emma sits down with Isabella Cassell, founder of The Full and creator of the NYC Dating Collective, to get honest about why modern dating feels so hard, what our swiping habits are actually revealing about us, and why ease might be the missing ingredient we're all overlooking. They get into the real cost of over-giving, what it means to live a full life before love finds you, and the one practice that changes everything: learning to sit with uncertainty without making it mean something about your worth. If you've ever felt like you were doing everything right and still couldn't figure out why dating felt so exhausting — this episode is for you. Find Isabella and her work at jointhefull.com.IG: @jointhefull and follow us on Instagram @fckthatshitpod and TikTok @emmaglobina for behind-the-scenes clips, reflections, and updates from The Dating Diaries. Visit us at fckthatshitpod.com for merch and more, and subscribe to our Substack for the latest updates!

In this episode, I sit down with Vaish Sesetty and Cyrus Belsoi, the founders of Pique — a human connection organization based in NYC on a mission to bring the human back to human connection. We get into how Pique evolved from a dating app into a full community experience built around in-person events, vulnerability, and genuine connection of all forms. We talk about the Love Wall, creating safe spaces for authentic interaction, what it actually means to build community in a city full of people who are somehow still lonely, and why adults deserve playful environments that challenge everything we think we know about how connection is supposed to look. This one is warm, real, and a reminder that the most radical thing you can do right now is just show up for each other. Find Pique on Instagram at @pique.community and follow us on Instagram @fckthatshitpod and TikTok @emmaglobina for behind-the-scenes clips, reflections, and updates from The Dating Diaries. Visit us at fckthatshitpod.com for merch and more, and subscribe to our Substack for the latest updates!

In this personal vignette, I'm getting real about self trust — what it looks like when it's missing, what it feels like when it starts coming back, and what happens when someone unexpected shows up and makes it really hard to keep hiding from yourself. We're talking about the sorry habit, the holding back, the skin itching and crawling the moment something genuinely good shows up — and why all of it comes down to one thing: not trusting yourself enough to believe you deserve it. This one is personal, it's honest, and if you've ever been your own worst enemy when it comes to just being present in something that might actually be working out — this episode is for you. Fuck that shit to not trusting yourself. Follow us on Instagram and TikTok for behind-the-scenes clips, reflections, and updates from The Dating Diaries — find us at @fckthatshitpod on Instagram and @emmaglobina on TikTok. Visit us at fckthatshitpod.com for merch and more, and subscribe to our Substack for the latest updates!

In this episode, I sit down with Benjamin Camras (@benjamincamras) — flirt and dating coach, host of the Flirtations Flirtcast, and self-proclaimed lifelong introvert — to talk about what it really means to flirt fearlessly. Benjamin shares his journey of navigating social anxiety and depression while helping singles and daters build confidence, clarity, and connection in all its forms. We get into micro flirting, repatterning your nervous system, the self-belief work behind showing up boldly, and why taking a pause might just be the most powerful move you can make. His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Yoga Journal — and trust me, this conversation delivers. Follow Benjamin on Instagram and TikTok and stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts. For more Fuck That Shit content, follow us on Instagram @fckthatshitpod and TikTok @emmaglobina, visit us at fckthatshitpod.com for merch and more, and subscribe to our Substack for the latest updates!

In this episode of The Dating Diaries, Emma gets into what it actually looks like to stop following a healing rulebook that was never really hers — and start living by her own rules. She shares what went down with Mr. New Years (including the most unhinged plot twist), how she hosted her own Hottie Hour to prove you don't need an event to give yourself permission to connect, and yes — why she, the girl who said fck that shit to dating apps, downloaded a dating app. This one's for anyone who's been so busy doing it right that they forgot to actually do it. Healed enough to misbehave on purpose? Let's get into it.Follow us on Instagram and TikTok for behind-the-scenes clips, reflections, and updates from The Dating Diaries.Instagram: @fckthatshitpodTikTok: @emmaglobinaWebsite: ⁠https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/⁠Merch: ⁠https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/store⁠Substack: ⁠https://substack.com/@fckthatshitpod?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-page⁠

