How to Stop Playing the Victim and Reclaim Your Power

We all do it: “He cheated on me!” “She stole my man!” “My mom lied to me!” “He manipulated me!” When we’re hurt, especially by people we love and trust, it’s easy to dwell on our pain and fall into a victim mindset. But when we do that, we get stuck – and we only hurt ourselves more. So how do we reframe this mentality into something that can rebuild and reaffirm us?  In this episode, I share a life-changing reframe that’s given me a new sense of confidence, power, and freedom: “This person gave me the best lesson in the world.”  Queen, it’s time to pick up your crown. Press play and let’s reframe together! WHERE TO CONNECT WITH ERIKA: • Come say hello on Instagram!  @thequeenofconfidence (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) • Find me on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/Theconfidencequeen) • Want to watch some behind-the-scenes & vlogs? Subscribe on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzgN7oWfbMJVj41xfJLA5Yg) • Grab a signed copy of Erika’s new book Confidence Feels Like Shit (audiobook available) here (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/confidence-like-sht-book/) • Want to check out The Queen of Confidence Shop Click here (https://the-queen-of-confidence.myshopify.com/) ! • Check out the Website here (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/) FREE RESOURCES: • Join Erika's list (https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/opt-in-2) - get exclusive masterclasses and personal notes from her via email weekly • Are you ready to CHANGE your life?  Watch the FREE training here! (https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/what-it-really-takes-on-demand) • The 7 Steps to coaching yourself - Self Coaching Cheat sheet -download for FREE here (https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/coachyourself)   WORK WITH ERIKA: • Join us in the Sistahood (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/) – 12 months of live coaching with Erika  • Are you a female coach who wants to grow your business? Check out the Start Up Squad here (https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/start-up-squad)   👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast! (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcasts/) 👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show (https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022) 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. 👑 *READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND?* ♟️ *The Queen's Table* My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ 👑 *MORE WAYS TO WORK WITH ME* ✨ *The Next Level* Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 📖 *My Book – Becoming The One* → https://www.amazon.com/ 🎙 *Listen to the Podcast* → https://podcasts.apple.com/ 📱 *Come Say Hi on Instagram* → https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/ ⭐ *If this episode resonated, share it with someone who needs to hear it.*