i remember when my mother died, i had moved to aunt beckys house. when we were there one day, my aunt katie and aunt becky were sitting down talking about my mothers death. i remember i walked up to them and told them it would be ok or something. then it

i remember when my mother died, i had moved to aunt beckys house. when we were there one day, my aunt katie and aunt becky were sitting down talking about my mothers death. i remember i walked up to them and told them it would be ok or something. then it was either aunt katie or aunt becky, kind of seemed like they both were kind of coarsem, but i think it was aunt katie that said ,  "that is not something a child should say to an adult"  something similar to that.  she was telling me not to tell them that it would be ok when they were talking about my mother.  that  "it would be ok" is not something a child would say to an adult.         at the time, i just considered it bad luck.  but, this is why now looking back on these people though, i am kind of suspicious.  in 96 hours or whatever, i went from having my mother, to being told by an aunt that  a child shouldnt say "it will be ok"  to an adult i dont really know where she was coming from saying that.   she was only in her 30s or 40s at the time