EPISODE · Dec 19, 2025 · 1H 35M
I was 13 & No One Protected Me [ft. Ray]
from What They Don't Say: Sexual Assault and Everything in Between · host What They Don't Say Podcast
In this episode, Ray shares her story of being abused at 13, and what happened when the people and institutions meant to protect her didn’t.This conversation explores coercion, fear, and trauma at a young age, as well as the lasting impact of being disbelieved, silenced, and pushed aside by a school system more focused on protecting itself than protecting a child. Ray shares what it’s like to grow up without language for what happened, and how institutional failure can be just as damaging as the abuse itself.If you were hurt when you were young. If the adults or institutions meant to protect you, failed. You’re not alone here. This episode is for you. Grab a blanket and get cozy. Cheers! Follow Ray on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bluraybeyond/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bluraybeyondBook mentioned: https://a.co/d/dZAuhkEGet Educated: www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violenceGot questions? Have an episode idea?Send us a message: WhatTheyDontSay.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/whattheydontsayofficial/Tik Tok: www.tiktok.com/@whattheydontsayofficialIf you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted and needs support: 1-800-656-4573 (National Sexual Assault Hotline)If you value these conversations and want to help us keep them going, one way to support is through Buy Me a Coffee . Your contribution helps us continue creating these conversations. And if monetary support isn’t accessible, rating the show, sharing an episode, or following along on social helps more than you know <3
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In this episode, Ray shares her story of being abused at 13, and what happened when the people and institutions meant to protect her didn’t.This conversation explores coercion, fear, and trauma at a young age, as well as the lasting impact of being disbelieved, silenced, and pushed aside by a school system more focused on protecting itself than protecting a child. Ray shares what it’s like to grow up without language for what happened, and how institutional failure can be just as damaging as the abuse itself.If you were hurt when you were young. If the adults or institutions meant to protect you, failed. You’re not alone here. This episode is for you. Grab a blanket and get cozy. Cheers! Follow Ray on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bluraybeyond/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bluraybeyondBook mentioned: https://a.co/d/dZAuhkEGet Educated: www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violenceGot questions? Have an episode idea?Send us a message: WhatTheyDontSay.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/whattheydontsayofficial/Tik Tok: www.tiktok.com/@whattheydontsayofficialIf you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted and needs support: 1-800-656-4573 (National Sexual Assault Hotline)If you value these conversations and want to help us keep them going, one way to support is through Buy Me a Coffee . Your contribution helps us continue creating these conversations. And if monetary support isn’t accessible, rating the show, sharing an episode, or following along on social helps more than you know <3
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I was 13 & No One Protected Me [ft. Ray]
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