Ted Nimbe is the founder of Lunaire, a social events company reimagining the way people meet in real life. Built on the belief that connection should feel natural rather than performative, Lunaire creates carefully curated social nights across London's warmest, most vibrant spaces — warm lighting, balanced rooms, grounded energy, and zero pressure. No apps, no algorithms. Just people open to connecting.In this episode, Emma sits down with Ted to explore why modern dating feels so broken and what it looks like to actually do something about it. They get into the stigma around singles events, how intentional room design shapes the way people show up, the role of vulnerability and emotional openness in real connection, and why taking a break from dating apps might be the most radical thing you can do for your love life.Key Takeaways:A well-designed environment can do more for connection than any algorithmVulnerability isn't weakness — it's the entry point to anything realThe antidote to app fatigue is showing up, literallyGenuine connection requires slowness, intention, and a little courageFollow Lunaire & Ted:Instagram: @lunaire.clubWebsite: https://www.lunaire.club/Follow us on Instagram and TikTok for behind-the-scenes clips, reflections, and updates from The Dating Diaries. Instagram: @fckthatshitpod TikTok: @emmaglobina Website: ⁠⁠https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/⁠⁠ Merch: ⁠⁠https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/store⁠⁠ Substack: ⁠⁠https://substack.com/@fckthatshitpod?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-page

In this episode, we sit down with Ariana Nathani, founder of Drinks First — a media and events company that has built one of NYC's most beloved communities around getting people out from behind their screens and into the same room.We discuss:How COVID-19 reshaped dating culture and what it actually cost us sociallyWhy anonymity creates safety — and how that safety opens people up to real connectionThe unique dynamics of dating in New York City and how cultural differences shape the way we show up for each otherWhat it's actually like to navigate your own dating life while building a platform centered on everyone else'sAriana shares how Drinks First grew from a scrappy dating podcast to a Sirius XM-signed show with over 90,000 followers, 1 million TikTok likes, and events drawing up to 2,000 people across NYC — and what she's learned along the way about creating spaces where connection can actually happen.This conversation is for anybody who's tired of swiping, craving something more real, and wondering how to actually meet people in the world again.Follow Ariana & Drinks First for more IG/ TikTok: @ariana.nathani / @drinks.first Follow us on Instagram and TikTok for behind-the-scenes clips, reflections, and updates from The Dating Diaries. Instagram: @fckthatshitpod TikTok: @emmaglobina Website: ⁠https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/⁠ Merch: ⁠https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/store⁠ Substack: ⁠https://substack.com/@fckthatshitpod?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-page

In this episode of Fck That Shit*, Emma Shull speaks directly to survivors of sexual assault, sharing her personal journey of healing and how it has shaped the way she navigates vulnerability, safety, and dating. She unpacks the urge to control outcomes, define labels, and “need to know” as a way to avoid getting hurt, and explores the grief of heartbreaks that haven’t even happened yet. This conversation is about redefining safety as self-trust instead of control, allowing yourself to want something real without shame, and embracing uncertainty as a path to deeper connection. Follow us on Instagram and TikTok for behind-the-scenes clips, reflections, and updates from The Dating Diaries. Instagram: @fckthatshitpod TikTok: @emmaglobina Website: https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/ Merch: https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/store Substack: https://substack.com/@fckthatshitpod?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-page

In this episode, we sit down with Claire Fountain to explore the complexities of dating, trauma, and healing while staying open to connection. Together, we unpack how past experiences shape our nervous systems, influence what feels “safe” in relationships, and impact the way we show up in modern dating.We discuss:The difference between safety and comfort—and why they often get confused after traumaHow shame shows up when we don’t know what we want or don’t like what we choseThe role of embodiment and self-trust in dating and relationshipsSetting boundaries while remaining open to love and connectionClaire shares her journey from yoga and movement into psychotherapy, offering insights rooted in somatic healing, mindfulness, and lived experience. This conversation is for anyone navigating dating as a trauma survivor, questioning old patterns, or learning how to approach connection with more curiosity, compassion, and agency.Guest: Claire Fountain (she/her)Website: https://www.clairefountain.com/aboutInstagram: @cbqualityFollow us on Instagram and TikTok for behind-the-scenes clips, reflections, and updates from The Dating Diaries.Instagram: @fckthatshitpodTikTok: @emmaglobinaWebsite: https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/Merch: https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/storeSubstack: https://substack.com/@fckthatshitpod?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-page

In this episode of The Dating Diaries, Emma Shull gets honest about the patterns that keep us stuck—examining how alcohol, people-pleasing, and avoidance can quietly shape our dating lives and sense of self-worth. Reflecting on her experience with Sober October, Emma shares how stepping away from drinking revealed deeper cycles of self-sabotage and disconnection, and how learning to trust her intuition became a practice in saying no—on dates, in relationships, and in life. This episode isn’t about perfection or quick fixes; it’s an invitation to notice the loops you’re in, question what’s no longer serving you, and consider what it might look like to choose yourself, even when it’s uncomfortable.Follow us on Instagram and TikTok for behind-the-scenes clips, reflections, and updates from The Dating Diaries.Instagram: @fckthatshitpodTikTok: @emmaglobinaWebsite: https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/Merch: https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/storeSubstack: https://substack.com/@fckthatshitpod?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-page

In this episode, we sit down with Sam Bail to talk about the complexities of navigating relationships, particularly through the lens of dating apps and the impact of COVID-19 on personal growth.We discuss:Breakups and the transition to online datingHow the pandemic disrupted our plans for self-improvement and social engagementWhat it means to decenter both alcohol and dating in our livesFinding authentic connections in a world that often feels performativeSam shares her journey of creating intentional social spaces and rethinking what dating and connection can look like when you strip away the usual crutches.This conversation is for anyone who's ever felt like they're going through the motions in dating, using alcohol to make it more bearable, or wondering if there's a different way to show up for themselves and others.Guest: Sam BailWebsite: https://www.brightnightssocial.com/#aboutNewsletter: https://brightnightssocial.substack.com/Instagram: @brightnightssocialConnect with the show: Instagram: @fckthatshitpod

SummaryIn this episode one of the Dating Diaries, Emma Shull shares her personal journey through the complexities of dating, self-worth, and the impact of past trauma. She reflects on her experiences with dating apps, the societal pressures surrounding relationships, and the importance of self-discovery. Emma emphasizes the need to reject forced connections and mindless swiping, advocating for genuine human connection and self-empowerment.Follow our instagram and tiktok to keep up behind the scenes. IG- @fckthatshitpodTiktok- @emmaglobinaWebsite: https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/Merch: https://www.fckthatshitpod.com/storeSubstack: https://substack.com/@fckthatshitpod?utm_campaign=profile&utm_medium=profile-page

The Dating Diaries is a F*ck That Shit podcast season exploring what happens when we stop swiping and start showing up. Through thoughtful, personal reflections and candid conversations, host Emma Shull documents her own journey of navigating dating without the apps—pushing past comfort zones, flirting IRL, and learning how to build connection with intention.Each episode peels back the layers of modern romance, spotlighting guests who are challenging the digital dating status quo and finding love, intimacy, or self-discovery in unexpected ways. From solo musings to community wisdom, The Dating Diaries is a call to unplug, reconnect, and reimagine what dating can feel like—off the screen and in real life.

In this powerful episode of FCK THAT SHT, I sit down with the iconic burlesque queen, Perle Noire, to explore her journey of transforming stigma into strength and using seduction as a tool for liberation. Known for her captivating performances and trailblazing work in redefining sensuality and self-love, Perle Noire has empowered over 5,000 women and femmes through her signature workshop, Healing Through Seduction.We discuss:How Perle Noire reclaimed her narrative through art and sensuality.The process of turning stigma into empowerment and healing.Her philosophy of self-love, authenticity, and embracing your inner diva.The impact of her Healing Through Seduction workshops and how they continue to inspire women to connect deeply with themselves.Connect with Perle Noire:🌐 Website: blackburlesquequeen.com📸 Instagram: @theperlenoire

In this provocative and thought-provoking episode of F*ck That Shit, we’re stripping away the layers of shame, stigma, and societal expectations with the brilliant Fancy Feast—a Brooklyn-based burlesque performer, writer, and sex educator.Together, we explore:🔥 The intersections of burlesque, drag, and sex work🔥 How shame is weaponized—and monetized—against sex workers🔥 Reversing the spectator's gaze and reclaiming power in performance🔥 The role of filth and obscenity in challenging societal norms🔥 Embodiment in a digital world and why presence matters🔥 Why supporting sex workers means paying for their laborThrough personal anecdotes, cultural critiques, and deep reflections, Fancy Feast shares how performance can be both a mirror and a megaphone—confronting discomfort, transforming perspectives, and breaking down barriers.🔗 Learn more about Fancy Feast: fancyfeastburlesque.com✨ Join us as we say F*ck That Shit to shame and celebrate the power of erotic labor.

