Is My Child Being Defiant or Overwhelmed? With Parenting Coach Melissa Schulz, EP 157

Send us Fan MailWhy does my child keep melting down, refusing to listen, or turning everyday routines into a battle?In this episode of That's Good Parenting, Dori Durbin sits down with Parenting Coach, Board Certified Behavior Analyst, and founder of Confidently Momming, Melissa Schulz. Drawing on more than 20 years of experience working with children and families and her own experience parenting three uniquely wired children, Melissa shares why understanding the "why" behind behavior is often the missing piece parents need.Melissa believes that good parents are already good at raising good kids. They simply haven't been given the right tools yet. Her approach helps parents move beyond one-size-fits-all strategies and learn how to respond to challenging behaviors in ways that create more calm, connection, and confidence at home.In this conversation, you'll learn:• Why understanding the reason behind behavior matters more than focusing on the behavior itself• How to tell the difference between emotional overwhelm and intentional defiance• Practical strategies for reducing morning and bedtime power struggles• How routines can become one of the most effective parenting tools• Why emotional regulation is one of the most important life skills parents can teach• Two simple action steps that can immediately reduce stress and improve connectionIf you've ever felt stuck in a cycle of frustration, guilt, or overwhelm, this episode offers a refreshing perspective. Melissa shares practical tools, real-life examples, and encouragement that will help you better understand your child while becoming more confident in your own parenting.About Melissa Schulz:Melissa Schulz is a Parenting Coach, Board Certified Behavior Analyst, founder of Confidently Momming, and mom of three. She helps parents of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodivergent children understand the reasons behind challenging behaviors so they can respond with greater confidence, reduce stress, and create calmer, more connected homes. Melissa is passionate about helping parents replace shame with curiosity and discover simple, individualized strategies that truly work for their unique child.Connect with Melissa:Website: www.melissaschulz.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/confidentlymommingFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/confidentlymommingAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children's book illustrator, coach, and host of That's Good Parenting. She helps parents and family-focused professionals kid-size their expertise into children's books that children can understand and apply in everyday life. Through her books, podcast, and coaching, Dori shares practical tools to help families reduce parenting stress and raise confident, resilient kids.Connect with DoriWebsite: https://www.doridurbin.comIsntragram: https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinJoin the That's Good Parenting ClubJoin the That's Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming children's book manuscripts, sneak peeks of new books, exclusive offers, and parenting encouragement designed to help families thrive.JOIN TODAY!https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIf this episode encouraged you, please share it with another parent who could use this message today.Intro for TDP (version 2)