Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries

What does it really take to stay confident and let go of mum guilt? In this episode, Camilla is joined by Liz Wilcox - email marketing expert, Survivor contestant, and single mum to her daughter Chelsea. Liz shares openly and honestly about her journey through divorce and health issues, and what's kept her showing up as the parent she wants to be.In this episode:The powerful mindset shift that stops her in her tracks when she's about to lose it as a parentWhy mum guilt is the real thing exhausting us, and how to let it goHow her own mother's words shaped her extraordinary confidenceThe beautiful story of how Chelsea dared her to apply for Survivor and what it taught them both about the power of a child's voiceIf you're lying awake wondering if you're enough, this one is for you.Find Liz Wilcox here https://lizwilcox.com/When you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

You're at the playground. Your child wants a turn on the swing. And before you can do anything, they shove another child off it. Every adult in the playground turns to look at you.If that has happened to you, or if the hitting, biting or snatching is happening at home, this episode is for you.Camilla McGill, parenting coach with over 20 years of experience and a mum of four, explains what is really driving this behaviour in young children and gives you three practical tools that actually work, including one that most parents never think to try.In this episode:Why children hit, bite and snatch, and why it has nothing to do with being naughtyThe firm, brief response that holds the boundary without shaming your childHow to talk to your child about it once things have calmed downThe playful skill-building technique that creates lasting changePlus the question of the week: what do you do when your child is aggressive in front of your parents, and they expect you to handle it very differently to how you want to?Free guide: Why Your Child Has Tantrums - 10 Calm Ways To Respond  https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/tantrumsBook a free discovery call https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHATCamilla's group programe Parenting With Love & Boundaries - https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/PLB - new cohort starting soon00:00 That playground panic feeling 01:51 Why children hit, bite and snatch 03:47 Three things that actually work 07:22 Free resources 08:19 Question of the week: when it happens in front of grandparents 11:03 Final thoughtsWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Does your child shout demands across the room and you just... go with it? You're not alone, and it makes complete sense. But in this episode we talk about why letting it slide can quietly become a habit, and what we can do instead.Camilla shares a genuinely disastrous cafe trip with her two young boys, what she did differently the second time, and why a little preparation makes all the difference. We also look at what "speaking respectfully" actually means for young children, plus simple scripts for redirecting rudeness calmly and without a battle.If you'd like a simple framework for getting your child to listen and cooperate, download the free How to Get Your Child to Listen with the GREAT Method guide at https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/justlisten00:00 Why we give in03:01 Why manners matter04:43 Cafe disaster story05:43 Set expectations beforehand06:49 Polite requests in the moment08:13 Handling public meltdowns09:59 Wrap up and next stepsFree resource: The GREAT Method guide – How to Get Your Child to Listen Without Nagging, Shouting or Threateningwww.myparentingsolutions.com/justlistenWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

In this episode, we explore why parenting stress builds up in our nervous system and three simple ways to reduce it without adding more to our to-do list:the safety bubble, using touch and breath to calm the bodysensory safety rituals that help us feel grounded and safeeffortless rest, allowing the nervous system to fully down-regulateWe also discuss how supporting our own nervous system helps our children regulate their emotions, making it easier to stay calm, hold boundaries, and respond rather than react.To find out about Parenting With Love and Boundaries, Camilla's group course, go https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/waitlistFor more information about Into The Fold with Emma Watkins go to https://www.into-the-fold.com/ for you free one month trial and code: ITFPS25 will provide 25% off at checkout if you decide to go for the Monthly Membership.When you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Ever dread those awkward family moments? In this honest and practical conversation, parenting coach Camilla McGill was invited onto BBC Radio 4 Woman's Hour to share how to handle tricky dynamics - especially at Christmas. Listen in for tips on managing awkward questions, setting gentle boundaries, and helping your child (and yourself) feel calm and confident during family gatherings.When you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

When your kid tunes you out - The Realities of Parenthood: Insights from a Parenting Coach and a Working MumDoes it feel like your child only hears you when they want to? You ask them to put on their shoes, tidy their toys, or come to the table — and they tune you out as if you’re invisible. In this episode, working mum Miranda puts Camilla in the hot seat to ask the tough questions parents everywhere are struggling with.Camilla explains why kids don’t always listen, why punishment doesn’t actually teach better behaviour, and she shares three simple strategies you can start using right away to get more cooperation without shouting, threats, or guilt. She also tackles that painful moment every parent dreads: “I don’t want you to go to work, mummy.”00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:05 Meet Miranda: The Struggles of a Working Mom01:37 Why Parenting is So Hard03:22 Camilla's Journey to Becoming a Parenting Coach06:52 Common Parenting Challenges10:00 Why Punishment Doesn't Work16:26 Practical Tips for Calmer Home Life - so kids listen and cooperate20:22 Handling Separation Anxiety - “I don’t want you to go to work”22:05 Conclusion and Special AnnouncementWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