In this episode of F*ck That Shit, we sit down with Gigi Holliday—burlesque icon, educator, and co-host of Assorted Chocolates Podcast. Ranked #8 most influential burlesque performer in the world, Gigi opens up about navigating family judgment, fighting for industry recognition, and unapologetically choosing herself. From stripping to burlesque to dominatrix work, she shares how she built a career on her own terms, embraced financial independence, and found power in defying expectations.🎙 Takeaways:✨ The challenges of family acceptance and reclaiming your narrative✨ Why burlesque is business—demanding respect, safety, and fair pay✨ The power of community in erotic labor and performance spaces✨ Embracing your “villain era” to put yourself first🔥 Listen now and step into your audacity!Want to learn more about Gigi and her work? https://www.gigiholliday.com@gigiholliday

The Darkly Divine: The Evolution of Erotic LaborIn this episode of Stripping Away Stigma, we sit down with Artina Darkly—a powerhouse performer, producer, and advocate reshaping the landscape of nightlife and sex work. With over a decade in the industry, Artina has carved out spaces that uplift, educate, and empower.We explore her journey from stripping to burlesque, the stigma that still lingers within erotic labor, and the transformative power of performance. Artina shares how she’s breaking barriers and building community through her work, proving that sex work is not just survival—it’s an art form, a legacy, and a force for change.Key Takeaways:✨ The intersection of burlesque, stripping, and sex work—why the ‘heauxarchy’ needs to go✨ The importance of creating safe spaces in nightlife and beyond✨ How performance can be a tool for self-discovery, activism, and healing✨ Breaking the stigma: What it really means to be a sex worker in today’s worldWhere to Find Artina Darkly & Her Work:🔥 X.E.S Swrks Seminars – A quarterly series creating educational and supportive spaces for sex workers🔥 Dark Opulence – A weekly variety show celebrating sensuality and artistry (Saturdays at Pink Metal BK, 9 PM)🔥 A Dazzling Dark Night – A monthly classical burlesque showcase (One Thursday a month at Le Boudoir BK, 8 PM)Follow @ArtinaDarkly for updates on performances, events, and advocacy!🎧 Tune in now & strip away the stigma with us!

In this episode of F*ck That Shit: Stripping Away Stigma, we sit down with the incredible AM Davies—a retired stripper, producer of Yes, a Stripper Podcast, and a fierce advocate for sex worker rights. With 20 years of experience in the industry, AMD has navigated the highs and lows of erotic labor, from personal empowerment to systemic challenges, and is now dedicated to amplifying the voices of sex workers worldwide.We dive into:✨ The realities of working in erotic labor & industry exploitation✨ Life after a career-ending injury & reclaiming power✨ The fight against stigma, SESTA/FOSTA, & harmful legislation✨ Addressing the “But what about benefits?” argument✨ The intersection of stripping, autonomy, and advocacyAMD’s journey is one of resilience, activism, and radical self-acceptance. By the end of this conversation, you’ll be saying F*ck That Shit to whorephobia and the systems that perpetuate it.📲 Instagram: @amdavies_🎙 Yes, a Stripper Podcast: @yesastripperpodcast💻 Website: Yes, a Stripper Podcast🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts!

In this episode of Fck That Shit, I sit down with the magnetic and titillating Honeybaby—a transsexual kink provider, educator, peer coach, and performer—whose work explores the intersection of eroticism, disability, mental health, healing, and connection.We dive into:🔥 The transformative power of the erotic as a tool for personal and collective healing🔥 Navigating sex work while balancing multiple identities🔥 The urgent need for accessibility in nightlife and sex work spaces🔥 The impact of community, boundaries, and self-acceptance in both performance and advocacyHoneybaby is not only a performer and educator but also a passionate advocate for disability and mental health inclusion. They co-facilitate a free Virtual SWer Support Group every Monday—DM them if you’re interested!📲 Follow Honeybaby on IG:@honeybabynyc📩 For education, facilitation & performance inquiries: [email protected]🔗 For SW/kink-related connections: [email protected]’s strip away the stigma and say Fck That Shit to disability exclusion and erasure. Tune in now!

