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EPISODE · May 11, 2026 · 16 MIN

I dare you to go repel & discust people - The truth about caring what others think

from The Confidence Chronicles · host Erika Cramer

👉🏽 Watch How To Build a Stand out Personal Brand Masterclass here: https://courses.thequeenofconfidence.com/offers/7UiNB2x9/checkout If You’re Scared of Being Judged, Watch This In this episode, I’m unpacking one of the biggest things stopping women from building their brand, growing their business, speaking up online, and becoming fully expressed: The fear of being judged. After coaching women inside my recent personal branding masterclass, I noticed the same fear coming up again and again: “What if people judge me?” “What if people talk about me?” “What if I post and people don’t like me?” And honestly? They probably will. That’s part of visibility. That’s part of leadership. That’s part of doing meaningful work. In this conversation, we talk about: why criticism is inevitable why strangers’ opinions should not control your life how fear of rejection keeps women small the connection between confidence and self-expression why your mission must become bigger than your fear and how to stop hiding and fully own who you are If you’re tired of shrinking yourself because of what other people might think, this episode will hit deep. 👑 LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE TO THE CONFIDENCE CHRONICLES → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MUxtupRLNGB8cuNC9mwXI → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022 → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWtf2VIsUYg-vkERa16r_VcFNz3Bt6kLI → All platforms: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcast/ 📖 GET ERIKA'S BOOKS → Becoming Magnetic (Penguin Random House, 2025) → Confidence Feels Like Shit (2020) Available here: https://shop.thequeenofconfidence.com/collections/book Amazon, Barnes & Noble or any audio book app 📩 GROW YOUR FANBASE — Learn the timeless skill that turned my 1,000 followers into a 7 figure global business → https://courses.thequeenofconfidence.com/offers/TKhTxM3n/checkout 🎤 BOOK ERIKA TO SPEAK → For keynotes, corporate events, and women's leadership conferences in Australia and the USA: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/speaking/ 📲 FOLLOW ERIKA → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/?hl=en → LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-queenconfidence/ → Website: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/about/ → TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeenofconfidence 🙏🏽 ENJOYED THIS EPISODE? If this episode resonated, share it to your stories and tag me so I can see what landed for you 💖 Chapters 00:00:00 There Will Be People Who Don't Like You: The Hard Truth 00:01:16 The Fear That's Stopping You: Insights from the Masterclass 00:02:17 A Stranger's Opinion Has Stopped You from Your Mission 00:02:37 We Know Better But We're Still Stuck: The 2025 Problem 00:04:32 Haters and Lovers: The Two Sides of Making Impact 00:04:58 Are You Okay With People Being Wrong About You? 00:06:36 These People Were Sent to Test You 00:06:58 The Cost of Caring: You're Stopping Yourself from Helping 00:08:11 Erica's Superpower: Not Giving a Fuck What Anyone Thinks 00:08:50 Stop Talking About Big Stuff, Start Doing Big Stuff 00:09:28 Look Forward to the Haters: Expect Them to Arrive 00:09:55 Suffering Is Part of Living an Expansive Life 00:12:02 Patch Up Your Bucket: Do Your Internal Work First 00:13:12 Don't Read the News, Be the News 00:13:50 Block Your Family If You Need To: Get Fully Expressed 00:14:08 I Dare You to Disgust People: The Repulsion Challenge 00:14:44 Nothing Will Stop You: Training for What's Coming

👉🏽 Watch How To Build a Stand out Personal Brand Masterclass here: https://courses.thequeenofconfidence.com/offers/7UiNB2x9/checkout If You’re Scared of Being Judged, Watch This In this episode, I’m unpacking one of the biggest things stopping women from building their brand, growing their business, speaking up online, and becoming fully expressed: The fear of being judged. After coaching women inside my recent personal branding masterclass, I noticed the same fear coming up again and again: “What if people judge me?” “What if people talk about me?” “What if I post and people don’t like me?” And honestly? They probably will. That’s part of visibility. That’s part of leadership. That’s part of doing meaningful work. In this conversation, we talk about: why criticism is inevitable why strangers’ opinions should not control your life how fear of rejection keeps women small the connection between confidence and self-expression why your mission must become bigger than your fear and how to stop hiding and fully own who you are If you’re tired of shrinking yourself because of what other people might think, this episode will hit deep. 👑 LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE TO THE CONFIDENCE CHRONICLES → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MUxtupRLNGB8cuNC9mwXI → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022 → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWtf2VIsUYg-vkERa16r_VcFNz3Bt6kLI → All platforms: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcast/ 📖 GET ERIKA'S BOOKS → Becoming Magnetic (Penguin Random House, 2025) → Confidence Feels Like Shit (2020) Available here: https://shop.thequeenofconfidence.com/collections/book Amazon, Barnes & Noble or any audio book app 📩 GROW YOUR FANBASE — Learn the timeless skill that turned my 1,000 followers into a 7 figure global business → https://courses.thequeenofconfidence.com/offers/TKhTxM3n/checkout 🎤 BOOK ERIKA TO SPEAK → For keynotes, corporate events, and women's leadership conferences in Australia and the USA: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/speaking/ 📲 FOLLOW ERIKA → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/?hl=en → LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-queenconfidence/ → Website: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/about/ → TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeenofconfidence 🙏🏽 ENJOYED THIS EPISODE? If this episode resonated, share it to your stories and tag me so I can see what landed for you 💖 Chapters 00:00:00 There Will Be People Who Don't Like You: The Hard Truth 00:01:16 The Fear That's Stopping You: Insights from the Masterclass 00:02:17 A Stranger's Opinion Has Stopped You from Your Mission 00:02:37 We Know Better But We're Still Stuck: The 2025 Problem 00:04:32 Haters and Lovers: The Two Sides of Making Impact 00:04:58 Are You Okay With People Being Wrong About You? 00:06:36 These People Were Sent to Test You 00:06:58 The Cost of Caring: You're Stopping Yourself from Helping 00:08:11 Erica's Superpower: Not Giving a Fuck What Anyone Thinks 00:08:50 Stop Talking About Big Stuff, Start Doing Big Stuff 00:09:28 Look Forward to the Haters: Expect Them to Arrive 00:09:55 Suffering Is Part of Living an Expansive Life 00:12:02 Patch Up Your Bucket: Do Your Internal Work First 00:13:12 Don't Read the News, Be the News 00:13:50 Block Your Family If You Need To: Get Fully Expressed 00:14:08 I Dare You to Disgust People: The Repulsion Challenge 00:14:44 Nothing Will Stop You: Training for What's Coming

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