Insightful conversation about how to stop Performing For Love And Start Loving Yourself

Send us fan mail. We love to hear from you!Imagine rebuilding your life from the ground up, starting with the belief that once convinced you that you were unlovable. That’s the turning point Angie Hawkins shares as we unpack how grief, a cross-country move, and a hard look in the mirror led her from people pleasing and perfectionism to a life powered by self-trust and clear boundaries. It’s a candid journey with practical tools you can use today.We get specific about what kept her stuck and what set her free. Angie explains why general advice and spiritual highs weren’t enough without integration, and how coaching turned ideas into action: setting boundaries at work, tolerating guilt without caving, and regulating her nervous system through real-world stressors. The shift was palpable, negative comments stopped derailing her, and positive feedback became a nice-to-have, not a lifeline. She connects the dots between chronic anxiety, autoimmune flares, and self-abandonment, showing how alignment calmed her mind and body.We define people pleasing in clear terms and share how to stop performing for approval. You’ll hear daily practices that build your inner glow: one joy action per day, steady nervous system hygiene, boundary reps even when uncomfortable, and simple intuition prompts that grow self-trust. We also tackle social media’s maze of filters and opinions with a grounded approach: discernment over comparison, focus over noise. As Angie puts it, not everyone has to like chocolate ice cream, and not everyone has to like you.By the end, you’ll have a roadmap for changing beliefs through behavior, attracting healthier relationships and work, and living from your own light, not the algorithm’s. If this resonates, share it with someone who needs a nudge toward boundaries and self-trust, then subscribe and leave a review to help others find the show.More on Angie Hawkins at https://www.innerglowbyangie.com/Thank you for listening!Support the showNichol Ellis-McGregor, MHS | LinkedInFacebookMrs. Nichol (@mrs.nichol_7) | TikTokNichol Ellis-McGregor (@mrs_nichol) • Instagram photos and videosHOME | Nichol-Empowerment Life Coach (nicholkellis-mcgregor.com)Thank you for listening!