How to talk so kids will listen

Do you ever feel like your child isn’t listening to you, no matter how many times you ask? In this episode, Camilla  shares transformative strategies to help you talk so your kids want to listen. From managing expectations to adjusting your tone and engaging cooperation, you’ll discover tools that are effective and easy to implement. Why Kids Don’t Listen ImmediatelyUnderstanding their agenda vs. yours and why they’re not being deliberately disrespectful.How managing your expectations can foster empathy and patience.How You Say It MattersThe power of tone, phrasing, and concise instructions to grab your child’s attention.Tips for keeping your message warm, clear, and engaging.Engaging CooperationFun and practical ways to make tasks manageable and enjoyable, like turning clean-up into a game.Using limited choices to give your child a sense of control.Validating Their FeelingsThe importance of acknowledging emotions without dismissing them.How validation helps build connection and paves the way for cooperation.Question of the Week:This week’s question comes from Naomi:"Why does my child completely tune me out when I ask her to get her shoes on? What should I do?"Camilla offers actionable steps to connect before directing, use empathy, and break tasks into manageable steps—all while maintaining calm and connection.Resources Mentioned:Free Guide: “How to Get Kids to Listen Using the GREAT Method”Download hereBook a Discovery Call with Camilla: Click hereTakeaways to Remember:Listening takes practice and understanding—manage your expectations.Your tone and phrasing are powerful tools for connection.Break down tasks and add fun to engage your child’s cooperation.Validating feelings is key to reducing resistance and encouraging compliance.Next Episode:Tune in next week as Camilla coaches Hannah, a mum of two young children, on managing parenting challenges.Don’t Forget:If you found this episode helpful, hit follow or subscribe for more parenting tips and strategies. Let’s raise kids with love and boundaries, together!00:00 Introduction: The Struggle of Getting Kids to Listen00:33 Personal Story: A Parenting Coach's Challenge01:42 Principles of Effective Communication03:11 Strategy 1: Understanding Kids' Agendas04:47 Strategy 2: The Importance of Tone08:42 Strategy 3: Engaging Cooperation11:20 Strategy 4: Validating Emotions13:41 Question of the week: How can I get my child to get her shoes on!15:56 Recap and Final ThoughtsWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/