IS IT REASONABLE TO EXPECT EMOTIONAL AVAILABILITY FROM THE UNFAITHFUL DURING BETRAYAL RECOVERY?

Is it reasonable to expect the unfaithful to show up for your emotions after betrayal? In this episode of Ask The Betrayed, Sharon and Rae tackle one of the most common and painful questions betrayed partners ask: • "Is it fair to expect emotional availability?" • "Can I ask for empathy?" • "Am I asking for too much?" After infidelity, many betrayed partners feel confused or even guilty for wanting their unfaithful partner to show up emotionally.  But when the unfaithful don't, it can feel like a second betrayal. In this episode, we explore: • Why emotional immaturity often underlies both the affair and the emotional avoidance afterward • The survival-based parts of the unfaithful that resist connection • Why emotional shutdown is not about your worth • The difference between protection and connection • How betrayed partners can ask for what they need without over-functioning • A hugely powerful boundary betrayed partners can use immediately • Why "If in doubt, lean in" is a fundamental key to repair the unfaithful can use If you are the betrayed partner wondering whether it's reasonable to ask for empathy, truth, and emotional presence — the answer is yes. And if you are the unfaithful partner struggling to show up emotionally, this episode explains why it feels so hard — and why leaning in anyway is the path forward. Healing from betrayal trauma requires courage from both partners. Emotional availability is not optional in recovery — it is essential. If this episode resonated, please like, subscribe, and share — it helps others find support and hope after betrayal. 💬 Please comment below! 🔔 Please Subscribe (and Like) for More Join Sharon and Rae every two weeks for grounded, empathetic conversations about healing after betrayal, rebuilding your identity, strengthening your voice, and reclaiming your life. Please share this video with someone who needs encouragement in their healing journey. 📬 If you have questions you'd like us to answer in an episode, or would like to inquire about coaching with Rae or therapy help, including intensives, with Sharon and James, please reach out to us at: [email protected] 🎧 You can also find us on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere podcasts are found. 🔗 Need help healing? Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.HopeForUs.com (Email: [email protected] ) or find Rae at www.HealingTalksBack.com (Email: [email protected] ) Our Website: https://www.AskTheBetrayed.com