EPISODE · Jun 24, 2025 · 15 MIN
I said 'NO!' How to hold boundaries without losing it
from Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries · host Camilla McGill
Your child is begging, whining, or having a meltdown, and all you did was calmly say “no.” Suddenly, you’re second-guessing yourself, snapping, or giving in just to keep the peace. Sound familiar?In this episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill explains why holding boundaries is so hard, and how to do it in a calm, clear and kind way, even when your child shouts “You’re a bad mum!” in the middle of the supermarket.You’ll learn how to hold firm without losing your cool, while building resilience and trust in your child. ✅ Hold the boundary with warmth (without over-explaining) ✅ Don’t explain on repeat - here’s what to say instead ✅ Stay steady in the storm - even when emotions run highPlus, hear one mum’s Coco Pops supermarket dilemma, a story about mint ice cream and regret, and a powerful coaching example that helped a child sleep better, all through consistent, kind boundaries.🎁 Free guide: www.myparentingsolutions.com/justlisten📞 Book a discovery call: www.myparentingsolutions.com/chat⏱️ Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction: The struggle of holding boundaries 00:24 Why boundaries are important 01:57 Real-life parenting dilemma: The supermarket scenario 02:48 ✅ Tool 1: Hold the boundary with warmth 06:10 ✅ Tool 2: Don’t explain on repeat 09:08 ✅ Tool 3: Stay steady in the stormConnect with Camilla for a FREE discovery call www.myparentingsolutions.com/chatGet Camilla’s free guide How to Get Kids to Listen www.myparentingsolutions.com/justlistenWhen you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/
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Your child is begging, whining, or having a meltdown, and all you did was calmly say “no.” Suddenly, you’re second-guessing yourself, snapping, or giving in just to keep the peace. Sound familiar? In this episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill explains why holding boundaries is so hard, and how to do it in a calm, clear and kind way, even when your child shouts “You’re a bad mum!” in the middle of the supermarket. You’ll learn how to hold firm without losing your cool, while building r...
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