In-the-Moment Jealousy in ENM: A Listener's Voicemail Confession

In-the-Moment Jealousy in ENM: A Listener's Voicemail Confession Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — This week's Quickie tackles one of the most relatable topics in ethical non-monogamy: that flash of jealousy that hits in the moment, even when everything else feels solid. An anonymous listener sent in a voicemail describing a familiar scene: a good time at a pool party or meet-and-greet, a partner doing something he thought he was okay with... and then that sudden hand squeeze or whispered "please don't." Adam and Pris read the voicemail live and dig into it — no filter, no judgment. In this episode: Why in-the-moment jealousy is normal (even for people who don't consider themselves jealous) The "code" system Adam & Pris use to signal discomfort without killing the vibe How alcohol lowers inhibitions AND lowers your ability to process what you're feeling Why you shouldn't feel guilty for pulling back, even when your partner "attends to you well" The one time Adam & Pris broke up over a jealousy fight — and what fixed it 🎙️ Sponsors SDC (Swingers Date Club) — use code 38236 for a discount on your membership. 3Fun — the app for open-minded couples and singles, use code TK11932. FirmTech — use code BEYOMONO at checkout. ProDx Health — use code BEYOMONO for savings on your order. Snoozy Gummies — because after all that processing and hashing it out, you deserve some good sleep. Get 15% off with our link: snwbl.io/snoozy/ADAM89158 📅 Upcoming Events Catch us at Krazy Winter Nights KC, February 19–21, 2027 — grab tickets at krazykasbh.com and use code BEYOMONO for a discount. 📻 More Ways to Listen Catch us live on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central at fullswapradio.com. And coming soon: our own live show, Thursdays 7–8 PM Central right on our website! 🔗 Stay Connected Visit beyond-monogamy.com for the full episode library, our listener confessional line, upcoming events, and everything Beyond Monogamy. Got a question, confession, or "does anyone else do this" moment? Leave us a voicemail — you might end up on a future Quickie!