Incomplete Consideration - The Silent Disruptor of Marriage Repair

In this episode of NeuroFM, Jeremy Rochford explores one of the most overlooked relationship killers in neurodiverse marriages: incomplete and unfulfilled consideration. Not necessarily cruelty. Not always intentional neglect. But the slow erosion that happens when someone feels repeatedly unseen, unaccounted for, or emotionally stranded in the small moments that make up daily life. Jeremy breaks down why good intentions alone don’t rebuild trust—and how repeated patterns of “I meant to” can quietly become relational exhaustion for the other person.Through practical examples, honest reflection, and relational insight, Jeremy explains why repair requires more than apologies or awareness. It requires consideration that becomes visible, actionable, and sustainable. He unpacks how executive function struggles, emotional overwhelm, defensiveness, and assumptions can all interfere with follow-through—and what couples can begin doing instead to create safety, predictability, and repair. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the cycle of “we talked about this already,” this episode offers a grounded and hopeful path forward.To learn more about their coaching services, NeuroFam, please check out https://www.ourneurofam.com/  Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven. You can check out their awesome stuff here - https://www.eleventysevenisalive.com/ Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. The band doesn’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here - https://heyworldcreative.com/