How To Stop Overcommitting Using The Three Question Filter

In this episode of In Focus, Dr. Rupa Wong, a pediatric ophthalmologist and mother of three, pulls back the curtain on the "logistical disaster" of trying to do it all. She shares a raw look at a moment she found herself hiding in a car to maintain a professional facade while her family life swirled in chaos just outside the window. This conversation is for every parent who has ever felt the physical weight of an "automatic yes" and is ready to reclaim their time and mental peace from the grip of toxic productivity. What You’ll Learn: The biological "amygdala hijack" that triggers an involuntary neurological reflex to overcommit. How the HPA axis and cortisol surges drive high-achieving women toward unsustainable people-pleasing. A strategic three-question filter designed to audit your current season and protect your finite bandwidth. The "90-second rule" for surviving the chemical wave of guilt that follows a firm boundary. The hidden opportunity cost of "technoference" and how over-scheduling dilutes the prefrontal cortex’s capacity for empathy. Resources: Newsletter: https://www.drrupawong.com/sign-up Instagram: @drrupawong Youtube Channel: Dr Rupa Wong Interested in becoming a patient?: Honolulu Eye Clinic Earn FREE CE Credit: Learn at Pinnacle App This episode is brought to you by ⁠The Pinnacle Podcast Network⁠! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices