Husband Shuts Down when He Can't Fix It

This is Christian marriage advice for the moment your husband goes silent because he can't fix what's hurting you. I'm Kelly DuPee, a Christian marriage coach and police chaplain, and in this video I'll show you why so many husbands shut down when they can't fix your problem, and what they can do instead.In this video you will learn:The two things every one of us reaches for when someone we love is hurting: a wrench or a blanket.Why husbands understand wrenches but were never taught what a blanket is for.Why listening isn't something you do while you wait to actually help her. Listening is helping.The "Ministry of Presence" I learned as a police chaplain, and how it applies to your marriage.Five practical steps for the next time your spouse brings you something you can't fixIf you've ever gone quiet because you didn't know what to say, this video will change how you show up for your spouse.Scriptures referenced: Proverbs 29:20, Romans 12:15, 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, James 1:19, Proverbs 20:5, Galatians 6:2, Matthew 5:4For personalized help, book your free 30-minute strategy call, visit turnitup.coach or call or text 626-804-1731 or schedule online at https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call Get your free digital copy of my book, Turn It Up, How to Have the Lifelong Marriage That You Really Want: https://turnitup.coach/75 Download my free Couples Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide Watch my video on how to improve your listening: https://youtu.be/6j_LXfKKLCU