As the new school term begins, parents often feel a mix of relief and worry. Parenting coach Camilla McGill shares four essential strategies to help your child adjust smoothly, both emotionally and practically.Prepare your child for drop-off with confidence.Streamline stressful morning routines.Create meaningful connection before school.Handle big after-school emotions and behaviour changes.Grab your FREE guide - ‘The 10 best ways to help your child settle into school’Camilla also answers a listener’s question on motivating a slow-moving child in the mornings, sharing relatable stories and practical advice to help you start the school year with calm, confidence, and connection.Grab your free guide 10 00:00 Introduction: Back to School Emotions00:45 Meet Your Parenting Coach: Camilla McGill01:44 Tip 1: Emotional Preparation for Drop Off03:58 Tip 2: Simplifying the Morning Routine06:22 Tip 3: Building Morning Connections08:21 Tip 4: Managing Big Feelings and Behavior Changes11:01 Recap and Listener Question12:41 Conclusion and Podcast PromotionWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Find yourself yelling phrases like, 'That's enough!' or 'Why are you being so difficult?' Parenting coach Camilla McGill reveals five impactful responses to use when dealing with challenging child behaviors such as meltdowns, talking back, and outright refusals. Through a blend of personal stories and expert advice, Camilla emphasizes the importance of empathy, clear boundaries, and emotional stability. The episode also features a listener Q&A on handling bedtime resistance "I'm not going to bed, you can't make me!". Tune in for actionable tips and scripts that can transform your parenting approach.Want to book a free consultation with Camilla? https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT00:00 Introduction: Handling Parenting Challenges00:36 Meet Your Parenting Coach: Camilla McGill01:46 The Power of Scripts: Five Key Phrases04:46 Script 1: Handling Meltdowns in Public07:38 Script 2: Power Struggles Over Clothes10:06 Script 3: Dealing with Back Chat and Name Calling12:10 Script 4: Managing Flat Out Refusals14:00 Script 5: The Internal Reset for Parents15:12 Q&A: Bedtime Power Struggles16:35 Conclusion: Connect, Don't DictateWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Summer holidays are meant to be joyful—but the reality? Sibling squabbles, stressful visits to family, kids resistant to going to  summer camp, and end-of-day meltdowns.We're trying to juggle it all and it can get too much for everyone.In this episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill explains why kids often struggle emotionally during the summer and how you can support them calmly and confidently.✅ Understand why lack of structure causes big emotions✅ Recognise signs of sensory overload—especially at summer camps✅ Practical strategies to reduce meltdowns and sibling conflict✅ Scripts to use when your child is rude in public✅ BONUS: A listener asks what to do when their child calls them “idiot” in front of relatives🎁 Download your free guide: myparentingsolutions.com/justlistenTimestamps:00:00 – Why summer often feels overwhelming for parents and kids01:30 – When routines vanish, confusion and conflict rise03:10 – Sensory overload: camps, noise, wet swimsuits & more05:45 – Summer camp stress: unfamiliar adults, pressure to fit in07:40 – What’s underneath the behaviour: control, disconnection, jealousy11:00 – Reset expectations and build in daily anchors13:50 – Catch early signs before the meltdown hits16:20 – What to say in public when your child is struggling18:30 – Be the coach, not the referee in sibling fights20:20 – Listener question: “My child called me ‘idiot’ in front of relatives”23:30 – Recap: structure, empathy, calmness = your summer toolkit24:45 – Get support & free guide: myparentingsolutions.com/justlistenWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Disappointment is part of life — but that doesn’t make it any easier to watch a child struggle when they’re left out, overlooked, or let down.In this episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill shares 5 powerful steps to help children process disappointment and build emotional resilience — without rushing them to feel better or stepping in to fix it.Camilla explains how parents can: ✅ Respond with calm empathy when their child says, “It’s not fair — I never get picked” ✅ Stay connected when their child cries after not receiving a sticker, prize, or reward they were hoping for ✅ Help a child reflect on the effort they put in — even when the outcome didn’t go their way ✅ Avoid offering a treat or saying “never mind” when a child is visibly upset about missing out ✅ Support children when they feel left out of a birthday party, game, or class awardWhether it’s a child feeling crushed after not being chosen for Star of the Week or excluded by a friend, this episode offers warm, practical support to help parents guide their child through the moment — and out the other side, stronger.Also covered in this episode: – How to respond when a child says something emotional like “Nobody likes me,” even if it’s not entirely accurate – Why jumping in with treats, solutions, or silver linings can backfire – How to gently ask questions that help children process the moment rather than lash out or withdraw🎧 Question of the Week: What do we do and say when our child isn’t invited to the party — and then says, “Nobody likes me”?💬 Want personalised support from Camilla? Book a free discovery call to talk about your unique parenting situation and find out how she can help: When you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

 Your child is begging, whining, or having a meltdown, and all you did was calmly say “no.” Suddenly, you’re second-guessing yourself, snapping, or giving in just to keep the peace. Sound familiar?In this episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill explains why holding boundaries is so hard, and how to do it in a calm, clear and kind way, even when your child shouts “You’re a bad mum!” in the middle of the supermarket.You’ll learn how to hold firm without losing your cool, while building resilience and trust in your child. ✅ Hold the boundary with warmth (without over-explaining) ✅ Don’t explain on repeat - here’s what to say instead ✅ Stay steady in the storm - even when emotions run highPlus, hear one mum’s Coco Pops supermarket dilemma, a story about mint ice cream and regret, and a powerful coaching example that helped a child sleep better, all through consistent, kind boundaries.🎁 Free guide: www.myparentingsolutions.com/justlisten📞 Book a discovery call: www.myparentingsolutions.com/chat⏱️ Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: The struggle of holding boundaries 00:24 Why boundaries are important 01:57 Real-life parenting dilemma: The supermarket scenario 02:48 ✅ Tool 1: Hold the boundary with warmth 06:10 ✅ Tool 2: Don’t explain on repeat 09:08 ✅ Tool 3: Stay steady in the stormConnect with Camilla for a FREE discovery call www.myparentingsolutions.com/chatGet Camilla’s free guide How to Get Kids to Listen www.myparentingsolutions.com/justlistenWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

