How to Set Up a Gang Bang (Planning, Consent & Fantasy Reality)

This Wednesday Quickie goes places. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive headfirst into a real, unfiltered conversation about how to set up a gang bang — not the porn version, but the actual real-life logistics, planning, communication, and consent that go into making a fantasy like this happen. Pris opens up about a long-standing bucket-list fantasy and makes one thing crystal clear: this experience is about her pleasure, her comfort, and her rules. From hand-selecting participants to making sure everyone understands expectations, boundaries, and consent, this episode breaks down why fantasies take way more work than people realize. Adam plays the role of curious fly-on-the-wall, asking the real questions most people are thinking but never say out loud — flakiness, performance anxiety, group dynamics, recording consent, and whether everyone involved can actually handle the environment. And just when you think the episode couldn't get more interesting, the conversation takes a turn into lifestyle storytime as Adam and Pris recount a recent swinger party where they discovered something entirely new: ball stretching weights. What started as parallel play turned into a candid (and hilarious) breakdown of how these accessories work, why some couples love them, and how curiosity fuels ongoing exploration in the lifestyle. This episode is equal parts sexy, funny, educational, and brutally honest — covering: Why real-life fantasies require planning, vetting, and communication The difference between porn expectations and lived experiences Consent, comfort, and setting clear intentions Exhibitionism, performance pressure, and group dynamics How curiosity keeps long-term non-monogamous relationships exciting If you've ever wondered how fantasies actually come together — or why most of them never do — this episode pulls back the curtain. Listener discretion advised. This show is raw, real, and absolutely not PG.