In this episode, we sit down with Cha Cha, a body-affirming photographer, burlesque performer, and producer of Hexes & Heauxs, a show centering Black, Brown, Trans, Fat, and Queer nightlife artists. They dive into the journey from photography to performance, the power of self-portraits, and the challenges of representation in burlesque. Cha Cha shares insights on building a community, balancing motherhood and art, and why holding space for marginalized voices is an act of resistance.✨ Key Takeaways:Burlesque as empowerment & self-expressionThe importance of consent & control in performanceTreating show production as a businessPrioritizing mental health & community support🔗 Connect with Cha Cha:📸 Photography: cheyennegil.com📷 IG: @chachamamaburlesque / @cheyennegilVenmo: @chacha-mama

In this episode of Stripping Away Stigma, I sit down with the electrifying Queerly Femmetastic—a Brooklyn-bred bombshell, internationally renowned ecdysiast, and Grand Master Funk of the 2024 What the Funk Festival.We dive into the erased Black history of burlesque, the whorearchy that divides erotic labor, and how outdated blue laws still police performers. Queerly shares insights on consent in performance spaces, the power of costuming, and why cash is queen. Through humor and wisdom, she reminds us to honor our past, reject stigma, and take up space unapologetically.Key Takeaways:🔥 Burlesque has deep Black roots – Black shake-dancers and hoochie-coochie performers shaped the art form.🔥 F*ck the whorearchy – Erotic labor deserves respect across the board.🔥 Blue laws still restrict performance – Outdated legal restrictions police bodies on stage.🔥 Consent and etiquette matter – Audiences must respect performer boundaries.🔥 Costuming is an evolving skill – Creativity and patience build a burlesque persona.🔥 Cash is queen – Performance is labor and should be valued.🔥 Healing through burlesque – Sensuality and movement can be powerful tools for self-discovery.Follow Queerly Femmetastic:📸 Instagram: @queerly_femmetasticLinktree: https://linktr.ee/queerlyfemmetasticTip Queerly or Support their art here: https://ko-fi.com/queerlyfemmetasticStay Connected:💬 Follow me: @emmglobina / @fckthatshitpodIf you loved this episode, don’t forget to rate, review, and share! 💃🔥

In this episode of F*ck That Shit, host Emma Shull interviews Jackrabbit Slims, an Afro-Latina burlesque dancer and drag performer based in NYC. They discuss Jack's journey into burlesque and drag, the cultural influences shaping their artistry, and the challenges of navigating stigma while maintaining authenticity. Jack shares insights on body positivity, self-expression, and transitioning from performer to producer, as well as reflections on sobriety, personal growth, and the evolution of NYC's performance scene. The conversation explores the unique appeal of Coney Island pageants, the intersection of burlesque and sex work, and the importance of fair compensation for performers. Jack also highlights their current show, Los Diablos, and the significance of community support in their career. Tune in for a candid discussion on artistry, resilience, and breaking the rules in the world of burlesque. Stay tuned for the end, where Jack and Emma circle back about the question: Is Burlesque sex work?

In this episode, host Emma Shull sits down with Amanda Poise, a theater artist turned burlesque performer. Amanda shares how she built War in High Heels, a project that amplifies performer stories while navigating the intersections of family concerns, safety, and artistic freedom. Together, they unpack the nuances of burlesque as both a community and a scene, the challenges of imposter syndrome, and how city environments—from New York to Seattle—shape artistic expression. Through personal stories and reflections, Amanda reveals how burlesque is more than entertainment—it’s a form of storytelling, self-discovery, and rebellion. Rewriting the Narrative – Amanda’s shift from 16 years in theater to burlesque and what it taught her about artistic agency. Creating Your Own Stage – The origins of War in High Heels and how it amplifies diverse performer experiences. Navigating Stigma & Safety – Addressing family concerns and the broader societal misconceptions about burlesque. Authenticity in Performance – How different artistic spaces impact creativity and personal growth. Balancing Multiple Passions – Managing creative projects without being confined to a single identity. Saying ‘F*ck That Shit’ to Expectations – How burlesque empowers performers to reclaim their narratives on their own terms. This episode is an unfiltered look at how burlesque challenges norms, redefines artistic spaces, and offers a stage for radical self-expression. Learn more about Amanda and their work: https://amandapoise.com/warinhighheels Follow them on instagram: @poisonamanda and feel free to send them a tip for their thoughts! Venmo is @amandapoise and Cashapp is $sipsofpoison

