How to Speak Up in the Bedroom, without killing the mood | #04

In this intimate episode of Get Sexy with Shari, I sit down with one of my Tantric Teachers and Communication Queen Arja Hendrikx to talk about one of the most important (and most avoided) skills in intimacy: speaking up in the bedroom.We dive into why so many women stay silent during sex, how to express what you want without killing the mood, and why real pleasure starts with honest, embodied communication. You’ll walk away with practical tools, mindset shifts, and maybe even the permission you’ve been waiting for.Whether you're in a long-term relationship or newly dating, this episode will help you feel more confident, connected, and deeply met in your intimate experiences.🔥 In This Episode, We Talk About:Why so many women fake pleasure—and how to stopHow to communicate before, during, and after sexSpeaking up without being “too much” or “too needy”Using body language when words feel hardHow your desires can be sexy, playful, and clearTurning communication into connection (and foreplay!)Connect with Arja:Connect with Arja on Instagram for her latest offerings and courses: @arja_hendrikx or via ww.instagram.com/templeofradiance/Let’s Connect:Follow me on Instagram: @sharivandecraenWant to work with me or explore my courses? Head to www.sharivandecraen.comIf You Loved This Episode…Please subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share it with a friend who needs this. Your support helps the podcast grow and keeps these powerful conversations going.Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraenFollow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radianceVisit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com