I’m Recording The Words I Wish My Dad Heard

Send us Fan MailSeven years can pass in a blink, and still leave you standing in the same spot emotionally, holding one sentence you wish you’d said differently. Tonight, I’m sharing something personal: the goodbye I didn’t fully give my dad when everything was happening fast and shock made my love come out too small. If you’ve ever replayed a final moment, or wondered why your “I love you” didn’t sound like you, you’ll understand this one.I walk through what I remember from those hours, what I wanted him to know, and the words I’ve carried since. I speak a letter out loud that includes gratitude for the fight through surgeries, radiation, and chemotherapy, sorrow for his suffering, and the promise that we will stay strong and stay connected. I also talk about why I tried to hold it together for him, and how becoming a parent later changed the way I see what it means to leave your child behind.This is a short, heavy, honest listen about grief, end-of-life moments, and creating your own closure when you can’t change the past. If there’s someone you never got to say goodbye to, I share a simple ritual you can try: record the words anyway, not because they’ll hear it, but because you will. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review telling me what one line you’d want in your own goodbye.Thanks for listening coffee with a twist.Email me at: [email protected]: I don’t own copyrights to any music you hear in any of my episodes.