ICE, ICE BABY

This is a heavier episode. In this impromptu live recording, the hosts of Stupid Sh*t My Brain Tells Me come together to process their reactions to ongoing ICE raids, violence against immigrant communities, and the emotional toll of witnessing these events in real time. This episode reflects our personal experiences and emotions. We know not everyone will share these perspectives. This was a difficult conversation — one we struggled with and needed to process after — and it’s not one we’re done having. This conversation is raw, emotional, and deeply human. There are fewer laughs and more pauses — because sometimes what’s happening in the world needs to be named out loud. In this episode, we talk about: The fear and grief many immigrant communities are carrying right now What it’s like to live with a constant sense of being targeted or watched The impact of seeing violence over and over through social media and news How racism, dehumanization, and power show up in modern systems The emotional weight of holding empathy while trying to stay safe The cognitive dissonance of going on with daily life while others can’t Why this isn’t about “legality,” but about humanity We also discuss: Doom-scrolling and the toll it takes on our minds and bodies The fear parents carry for their children — and children carry for their families The pressure to stay informed while also protecting your mental health What it means to care, witness, and still survive day-to-day Toward the end of the episode, we share grounding reminders and practical resources, including: Knowing your rights The importance of memorizing phone numbers and emergency contacts Planning for children’s safety and guardianship Seeking legal and community support Reaching out for mental health support when the weight feels too heavy This episode is not meant to have answers. It’s meant to say: we see you, we’re hurting too, and you’re not alone. Content note: This episode includes discussion of violence, death, racism, and immigration enforcement that may be distressing for some listeners.