Join us for an intimate conversation with actress, director, and sex work advocate Luna Sofia Miranda. From their beginnings as a college stripper to their recent success in the award-winning film Anora, we explore their mission to bridge the gap between Hollywood and sex work through authentic storytelling. In this episode, we dive deep into the realities of strip club culture, the power of community, and the importance of fair compensation in both the entertainment and sex work industries. Luna shares invaluable insights about creating change through representation, challenging industry norms, and the overlapping worlds of burlesque and sex work. Whether you're an artist, activist, or curious about authentic storytelling in Hollywood, this raw and honest discussion breaks down stigmas while offering meaningful perspectives on empowerment through art and activism. Topics include: - Journey from strip club to silver screen - Building bridges between entertainment and sex work - Creating platforms for marginalized voices - Empowering sex workers through education - Transforming Hollywood narratives - Finding community in unexpected places Follow Luna Sofia Miranda @lunasmic on Instagram and their cash app is $doctorxluna. Send them a tip if you loved the convo! You can also catch their latest film Anora now and stay tuned for her upcoming directorial project, FilmGirl.

Join us for an intimate conversation with award-winning burlesque performer and producer Qualms Galore. From their journey as a spectator to becoming "The Problem You Wish You Had," we explore the transformative power of burlesque and the importance of creating inclusive spaces in the industry. In this episode, we dive deep into navigating relationships, setting boundaries, and balancing artistry with privacy. Qualms shares invaluable insights about producing shows, maintaining authenticity, and the essential distinction between burlesque and sex work. Whether you're a performer, aspiring artist, or curious about the world of burlesque, this raw and honest discussion breaks down stigmas while offering practical wisdom about empowerment through performance. Topics include: - The journey from audience to stage - Creating inclusive performance spaces - Setting boundaries in relationships - Balancing day jobs with artistic pursuits - Building community in burlesque - Tips for new performers Follow Qualms Galore @qualmsgalore on instagram and Venmo. Send her a tip if you loved the convo! You can also, catch their show Snake Bite every third Wednesday at Medusa Bar in Brooklyn, New York.

Disclaimer: This episode contains discussions of sexual trauma, assault, and adult themes. Welcome to Season 3 of the F*ck That Sh*t Show! In this powerful season opener, Emma introduces "Stripping Away Stigma: Voices of Erotic Labor" by sharing her transformative journey into burlesque as Carmen Brûlée. From her sex-positive upbringing to discovering her power through performance, this episode sets the foundation for a season dedicated to challenging stigma and celebrating the diverse voices within erotic labor. Key Moments: * The radical feminist roots that shaped Emma's understanding of sex work and bodily autonomy * Discovering Josephine Baker and the enchanting world of burlesque * How the art of the tease became a pathway to healing and reclaiming power * Understanding and challenging whorephobia and the "whore-archy" * The mission behind "Stripping Away Stigma" and why these stories matter Upcoming Episodes: Get ready for a season of raw, honest conversations with diverse voices from the world of erotic labor. Each episode will challenge stereotypes, celebrate autonomy, and continue the mission of destigmatizing sex work through personal stories.

Have you ever felt judged for your choices? Stigmatized for your work? For your body? Your sexuality?  F*ck that shit. I'm Emma, and this season of "F*ck That Shit" is dedicated to the world of erotic labor - a journey that began with my own pursuit of burlesque.   In "Stripping Away Stigma: The Voices of Erotic Labor," we're getting real with burlesque dancers, strippers, and sex workers who refuse to let shame dictate their worth. We're calling out whorephobia, exposing the "whore-archy," and celebrating every shade of erotic expression as the powerful, valid art form it is. From stage to screen, club to OnlyFans, we're amplifying the voices society tries to shame. Because sex work, is real work. Your body. Your choice. Your power. It's time to strip away the stigma and start living free.   You with me? Let's get into it.

Welcome to the season recap of The Body Liberation season. This was a deeply personal journey inspired by my struggles with chronic pain, self-esteem, and body acceptance. In this episode, I reflect on the transformative conversations I had with incredible guests who taught me about undoing internalized fatphobia, challenging societal norms, and embracing self-love and liberation. From redefining fitness with Roz The Diva and Daven Gray to exploring size inclusivity in design with Margarita, and unlearning food shame with Christyna Johnson—every guest left me with invaluable lessons that reshaped my relationship with my body. Key takeaways include: Breaking the stigma around food morality and binge eating. Seeing the world through a lens of size inclusivity. Finding strength in what your body can do, not just how it looks. Building a support system of friends who hold space for your body image struggles. Prioritizing self-compassion over self-criticism. Tune in to hear how these lessons can inspire your own journey toward body liberation and why every body deserves to take up space unapologetically. 🎧 Ready to hear more? Hit play now!