You’re doing everything you can to raise kind, respectful kids—but sometimes they push you to the limit. Maybe they scream at you, throw food, hit a sibling, or completely lose it over something small… and in that moment, you find yourself shouting, “Time out!”We’ve all been there. Time-outs seem like a quick fix—but in this episode, you’ll learn why they rarely work the way we hope, and what actually helps children calm down, feel safe, and make better choices next time.Inside this episode, you’ll learn:Why time-outs often backfire and disconnect us from our kidsA powerful story from Camilla’s own parenting that changed how she sees difficult behaviourWhat dysregulation really looks like—and why kids need connection, not isolation3 powerful alternatives to time-outs you can start using today💬 Question of the Week: “My child shouts ‘I don’t care!’ when I say I’ll take something away—what do I say instead?”👩‍🏫 Hosted by Camilla McGill Parenting coach and mum of four, Camilla helps parents build calmer homes and stronger relationships with their children—using love, empathy, and healthy boundaries.💬 Ready for more personalised support? Book a free 60-minute discovery call with Camilla and find out how her coaching can help you feel calmer and more confident in your parenting. 👉 https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT🎙️ Subscribe or follow the podcast to get weekly parenting tools and inspiration 📩 Send Camilla a message or ask a question for a future episode: [email protected] you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

You’re trying your best to be a kind, calm, emotionally available parent—and yet your child is still shutting down, being rude, or melting down for no apparent reason. It’s frustrating, confusing, and sometimes heartbreaking.This episode will help you decode what’s really going on beneath the surface when your child acts out—and give you simple ways to stay emotionally connected, even when your child says “Nothing” and shuts you out.Inside this episode, you’ll learn:Why children often show us their feelings instead of telling usA relatable story from Camilla’s own parenting life that will shift the way you see defiant or rude behaviourWhat to do when your child won’t open up, and how to gently help them share what’s going on5 powerful strategies to build connection and create emotional safety💬 Question of the Week: “When I see my 6-year-old son is upset and I ask him what’s the matter, he just says ‘Nothing’ — what am I supposed to do then?”You’ll get practical ideas to handle this kind of emotional shutdown without pressure, shame, or trying to force a conversation.👩‍🏫 Hosted by Camilla McGill Parenting coach and mum of four, Camilla helps parents build calmer homes and stronger relationships with their children—using love, empathy, and healthy boundaries.💬 Ready for more personalised support? Book a free 60-minute discovery call with Camilla and find out how her support can help you decode your child’s behaviour and feel more confident as a parent: 👉 https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT 🎙️ Subscribe or follow the podcast to get weekly parenting tools and inspiration 📩 Send Camilla a message or question for a future episode [email protected] you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Sibling rivalry driving you up the wall? From constant squabbles to explosive bath-time battles, it’s hard to know when to step in—and how to do it without always picking a side.Parenting coach Camilla McGill shares 4 clear, practical strategies to help you stay calm, avoid taking sides, and guide your children to work things out for themselves. These tools will help you bring more peace to your home while building empathy, cooperation, and lasting sibling connection.The 4 Key Strategies✅ Shift Your Role – Become the calm coach, not the referee✅ Stay Neutral and Lead the Repair – Guide your children forward without needing to know every detail✅ Set the Stage for Success – Prevent predictable squabbles by planning ahead✅ Spotlight the Good Stuff – Catch the kindness and build more connection🔗 Mentioned in This Episode🎓 Sibling Rivalry Resolved – On-Demand Workshop & Manual Includes real-life examples, scripts, and a 16-page downloadable guide to reduce fighting and build sibling harmony.💬 Let’s ConnectBook a free discovery call to talk to Camilla  ⏱️ Timestamps00:00 Handling Sibling Fights: Why this matters so much01:25 Question of the Week: “My daughter is always mean to her little brother…”01:55 Strategy 1: Shift from Referee to Coach04:18  Strategy 2: Stay Neutral and Lead the Repair07:15  Strategy 3: Set the Stage for Success09:38  Strategy 4: Spotlight the Good Stuff11:20 Revisit the Listener Question12:37 Final Thoughts + Recap13:15 Additional Resources & ClosingWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Why do the simplest moments with kids — like putting on a coat — sometimes explode into shouting, tears, and slammed doors? Why do even the most loving parents find themselves saying things they swore they'd never say?In this powerful conversation, parenting coach Camilla McGill shares the three biggest mistakes parents unknowingly make — and, more importantly, how small shifts can completely transform the connection with a child.Listeners will hear a real-life "messy moment" that every parent will recognise and walk away with practical tools to: ✨ Stay calm under pressure ✨ Guide instead of control ✨ Focus on building long-term resilience — not just short-term obedienceIf anyone has ever walked away from an argument with their child thinking, "Why did it go that way?" — this episode offers the insight and reassurance they need.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction to Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries00:04 Why we make mistakes00:51 Introducing the Question of the Week: Handling Frustration02:12 Mistake #1: Controlling Instead of Guiding06:54 Mistake #2: Reacting Emotionally Instead of Responding Calmly10:37 Mistake #3: Focusing on Short-Term Obedience13:56 Reply to Question of the Week: "How can I get my child to put their coat on?"14:45 Summary and RecapWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

“You’re stupid!” “I hate you!” “Give me it – NOW!” If your child says things like this, you’re not alone — and you’re not doing anything wrong. But the truth is, hearing those words can be heartbreaking, especially when you’re trying to raise a kind and respectful human with good manners.In this powerful episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill shares why rudeness shows up so often — particularly with the people our children feel safest with — and what we can do to guide them without shouting, shaming or punishment.You’ll learn:Why kids are rude (hint: it’s rarely personal)How to stay calm and hold your boundaryThe gentle replay technique that helps children practise respectful communicationWhat to do when they’re rude to a nanny or grandparentAnd how to handle those painful words: “I hate you.”Time Stamps00:00 - Introduction and personal anecdotes about rude behavior in children01:00 - Overview of the episode's structure03:00 - Explanation of why children are rude05:00 - First strategy – Staying calm and not reacting07:00 - Second strategy – Recognizing emotions without shaming09:00 - Third strategy – Asking for a polite 'replay'11:00 - Handling rudeness towards nannies or grandparents13:00 - Question of the week – Responding to 'I hate you'15:00 - Final thoughts and resourcesThis is not about raising perfect kids. It’s about helping them express big feelings without hurting others — and giving you the tools to respond with confidence.✨ Ready to shift the tone in your home? Grab Camilla’s free guide: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/justlisten📩 Or book a free discovery call if you want personalised support. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call🎧 If this episode helped, please rate it and share it with a friend or your child’s caregiver. Let’s spread the message of love and boundaries!When you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

There’s a common parenting instinct to protect our children at all costs — and whilst that protective impulse is rooted in love, it can unintentionally hold our kids back.Listen to this episode to learn three powerful reasons why we need to raise independent kids and why wrapping our children in cotton wool can prevent them from developing essential life skills like resilience, self-trust and problem-solving. Camilla also offers practical, gentle ways to help your child learn to take ageand developmentally appropriate risks, build confidence, and grow into capable, independent people.Expect lots of empathy, relatable stories from her own parenting journey, and real-life tips you can start using today.🌟 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why over-protecting them actually limits their growthHow to introduce risk in a safe, age-appropriate wayWhat to say when your child faces disappointment or failureThe long-term emotional and developmental benefits of fostering independenceWhy handing over responsibility in small doses builds resilience🔧 Practical Strategies You'll Hear:How to stay calm when your child pushes boundaries — especially near roads or in risky situationsThe power of using natural consequences instead of threats or punishmentWhy involving your child in decision-making fosters independence, cooperation and safety awarenessHow to model learning through your own real-life mistakes🎙️ Question of the Week:“My child refuses to hold my hand near roads or in car parks, and I’m terrified he’ll run off — what should I do?” Camilla shares a beautifully balanced response that addresses both safety and the need to build your child’s decision-making skills and independence.📌 Links and Resources:Want to take things further? Apply for Camilla’s transformational 1:1 coaching package by starting with a free discovery call Grab Camilla's fantastic free guide: How to Get Kids to Listen Without Nagging or Shouting When you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Is Your Toddler (or older child) Hitting, Biting, Snatching or Lashing Out? Here’s How to Handle ItFew things feel as overwhelming as watching your child hit, bite, or lash out—especially in public. The embarrassment, the judgment from other parents, the pressure to make them say sorry… it can leave you feeling lost and frustrated.In this episode, I sit down with Katy, a mum navigating these challenges with her lively three-year-old son, Leo. Together, we unpack why toddlers act out physically, what’s really happening in their little brains, and—most importantly—how to respond in a way that actually helps them learn to manage their emotions.If you've ever worried about your child's aggression or felt unsure how to handle those intense moments, this conversation is for you. You'll walk away with practical, compassionate strategies to guide your child through their big emotions—without punishments or power struggles.🎧 Tune in now and discover how to support your child while staying calm and confident.00:00 Introduction to Today's Topic: Navigating Toddler Emotions01:55 Meet Katy and Leo: Understanding Their Challenges04:09 Addressing Violent Outbursts: Strategies and Insights09:05 The Importance of Emotional Validation11:18 Practical Tips for Managing Toddler Behavior13:52 Building Emotional Regulation Skills17:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts🔗 Need more support? Book a free discovery call here  📌 10 Tried-and-Tested Solutions for Managing Tantrums - Grab my free guide: myparentingsolutions.com/tantrumsDon’t forget to subscribe and leave a review if this episode resonated with you!When you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Have you ever lost it with your kids? Parenting coach Camilla McGill explores these common, intense moments of parental stress through personal anecdotes and expert advice. You’re not alone in this, and losing it doesn’t define you as a parent. Tune in for practical strategies to recover, reconnect, and show your child what handling mistakes with love really looks like.🎧 Listen and don’t forget to subscribe!Covering -✅ Why these moments happen (it’s not just about the kids!)✅ How guilt affects us—and why beating yourself up doesn’t help✅ 3 powerful steps to repair and reset so you can move forward with confidencePlus,she answered a listener’s question: “I screamed at my 4-year-old after nagged for my phone and then hit me—now what?”She dives into the main triggers such as overload, exhaustion, and feeling judged, and emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, acknowledging and managing emotions. Camilla shares practical steps for repairing and resetting relationships with children and spouses after these outbursts. This episode provides actionable strategies for parents to improve their emotional resilience and foster a loving and balanced family environment.00:00 Introduction: Losing It as a Parent00:28 A Personal Story of Losing Control01:42 Understanding the Triggers02:25 Key Strategies to Repair and Reset03:06 Why We Lose It: The Underlying Causes05:51 Dealing with Guilt and Shame07:35 Repairing and Resetting After Losing It12:05 Question of the Week: Handling a Child's Tantrum16:22 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Ever feel like your child knows exactly how to push your buttons? You’re not alone! In this episode, I’m joined by parenting expert and author Bonnie Harris, whose groundbreaking book When Kids Push Our Buttons and What We Can Do About It has transformed the way parents understand their emotional triggers.We dive deep into:✅ Why kids' behaviour triggers us—and how it’s often rooted in our own childhood experiences.✅ How to reframe our thoughts and reactions to build connection rather than conflict.✅ The key to handling meltdowns, big emotions, and power struggles without losing your cool.✅ Practical strategies for shifting from blame to understanding—and transforming family dynamics.This conversation is packed with insights that will help you respond to your child with more patience, empathy, and confidence.🎧 Listen now and start breaking free from the button-pushing cycle!🆓 Book a free discovery call with Camilla:https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call🔗 Connect with Bonnie: bonnieharris.com00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Special Guest00:09 Bonnie Harris' Background and Influence02:24 Understanding Emotional Triggers10:11 The Emotional Chain Reaction16:38 Reframing Assumptions and Apologies23:47 Problem Solving with Your Child34:05 The Integrity Child and Handling Tantrums38:45 Building Connection with Your Child42:59 Conclusion and Contact InformationWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

In this special coaching-style episode, Camilla sits down with Hannah, a busy doctor and mum of two young girls, to explore some of the daily parenting challenges she faces. From chaotic mornings to sibling struggles and the tricky topic of teaching kids to say sorry, they dive deep into practical solutions that foster cooperation, connection, and independence.You'll hear real-life strategies for:✅ Making mornings smoother when you're solo parenting✅ Encouraging independence in getting dressed✅ Handling sibling rivalry and emotional outbursts✅ Understanding why kids struggle to apologise—and what to do insteadIf you're navigating similar challenges, this episode is packed with insights to help you create a calmer, more connected family dynamic.🔹 Download Camilla’s FREE guide: How to Get Your Kids to Listen🔹 Want to be a guest on the podcast? Emai [email protected]🔹 Book a FREE discovery call: Follow the podcast and share with a friend who needs this! 😊01:08 Meet Hannah: A Parent's Challenges01:52 Morning Routine Struggles and Solutions03:07 Addressing External Stresses and Parenting06:46 Encouraging Independence in Children16:18 The Importance of Apologies and Handling Impulsivity30:22 Promoting Kindness and Positive Behavior32:40 Conclusion and ResourcesWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Do you ever feel like your child isn’t listening to you, no matter how many times you ask? In this episode, Camilla  shares transformative strategies to help you talk so your kids want to listen. From managing expectations to adjusting your tone and engaging cooperation, you’ll discover tools that are effective and easy to implement. Why Kids Don’t Listen ImmediatelyUnderstanding their agenda vs. yours and why they’re not being deliberately disrespectful.How managing your expectations can foster empathy and patience.How You Say It MattersThe power of tone, phrasing, and concise instructions to grab your child’s attention.Tips for keeping your message warm, clear, and engaging.Engaging CooperationFun and practical ways to make tasks manageable and enjoyable, like turning clean-up into a game.Using limited choices to give your child a sense of control.Validating Their FeelingsThe importance of acknowledging emotions without dismissing them.How validation helps build connection and paves the way for cooperation.Question of the Week:This week’s question comes from Naomi:"Why does my child completely tune me out when I ask her to get her shoes on? What should I do?"Camilla offers actionable steps to connect before directing, use empathy, and break tasks into manageable steps—all while maintaining calm and connection.Resources Mentioned:Free Guide: “How to Get Kids to Listen Using the GREAT Method”Download hereBook a Discovery Call with Camilla: Click hereTakeaways to Remember:Listening takes practice and understanding—manage your expectations.Your tone and phrasing are powerful tools for connection.Break down tasks and add fun to engage your child’s cooperation.Validating feelings is key to reducing resistance and encouraging compliance.Next Episode:Tune in next week as Camilla coaches Hannah, a mum of two young children, on managing parenting challenges.Don’t Forget:If you found this episode helpful, hit follow or subscribe for more parenting tips and strategies. Let’s raise kids with love and boundaries, together!00:00 Introduction: The Struggle of Getting Kids to Listen00:33 Personal Story: A Parenting Coach's Challenge01:42 Principles of Effective Communication03:11 Strategy 1: Understanding Kids' Agendas04:47 Strategy 2: The Importance of Tone08:42 Strategy 3: Engaging Cooperation11:20 Strategy 4: Validating Emotions13:41 Question of the week: How can I get my child to get her shoes on!15:56 Recap and Final ThoughtsWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Do your child’s tantrums leave you feeling frazzled and unsure of what to do? Whether your child is a toddler or a bit older, big emotions can be overwhelming for both kids and parents. In this episode, parenting expert Camilla McGill shares her personal experiences and practical tools for handling tantrums with empathy and boundaries.Camilla dives into three actionable strategies that can help you guide your child through emotional storms while maintaining your composure. She also busts the myth that tantrums are only for toddlers and tackles a listener’s question about whether ignoring tantrums is the best approach. Spoiler: it’s not! You’ll learn why connection and validation are key to calming your child and building their emotional regulation skills.Here’s what you’ll learn:Stay Calm Yourself: Why your calm presence is the foundation for helping your child regulate their emotions.Validate Their Feelings: The power of acknowledging your child’s emotions without judgment, even when they’re hard to like.Practice Regulation Skills Outside the Moment: Techniques to help your child build self-soothing habits before emotions run high.Avoid Common Mistakes: Why dismissing feelings and reasoning mid-meltdown can backfire.Answer to the Week’s Question: Why ignoring tantrums does more harm than good, and how to respond effectively.Episode Highlights with Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: Camilla’s Playground Tantrum Story02:20 Myth-Busting: Tantrums Aren’t Just for Toddlers05:10 Strategy 1: Stay Calm Yourself09:00 Strategy 2: Validate Their Feelings12:30 Strategy 3: Practice Emotional Regulation Outside the Moment15:15 Question of the Week: Should You Ignore Tantrums?19:40 Two Common Mistakes to Avoid22:10 Recap and ResourcesResources for Parents:Download 10 Tried and Tested Ways to Manage Tantrums and Mood Swings for free: www.myparentingsolutions.com/tantrumsBook a discovery call for personalised support: Discovery Call with Camilla When you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Does your child constantly ask for more, leaving you wondering how to teach them to value what they have? Are you afraid of raising a child who feels entitled? This episode holds the key to fostering gratitude and appreciation in your children, setting them up for lifelong happiness and contentment.Parenting expert Camilla McGill and her guest, Nicole Thompson, author of Little Things: Finding Gratitude in Life's Simple Moments, reveal six powerful strategies to encourage gratitude in your kids while reducing entitlement and materialism. Drawing from their personal experiences, they emphasize the importance of being role models, staying positive, limiting materialism, encouraging acts of kindness, discussing daily positives and negatives, and looking beyond the initial thrill of new toys. They also address a listener's question about dealing with a child's constant desire for new things and the importance of teaching kids the value of what they have through boundaries and positive reinforcement. The episode offers valuable insights and practical tips, especially relevant as the festive season approaches.Here’s what you’ll learn:Be a Role Model: How your own attitude toward gratitude can inspire your children to follow your lead.Stay Positive: The subtle ways parents unintentionally model negativity and how to change it.Limit Materialism: Practical tips to create boundaries around excessive gift-giving and impulse purchases.Encourage Acts of Kindness: How to catch and reinforce small gestures of kindness to make them part of your child’s daily habits.Focus on the Good: A simple conversation starter to teach kids to reflect on positive moments in their day.Go Beyond the Initial Thrill: How to emphasize experiences over material possessions and help children value what they already have.Episode Highlights with Timestamps:00:00 Introduction: The Challenge of Raising Appreciative Kids00:26 Meet Nicole Thompson: Author and Parenting Expert02:04 Secret 1: Be a Model of Gratitude05:32 Secret 2: Stay Positive and Mindful09:21 Secret 3: Limit Materialism14:09 Secret 4: Encourage Small Acts of Kindness18:04 Secret 5: Discuss the Good and Bad of the Day22:22 Secret 6: Look Beyond the Initial Thrill27:28 Question of the Week: Handling Materialistic Behavior31:59 Conclusion and ResourcesResources for Parents:Grab 24 Acts of Kindness a Free Guide with simple ideas your kids will love: MyParentingSolutions.com/kindnessNicole Thompson’s tools and guides: The Fulfilled ClassroomWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Does bedtime leave you feeling like you’re losing control? Do you find yourself battling endless requests like “just one more story” or “I’m hungry”? Are you exhausted by the constant resistance, only to feel guilty for losing your patience? If you’re nodding along, you’re not alone, and this episode is here to help.In this episode of Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries, parenting coach Camilla McGill shares three transformative strategies to help you approach bedtime with confidence and calm. You’ll learn how a quick mindset reset can shift your evening energy, why a predictable routine is key to cooperation, and how to hold firm boundaries with empathy to avoid power struggles. With relatable anecdotes and practical advice, Camilla equips you with tools to turn bedtime stress into peaceful connection.Struggling parents will find real answers here, plus guidance on how to handle common stalling tactics in a way that maintains boundaries while nurturing your child.For your free bedtime 'cheat-sheet' go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/sleep to grab it and take the stress out of bedtime! Timestamps:00:00 Introduction: Why bedtime can be so challenging 01:00 Personal struggles and lessons learned 02:30 Strategy 1: Pre-Bedtime Mindset Reset 05:45 Strategy 2: Creating a Predictable, Soothing Routine 08:30 Strategy 3: Holding Boundaries with Empathy 12:00 Question of the Week: Dealing with stalling tactics like “just one more hug” 14:30 Conclusion and resources for a calmer bedtimeWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Discover essential insights and practical strategies to help your child manage sensory overwhelm, reduce emotional outbursts, and improve their overall well-being. Parenting coach Camilla McGill and occupational therapist Vicky Robinson explore three hidden triggers behind challenging behaviours and share actionable tips to address poor attention, noise sensitivity, and clothing issues. Learn how to support your potentially neurodivergent child compassionately and effectively, and get advice on handling scepticism from others regarding your approach. This episode is packed with valuable information to transform your parenting journey and enhance your child's emotional regulation.To reach Vicky Robinson - go to https://www.instagram.com/sensory.occupational.therapist/For Camilla’s free guide to Managing Tantrums - go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/tantrums00:00 Understanding Sensory Overwhelm in Children00:47 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest01:01 Hidden Triggers Behind Children's Emotional Outbursts02:00 Helping Children with Poor Attention08:03 Addressing Noise Sensitivity15:34 Managing Clothing Sensitivity24:51 Resources and Final Thoughts26:27 Question of the Week: Handling Sceptical AdultsWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Have you ever wondered why traditional tactics like scolding, shaming, or punishment are ineffective in improving your child’s behaviour? In this Episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill  emphasises the importance of nurturing emotional intelligence and setting compassionate boundaries. Camilla delves into how these punitive methods can harm self-esteem, create fear rather than respect, and weaken the parent-child connection. Instead, she advocates for guiding children with empathy, understanding, and encouragement to foster intrinsic motivation and better behavioural outcomes. The episode also offers practical advice on addressing children's behaviour, discussing the impact of their actions, and promoting positive practices like apologies and making amends. Camilla emphasises that every step towards positive parenting makes a significant impact.Book Camilla for a free discovery calls for personalised support. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call00:00 Introduction: The Struggles of Parenting00:23 The Impact of Scolding and Shaming01:18 Developing Emotional Intelligence in Children01:47 The Negative Effects of Punishment02:21 Three Reasons to Avoid Scolding and Shaming02:54 Reason 1: Damaging Self-Esteem04:13 Reason 2: Creating Fear, Not Respect05:10 Learning from Mistakes05:41 Reason 3 The Importance of Connection in Parenting06:15 Understanding Child Impulsivity06:48 Effective Discipline Strategies07:59 Shifting from Punishment to Teaching08:36 Handling Specific Situations with Empathy09:36 Encouraging Responsibility and Making Amends10:11 Support and Resources for Positive Parenting10:36 Final Thoughts and EncouragementWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

If you’re tired of bedtime battles and nighttime wake-ups, this episode is packed with practical tips to bring peace to your evenings. Camilla McGill is joined by sleep expert Gemma Davies to explore effective strategies for helping children sleep through the night.Together, Camilla and Gemma discuss the importance of consistency and how to create a calm, structured bedtime routine that works for the whole family.Key Takeaways:Align Your Values: Start by asking yourself how badly you want to solve the sleep issue. Get clear on what you truly want for your family’s nighttime routine and commit to the solution.Be on the Same Page: Ensure that everyone involved in bedtime – including partners, caregivers, and relatives – follows the same approach, giving your child a stable and predictable routine.Tackle Nighttime Wake-Ups: Be prepared for common requests like "I’m too hot/cold," "I need milk," or "I want a story" by having a plan in place for how to handle them calmly.Set Boundaries: Address situations where a child asks for the other parent or caregiver, and reinforce the bedtime routine with a united front.Maintain the Routine: Consistency over time is key in resolving sleep challenges. Stick to the plan even when it gets tough, and you'll see lasting improvements in your child’s sleep patterns.This episode offers reassurance and expert guidance for parents ready to say goodbye to bedtime drama and hello to peaceful nights.To reach Camilla for a free discovery call go to https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-callTo book a free discovery call with Gemma Davies go to https://www.themindfulsleepcoach.com/booking-calendar/discoveryWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

You know something is up with your child and you can't get them to talk to you and open up.Maybe they show signs of aggression that are unusual for your child.Maybe they've shut down emotionally and they’re  internalising things. You know something isn't right.What do you do?Camilla is joined by Dr. Rebecca Schrag Hershberg, a clinical psychologist and parenting coach, to explore "How to Get Your Child to Talk to You: 4 Powerful Tools Every Parent Needs." Together, they discuss why children may shut down emotionally and how parents can encourage them to open up. They delve into four actionable strategies:1 Modelling how to talk about your own feelings, 2 Using "I wonder" statements instead of direct questions, 3. Engaging in the "hand squeeze game" to ease into tough conversations, 4. Responding with attentiveness when your child does share. Whether your child simply says "I'm fine" when they’re clearly not or is struggling to share their feelings, this episode provides compassionate and practical advice for parents wanting to foster deeper connections. The conversation also includes how to respond when your child says, "Nobody would play with me today."If you’ve ever struggled to get your child to talk, this episode is for youWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

For any parent who has faced a child who says "I don’t want to go to school" battle, you’ll want to find out how to handle it, so that you can drop your child off on time, without a stressful, emotional battle.In this episode of Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries, parenting expert Camilla McGill introduces three highly effective strategies you might not have considered to ease those stressful school mornings. Learn:How to create a calm morning routine, How to reduce overwhelm using visual schedules and timersHow to establish a comforting goodbye ritual to help your child transition smoothly to school.Camilla also answers the burning question many parents have: Why is my child fine when someone else drops them off but melts down when it’s me? With her practical tips and empathetic approach, this episode offers valuable tools to help parents reduce morning stress while maintaining a loving connection with their children. Whether your child is dealing with separation anxiety, sensory overload, or just resisting transitions, you’ll find actionable insights that make school drop-offs easier for everyone.Listen now and discover how to bring peace back into your mornings while strengthening your relationship with your child.When you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

If you've ever felt guilty about being a working mother, then you need to listen to this episode.Camilla McGill, a seasoned parenting coach and mother of four, dives deep into the struggles of balancing a career with raising young children—a topic that resonates with so many working mums. Joined by Laura Coady, a senior investment banker and mother of three, they explore the challenges of managing work commitments while staying present and connected with your children.Laura shares her personal journey, including the guilt of not being there for every school event, the importance of setting strict boundaries around work and family time, and the value of consistency in routines. Camilla provides actionable tips on how to handle the emotional pull of your child not wanting you to go to work, emphasising the importance of respecting their feelings and creating a predictable goodbye ritual.This episode is packed with practical advice for any mother trying to juggle it all, while also reminding us that it's okay to seek help and that being present—even in small moments—makes all the difference. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed or just looking for ways to improve your work-life balance, this conversation offers both comfort and solutions.For a free downloadable guide to getting kids to listen  ‘How to get your child to listen without ever needing to nag, shout or threaten’ go to www.myparentingsolutions.com/justlistenWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

If you’re an anxious parent concerned about how your child is going to cope with the transition to a new school or you’ve got a toddler starting nursery, then you won’t want to catch this latest episode of Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries. Parenting coach Camilla McGill dives into one of the most common concerns for parents: helping children transition smoothly into the school environment. Whether it’s their first time at school or just a new class, the challenges can be daunting.Camilla outlines five key strategies that parents can implement to ease the transition and ensure a positive start to the school year. From encouraging independence to establishing routines, Camilla’s advice is both practical and compassionate. She also shares real-life examples and addresses common worries such as separation anxiety and making new friends.In addition, Camilla answers this week’s listener question: "How do I handle it when my child clings to me and says, ‘Don’t leave me’?"Plus, Camilla offers a free guide with ten ways to help your child settle into school, available on her website - go to www.myparentingsolutions.com/schoolWhat You'll Learn in this episode is:The importance of fostering independence in your child before school starts.How to establish routines that create a sense of security and reduce anxiety.The power of role play in helping children navigate social interactions at school.Recommended books to help children understand and prepare for the school experience.How to manage bedtime to ensure your child is well-rested and ready for school.Resources Mentioned:Free Guide: "10 Ways to Help Your Child Settle Into School" – Download at www.myparentingsolutions.com/schoolCheck out Episode 1: Managing Morning MayhemRecommended Books: "I’m Absolutely Too Small for School" by Lauren Child and "Starting School" by Janet and Allan Ahlberg.When you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Ever wondered why managing your child’s emotions can be so challenging, especially when you're striving to do your best to support them? In this episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill sits down with speech and language therapist Charlotte Hall to explore why children often have big emotional reactions when they struggle to communicate effectively.Charlotte delves into the root causes of these emotional outbursts, highlighting three key factors:1.Frustration from not being understood: When children can't express themselves clearly, it often leads to feelings of frustration, which can quickly escalate into emotional outbursts.   2.Adults' frustration affecting children: Our own frustration as parents or caregivers can unintentionally amplify a child's emotions, making it harder for them to calm down.3. Difficulties with transitions: Transitions, such as moving from one activity to another, can be particularly challenging for children, especially if they struggle with communication.In this insightful conversation, Camilla and Charlotte offer practical strategies to help children navigate these big emotions:1. Approaching situations with calm and compassion: By staying calm and responding with empathy, we can help soothe our children and model emotional regulation.2. Being in tune with nonverbal cues: Understanding and responding to a child's nonverbal signals can help prevent frustration from building up, making them feel seen and understood.3. Using clear communication and visual aids for transitions: Clear instructions and visual aids can make transitions smoother, reducing the anxiety and emotional turmoil they might otherwise cause.By implementing these strategies, you’ll be amazed at the positive impact on your child's emotional well-being and your relationship with them. Tune in to discover how small changes can lead to big transformations in how you connect with your child.When you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

In this episode of Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries, parenting coach Camilla McGill addresses a common and painful experience for parents: criticism of their children by friends or relatives. Drawing from her expertise and past discussions on BBC Radio 4 Woman's Hour, she provides three key ways to respond to such criticism assertively without causing confrontation. She emphasizes the importance of being your child's advocate and teaching them to manage their emotions. Camilla shares real-life examples and practical advice, including how to deal with criticism about tantrums, potty training, and misbehaviour in social settings. She also introduces her free guide on handling tantrums and mood swings, offering listeners additional resources to manage their child's challenging behaviour effectively.https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/tantrums00:00 Introduction: Handling Criticism of Your Child00:35 Why It's Important to Advocate for Your Child01:35 Specific Responses to Criticism02:49 Scenario 1: Handling Tantrums and Criticism05:03 Scenario 2: Potty Training Criticism06:34 Scenario 3: Dealing with Family Criticism08:33 Responding to Teacher Criticism09:50 Conclusion: Key TakeawaysWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Every parent has faced the embarrassment and frustration of a public toddler tantrum. Whether it's a meltdown because they weren’t first to get in the car or a simple disagreement over breakfast, tantrums can feel overwhelming. In this episode, parenting expert Camilla McGill walks listeners through three key strategies to handle tantrums like a pro, ensuring that next time your child throws a fit, you’ll know exactly how to manage it with confidence.Listeners will learn:Why tantrums happen and how emotional regulation and control-seeking behaviors are at the root of many outburstsHow staying calm and breathing deeply can help both parent and child manage the meltdownThe power of validating your child’s feelings using matching and mirroring techniquesThe importance of calming activities, such as hand massages, practiced outside of tantrum moments to reduce their intensityCamilla shares insights from her own experience as a mother of four and a seasoned parenting coach, providing actionable advice to help parents navigate tantrums with empathy and structure. With these strategies, you'll feel more equipped to handle even the most epic meltdowns.Tune in to learn how to transform your approach to tantrums and raise emotionally resilient children! Listeners are encouraged to visit her website for a free guide with ten proven ways to handle tantrums. www.myparentingsolutions.com/tantrumsWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Are car journeys with your kids filled with constant bickering and loud squabbles? Whether it's a short trip to school or a long drive to Grandma’s, the constant fighting can turn any drive into a nightmare. In this episode, we explore the reasons behind kids fighting in the car and, more importantly, how to stop it using my tried-and-true GREAT method.You'll discover:How to address the issue before you even open the car doorSimple steps to create calm and cooperation during car tripsWhy setting expectations and involving your kids in problem-solving makes all the differenceWhat to do in the moment when a fight breaks out (without losing your cool!)If you’re tired of the battles, this episode will help you make car journeys more peaceful – without needing to resort to screens or separate cars. Join me as we learn how to navigate this common parenting challenge with love, patience, and firm boundaries.Visit www.myparentingsolutions.com/justlisten to download a printable guide.When you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

Mornings can be chaotic for parents, filled with endless requests to get out the door on time. From kids searching for lost toys to refusing breakfast, the morning rush can leave any parent feeling frustrated and overwhelmed. In this episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill shares her effective GREAT method to help transform these stressful moments into a calm, organized routine.Listeners will learn how to:Start the day by connecting with their child to set a positive toneRespect their child's feelings and reduce resistanceSet clear expectations so kids know what to do nextAsk engaging questions that encourage cooperationRecognize small steps of progress to build momentum and ease morning stressBy applying these steps, parents can reduce the shouting, nagging, and guilt that often accompanies hectic mornings. This episode not only tackles the morning routine but offers insights that can improve many aspects of daily parenting. Tune in to discover how small adjustments can create a smoother, happier start to the day.Here's the guide How to Get your Kids to Listen with the GREAT method https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/justlistenWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/