How to Find and Marry the Right Person

Impacting Culture speaker series at John Paul the Great Catholic University in Escondido, CA, February 5, 2025.   Betsy Kerekes is co-author with Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse of 101 Tips for Marrying the Right Person and 101 Tips for a Happier Marriage. She also wrote Be a Happier Parent of Laugh Trying.   In this engaging Q&A discussion, Betsy Kerekes addresses how to approach dating, discernment, and marriage with clarity, faith, and realism. She emphasizes that the ultimate goal of life is holiness—and that marriage is meant to help spouses lead each other, and their children, toward heaven. Drawing from personal experience, Catholic teaching, and practical wisdom, she explores how to distinguish wants from needs in a future spouse, why unresolved personal issues and addictions must be addressed before marriage, and the importance of friendship, honesty, and self-control in relationships. Audience questions prompt thoughtful discussion on faith differences, motivation in dating, communication, and how to discern whether a relationship is healthy and ordered toward lifelong commitment. The conversation concludes with practical guidance on prayer, trust in God, and the importance of seeking wise counsel before making life-altering decisions.