In the finale of "Body Liberation: Redefining Wellness & Challenging Fatphobia," we explore the transformative power of pole dancing and fitness with Roz Mays. A NASM-certified personal trainer, pole diva, and fitness educator, Roz helps nontraditional athletes overcome gym-timidation and embrace their bodies through pole dancing, TRX, strength training, and mobility work. Roz shares her journey of navigating internalized fatphobia and finding body acceptance, highlighting how the sensuality of pole dancing has been a source of healing and empowerment. Featured by Google, Fitbit Premium, The New York Times, and Glamour, Roz's story challenges societal norms and redefines fitness and body liberation. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that will leave you feeling empowered to embrace your own dangerous curves. Find out more about Roz below! Website: https://www.rozthediva.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rozthediva/?hl=en Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/rozthediva

In this episode of F*CK THAT SHIT, we chat with Vera Schofield, a Toronto-based personal trainer and flexibility coach, who founded Flexibility with Vera to help people of all sizes and abilities reconnect with their bodies. Vera shares their journey to becoming a fitness professional, discussing how the pursuit of thinness led to injury and chronic pain. They advocate for a more inclusive approach to fitness, highlighting that all bodies can be flexible and strong. Tune in to learn about: The power of flexibility as fitness. Vera’s personal challenges and insights. The dangers of prioritizing thinness over wellness. Embracing flexibility and strength for every body. Join us for an inspiring conversation that redefines fitness and champions wellness for everyone. Wanna keep up with Vera? Find her on instagram and TikTok @flexwithvera and check her bio to join her discord.

In this episode of F*CK THAT SHIT, we explore the powerful link between body image, self-esteem, and mental health. Our guest, Emma Shakarshy, a clinical social worker specializing in supporting queer individuals, shares her insights on how cultural standards and societal expectations shape our self-perception and mental well-being. Ou guest, Emma discusses: The impact of body image and self-esteem on mental health. The influence of cultural nuances on our self-view. Strategies for fostering a healthier relationship with your body and mind. Join us for an enlightening conversation that will inspire you to rethink how you see yourself and improve your mental health. Want to connect with Emma? Check out her website and learn more about her practice: therapybyemma.com

Join us in this episode of "F*CK THAT SHIT" with Daven Gray, personal trainer and founder of Stronger NYC, —an initiative dedicated to creating stronger bodies and stronger communities. Daven discusses his journey as an athlete in a larger body. We explore how body image and self-esteem are influenced by various factors and delve into the power of mindfulness in movement. Daven highlights the importance of shifting away from weight loss as the primary goal, advocating for inclusive fitness routines that prioritize self-acceptance and present-moment joy over future-oriented outcomes. Connect with Daven on instagram and follow @stronger_nyc to learn more about his work. 

In this empowering episode of "F*CK THAT SHIT," we dive into the transformative journey of Marina Fragoulis, a professional violinist, mother, and amateur powerlifter. As part of our season "Body Liberation: Redefining Wellness & Challenging Fatphobia," Marina shares her unique story of growing up Greek, spending most of her life battling an eating disorder, and shifting through the chaos of a negative body image. Despite these challenges, she has found both recovery and body liberation through the strength and community of powerlifting. Join us as we explore how reclaiming physical strength can be a radical act of self-love and liberation. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that challenges conventional narratives around fitness and body image. You can follow Marina's journey on instagram, @bachandbarbells

In this episode, we sit down with Margarita Zulueta, an interdisciplinary designer specializing in product design, to discuss her groundbreaking work on fat liberation within the design field. Margarita's graduate thesis, "Weighted: Designing Towards Fat Liberation," delves into the pervasive anti-fat bias embedded in design practices and proposes a re-evaluation through a fat-positive lens. Join us as Margarita shares her insights on how society can make the world a friendlier place for fat people by challenging conventional design norms and advocating for inclusivity and equity. Learn more about Margarita Zulueta and her work at margaritazulueta.com and check out her thesis, Weighted: Designing Towards Fat Liberation. Socials: @margaritaz.design

