Is It Selfish To Choose Me?

How often do you find yourself going against what you want because you think it is selfish to ask for what you want?  It's another common phenomenon, another, in my opinion, generational belief system that irritates the soul of so many people.  The in ability to step towards what is right for you has left many people living in dysfunction and overwhelm and feeling like you have no choice and no personal power. What if there were another way to look at you not choosing you? What if by not choosing you, you were being selfish?  I explore why we must become conscious of balancing what we give to others against what we need for ourselves and how important it is for harmonious relationships.