How to know if you can trust your spouse again

This is how you can register for the webinar.  https://us02web.zoom.us/webinar/register/6615948536985/WN_mO3BbHAVQH-ja0W_oXUfJAor you can go straight to my website:https://www.zachspafford.com/freecallThis is the link to Brene Brown's YouTube video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1EXMsKZAeL0-       Brene brown is talks about this in her SUPERSOUL SESSIONS: THE ANATOMY OF TRUST .-       First, Brené references Charles Feltman work on trust and uses his definition. -       Which is, ‘trust is choosing to make something important to you vulnerable to the actions of someone else’-       In the case of pornography use, what is it that we spouses making vulnerable?Darcy: -       For many women, this is right at the top of the list for what they would call a nightmare scenario. -       This is probably something that many of them worry about because of how they anticipate they will feel -       I think the moment you get married you have placed this all important and sacred eternal life in the hands of a partner-       I think the thing that feels most vulnerable when you find out that your husband is using pornography is that you may have just lost everything -       That’s devastating. -       For members you are committing to eternal marriage-       You feel vulnerable-       Wonder if your marriage is in jeopardyDarcy: What about the users, what are they making vulnerable?Zach:-       I think this is, for so many men, their greatest failing and for many of us a huge source of shame-       Which, when we are either found out or confess, is a huge moment of vulnerability to the actions of the non-user-       What will they do?-       How will they react?-       How much should I tell them?-       Are all questions that run through our minds. -       I think its also important to touch on what distrust is as well. ‘Distrust is what I have shared with you that’s important to me is not safe with you.“  again from Charles FeltmanThis is really important when we take a look at the two things that are vulnerable for the two parties. For the men – They have probably just participated in talking about the thing that they are most ashamed ofFor the women – they have had the thing they hold most dear ripped up in front of them. The thing that the men hold dear is their ability to be a worthy, loving husband.  The thing the women hold dear is their ability to have a worthy, loving husband. Darcy:So, I think this is a moment where, wives react in a way that takes what the husband has done and puts her in a position of distrust as well.  He has...