On this episode of "F*ck That Shit" as we explore the complex world of food, nutrition, and body image with Christyna, a passionate advocate for body liberation. Originally from St. Louis, Missouri, and now based in Dallas, Texas, Christyna specializes in eating disorders, disordered eating, intuitive eating, and body image. In this episode, Christyna discusses the importance of culturally relevant nutrition and challenges the stigmas around food. Through her unique liberation lens, she promotes collective care and a more inclusive approach to eating that honors diverse backgrounds and bodies. This episode is a key part of our Body Liberation season, offering valuable insights for anyone seeking a healthier, more accepting relationship with food and their body.Want to learn more about Christina and her work? Check out her website: https://encouragingdietitian.com/ Socials: @encouragingdietitian

In this inaugural episode of the "Body Liberation: Redefining Wellness and Challenging Fatphobia" season, host Emma dives into her reflections on the impact of her relationship with her body on personal well-being. Focusing on themes of body image, movement, and mental health, Emma candidly explores post-injury challenges, her complex history with body perception, and the ongoing battle with binge-eating disorder. Emma's journey evolves towards self-love and acceptance, moving away from harmful narratives and toward a holistic view of wellness. This episode sets the tone for a season dedicated to dismantling fatphobia and celebrating all bodies, highlighting the intersections of mental health, movement, and body liberation. Join Emma as she shares personal insights and invites listeners to embark on a journey of redefining wellness beyond societal expectations.

Have you ever felt constrained by societal beauty standards or pressured to conform to an unrealistic ideal? This season, "Body Liberation: Redefining Wellness and Challenging Fatphobia," is here to dismantle those norms. Join us as we engage in bold conversations with courageous guests leading the charge against fatphobia and redefining what true wellness entails. From therapists specializing in body image to nutritionists advocating for health at every size, and from plus-size fit...

Unexpected dick pics are no different than unexpected drama. How do you deal with conflict? Imagine you receive an unwanted message or image, are you gonna play it safe? F*CK THAT SHIT. Take a listen to your host, Emma, as she shares her most recent dating fail, her internal process, and the learned lessons that came from... you guessed it. A dick pic.

Do you find yourself scrolling through social media more often than you'd like? Maybe you're comparing yourself or maybe you're left feeling like you're not doin enough or even worse- you're not enough. F*CK THAT SHIT! Take a listen to your host, Emma, as she shares the story behind her recent social media hiatus. Listen to find out more about her experience and reasons why you should also reconsider your relationship with social media.

How can anyone make connections with others if we're always "busy"? In this episode Emma dissects a recent encounter with dating and reflects on how hustle culture is fueling a recent dating phenomena, especially in NYC,- situationships. Listen more to find out, what is a situationship, how to avoid them, and how to stop hiding behind being "busy" in order to build meaningful relationships with others.

Your host, Emma, gets real with herself bout what has not been working in her life and lately it's been: sex and dating. In this episode she shares some insights she's learned along the way regarding her experience with casual sex and dating culture as a survivor of sexual assault and abuse. While, Emma doesn't claim to have the answers she does believe in the power of sharing her story. Take a listen to hear her share the process it took to take accountability of her own life...

Ever feel like you can't show up cause you just don't feel like YOU anymore? Or maybe you feel pressured to keep up with old versions of yourself cause you don't want to disappoint others. In this episode, Emma shares her recent battle with guess who- HERSELF- and how she's managing to show up regardless of where she's at. Like what you heard and want to continue to conversation? Follow our page and like, comment, and share the episode with others! We're always here for the conversation....

In this episode Emma interviews one of her good friends, Carly, who shares more about who she is, the experiences that have shaped her, and her sources of inspiration to lead a life of F*CK THAT SHIT in her own way. Like what you heard and want to continue to conversation? Follow our page and like, comment, and share the episode with others! We're always here for the conversation. IG & Twitter: @fckthatshitpod Interested in being a guest on the show and want to share your ...

Holding back harbors resentment but not anymore. In this episode, Emma talks about how owning your shit and doing the work can be healing for yourself and others. Like what you heard and want to continue to conversation? Follow our page and like, comment, and share the episode with others! We're always here for the conversation. IG & Twitter: @fckthatshitpod Interested in being a guest on the show and want to share your story? Check out our website and "submit an idea"!&nbs...

Holding back your truth for the comfort of others? F*CK THAT SHIT! In this episode Emma, your host, gets real with herself, shares her story and how she's been led to this new project. The episode involves themes of abuse and trauma but also a fresh perspective about how she was able to transform pain into power. Like what you heard and want to continue to conversation? Follow our page and like, comment, and share the episode with others! We're always here for the conversation. IG &...

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