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That's Good Parenting: Expert Tips to Reduce Parenting Stress
by Dori Durbin
Parenting stress, child development, confident kids, and strong family relationships all start with effective parent-child communication, emotional support, and practical tools to treduce overwhelm, anxiety, and frustration.“That’s Good Parenting” is your trusted family resource for simple, expert-backed strategies that help busy parents navigate the challenges of raising resilient, happy children while building deeper connection and harmony at home. Whether you’re dealing with exhaustion, guilt, or feeling stuck, you’ll find guidance from family experts, proven methods for fostering growth and resiliency, and actionable steps to create more “good parent” moments so you can confidently guide your kids and nurture a thriving family environment.Join host Dori Durbin - children's book illustrator, book coach, ghostwriter, former high school teacher, and happily married Christian mom of two young adults- as she searches alongside you
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Why Pursuing Your Goals Can Help You Raise Confident Kids with Madison Friedman, Ep. 167
Send us Fan MailCan pursuing your own goals actually help your children?In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin talks with Madison Friedman, founder of Elevated Minds Growth Center and a child and family development coach, about why parents do not have to choose between pursuing meaningful personal goals and raising children who feel loved, understood, and supported.Madison encourages parents to recognize that two things can be true at once:You can pursue the goals that fulfill you while continuing to show up for your children.When parents continually set aside the interests and goals that energize them, frustration and resentment can begin to build. When they feel supported, confident, and fulfilled, however, those feelings can influence how they interact with their children and the example they provide.Together, Dori and Madison explore:• Why pursuing personal goals does not make someone a selfish parent• How children benefit from watching their parents set goals and do difficult things• Why feeling fulfilled can help parents show up with greater confidence and connection• How sharing responsibilities can reduce parental stress and resentment• Why honestly owning a mistake can help repair the parent-child relationshipThis is a great conversation for any working or busy parent!About Madison FriedmanMadison Friedman is the founder of Elevated Minds Growth Center and a child and family development coach with a background in education and human development.She helps parents recognize stressful patterns, understand how they are showing up during difficult moments, and consider what their children may be trying to communicate. Her work gives parents space to feel seen, heard, and supported as they make small, realistic changes that strengthen their family relationships.Connect with Madison FriedmanWebsite:https://www.elevatedmindsgrowthcenter.comInstagram and TikTok:@elevatedmindsgcAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, and host of the That’s Good Parenting podcast.She helps parenting experts and family-focused professionals kid-size their big concepts into children’s books so families can continue learning important expert content long after a podcast episode, coaching session, or conversation ends.https://www.doridurbin.com/Would you like to help shape future resources for kids and families?The That’s Good Parenting Club is completely free and gives you a behind-the-scenes opportunity to participate as children’s books and parenting resources are being developed.You may be invited to share your opinion on story ideas, concepts, characters, titles, covers, illustrations, reader reactions, and other decisions before publication.Join and participate for free:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Can Play Help You Discipline Without Yelling, Punishment, or Power Struggles? with Adriane Thompson, EP 166
Send us Fan MailCan play actually be a form of discipline?In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin talks with Adriane Thompson, certified parent coach and founder of Raising Kids With Purpose, about how play can help parents connect with their children, support emotional regulation, teach important skills, and make difficult parenting moments feel a little lighter.Adriane works with families raising children who may be neurodivergent, highly emotional, strong-willed, or deeply sensitive. She encourages parents to move away from simply asking whether a behavior is “working” or “not working” and instead consider an important idea:Behavior is communication.Together, Dori and Adriane explore: • Why discipline can be thought of as teaching rather than punishment• Why connection can make it easier for children to access the skills parents are still helping them develop• Why using play doesn't mean no boundaries or letting inappropriate behavior go• Why some adults may feel uncomfortable with play because of their own childhood experiences• How play can continue to support connection with older children and teensAdriane also reminds parents that difficult behavior may be connected to an unmet need or a lagging skill.And for the parent who likes the idea of playful parenting but has no idea where to begin, Adriane offers one very simple first step:About Adriane ThompsonAdriane Thompson is a certified parent coach and founder of Raising Kids With Purpose.Her work combines brain development, emotional regulation, nervous system awareness, attachment, boundaries, and play to help families better understand the needs and skills underneath children’s behavior.She works with families raising children who may be neurodivergent, highly emotional, strong-willed, or deeply sensitive, helping parents build greater connection while teaching the skills their children are still developing.Connect with Adriane ThompsonWebsite:https://raisingkidswithpurpose.comSchedule a conversation with Adriane:https://raisingkidswithpurpose.com/chat/Instagram & Facebook:@raisingkidswithpurposeAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, and host of the That’s Good Parenting podcast.She helps parenting experts and family-focused professionals kid-size their big concepts into children’s books so families can continue learning important expert content long after a podcast episode, coaching session, or conversation ends.https://www.doridurbin.com/Would you like to help shape future resources for kids and families?The That’s Good Parenting Club is completely free and gives you a behind-the-scenes opportunity to participate as children’s books and parenting resources are being developed.You may be invited to share your opinion on story ideas, concepts, characters, titles, covers, illustrations, reader reactions, and other decisions before publication.Join and participate for free:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Let's Be Honest, Different Kids Need Different Parenting | Dori Durbin, EP 165
Send us Fan MailWhat if the parenting advice that works beautifully for one child simply isn’t what another child needs?In this solo episode of That’s Good Parenting, children's book illustrator, coach, and podcaster, Dori Durbin explores why hearing different parenting experts can be so valuable.Children aren’t identical. Even siblings raised in the same home can experience the world in completely different ways. That difference matters.Instead of treating every parenting strategy as one more thing you “should” be doing, Dori encourages you to listen for the ideas that fit your child, your family, and this particular season of parenting.She also explains why this same idea guides her work helping parenting experts “kid-size” their expertise into children’s books—turning big concepts like emotional regulation, confidence, anxiety, and communication into stories children can understand, remember, and return to.In this episode, you’ll hear: Why similar parenting topics are worth revisiting from different perspectives How siblings can experience the same family very differently Why no single parenting expert will have the answer for every child A healthier way to listen to parenting advice without adding more pressure How stories can make big parenting concepts accessible to children Why finding one idea that truly connects may be more helpful than trying to do everything You don’t need every strategy.Sometimes you simply need the right idea, from the right person, at the right time.About Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, and host of the That’s Good Parenting podcast.She helps parenting experts and family-focused professionals kid-size their big concepts into children’s books so families can continue learning important expert content long after a podcast episode, coaching session, or conversation ends.https://www.doridurbin.comWould you like to help shape future resources for kids and families?The That’s Good Parenting Club is completely free and gives you a behind-the-scenes opportunity to participate as children’s books and parenting resources are being developed.You may be invited to share your opinion on story ideas, concepts, characters, titles, covers, illustrations, reader reactions, and other decisions before publication.Join and participate for free:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Tired of Repeating Yourself? How Consistency Can Reduce Parenting Power Struggles | Dr. Lindsay Emerson, EP 164
Send us Fan MailWhat if understanding why your child isn’t listening could make everyday parenting feel a little easier? In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin talks with Dr. Lindsay Emerson, clinical psychologist, mom of four, and founder of Parenting With Psychology, about how psychology can help parents feel more confident, reduce everyday power struggles, and respond to difficult behavior with more clarity.Lindsay shares her practical framework, the Five C’s to Amazing Parenting:• Communication• Consistency• Choices & Checkpoints• Consequences• Check YourselfTogether, Dori and Lindsay explore:• Why consistency helps children trust and respond to a parent’s words• How transition warnings can make leaving the playground, bedtime, and other changes easier• Why young children may not yet have the brain development to regulate emotions or take another person’s perspective• How giving appropriate choices can build cooperation without giving away parental leadership• Why “all feelings are welcome, but not all behaviors are” can help parents hold boundaries with empathyLindsay also reminds parents that a child who appears to be “giving you a hard time” may actually be having a hard time.Understanding what a child’s developing brain is capable of can completely change the way a parent interprets behavior and make it easier to respond with support, structure, and consistency.About Dr. Lindsay EmersonDr. Lindsay Emerson is a clinical psychologist, mom of four, and founder of Parenting With Psychology.Her work helps parents bring decades of psychology research into everyday parenting in a practical, organized way. Through her Five C’s framework, she helps parents build stronger relationships, reduce power struggles, understand child development, and feel more confident about how they want to parent.Connect with Dr. Lindsay EmersonWebsite:https://drlindseyemerson.comInstagram & TikTok:@drlindseyemersonFree Workshop:https://drlindseyemerson.com/workshopAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, and host of the That’s Good Parenting podcast.She helps parenting experts and family-focused professionals kid-size their big concepts into children’s books so families can continue learning important expert content long after a podcast episode, coaching session, or conversation ends.https://www.doridurbin.comWould you like to help shape future resources for kids and families?The That’s Good Parenting Club is completely free and gives you a behind-the-scenes opportunity to participate as children’s books and parenting resources are being developed.You may be invited to share your opinion on story ideas, concepts, characters, titles, covers, illustrations, reader reactions, and other decisions before publication.Join and participate for free:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Is It Laziness—or Executive Function? How to Help Kids With Focus, Organization, and Follow-Through With Carrie Bonnett, EP 163
Send us Fan MailWhat if your child isn’t being lazy or difficult…but is struggling with a brain skill that still needs to be taught?In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin talks with Carrie Bonnett, veteran teacher and Executive Function coach, about the brain skills kids use to get important things done—and why understanding those skills can completely change the way adults respond when children struggle.Carrie explains executive function in wonderfully simple terms: these are the brain skills behind things like planning, organization, time management, focus, self-monitoring, impulse control, and getting started.And importantly, these are skills that can be taught.Together, Dori and Carrie explore:• Why behavior that looks lazy, resistant, or defiant may actually signal a lagging executive-function skill• How breaking big tasks into smaller “chunks” can reduce overwhelm• Why analog clocks can help children actually see time passing• How visual checklists can make invisible expectations easier to manage• Why “I notice…” can open a more helpful conversation than criticismCarrie shows parents and professionals how to bring those things into view with practical supports children can actually use.If you’ve ever wondered why your child seems perfectly capable of doing something—and yet somehow still can’t get started, stay organized, or follow through—this conversation may help you see the struggle very differently.About Carrie BonnettCarrie Bonnett is a veteran teacher, lifelong list-maker, and Executive Function coach based in Bend, Oregon.She works with students and families around the country using a practical, no-shame, brain-first approach that empowers students to thrive, helps parents and teachers better support them, and gives adults practical tools for managing everything life requires.In addition to coaching, Carrie creates digital resources, including her signature course Get the Brain on Board and a series of No-Shame Guides for Parents. She also provides brain-based workshops and trainings for parents, teachers, and other professionals.Carrie is also an adjunct instructor at the University of Portland, where she supports early-career teachers.Connect with CarrieWebsite:https://www.carriebonnett.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/coachcarriebonnett/Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/coachcarriebonnettLinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/carrie-bonnettFree Resourcehttps://www.carriebonnett.com/toolkitAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, and host of the That’s Good Parenting podcast.She helps parenting experts and family-focused professionals kid-size their big concepts into children’s books so families can continue learning important expert content long after a podcast episode, coaching session, or conversation ends.https://www.doridurbin.comWould you like to help shape future resources for kids and families?The That’s Good Parenting Club is completely free and gives you a behind-the-scenes opportunity to participate as children’s books and parenting resources are being developed.You may be invited to share your opinion on story ideas, concepts, characters, titles, covers, illustrations, reader reactions, and other decisions before publication.Join and participate for free:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Why Do I Keep Having the Same Arguments With My Child? The Parenting Patterns Behind the Conflict with Latiffe Ghanem, EP 162
Send us Fan MailWhat if the parenting battle isn't really about your child?Every parent wants a peaceful home, yet many of us find ourselves having the same arguments over and over again. We tell ourselves that next time we'll stay calmer or respond differently and yet somehow we end up right back in the same cycle.What if the problem isn't the argument itself... but it was the pattern behind it?In this conversation, conscious parenting and trauma-informed life coach Latiffe Ghanem shares how an unexpected career change and her own personal growth journey transformed the way she understands parenting. Rather than focusing on changing children's behavior first, she helps parents recognize the patterns they've carried into parenthood so they can respond with greater awareness, confidence, and connection.Together, Dori and Lati explore:• Why parents often repeat the same conflicts in different forms• How childhood experiences shape the way we respond to our children• Why self-awareness is one of the greatest gifts we can give our families• The difference between trying to win an argument and guiding a child through it• How giving yourself grace makes it easier to extend grace to your childIf you've ever felt exhausted by repeating the same parenting struggles, this episode offers hope, practical insight, and the reminder that lasting change begins with understanding yourself.About Latiffe Ghanem:Latiffe (Lati) Ghanem is a conscious parenting and trauma-informed life coach and the founder of Living in Progress. After spending more than 15 years in executive communications, an unexpected career transition led her to discover conscious parenting through Dr. Shefali Tsabary's coaching program.Today, Lati helps overwhelmed moms break free from recurring power struggles by identifying the emotional patterns driving their reactions. Through her coaching, she teaches parents how to regulate their own nervous systems, build healthier relationships with their children, and create calmer, more connected homes.Her signature eight-week coaching program, Breaking the Power Struggle, helps mothers move beyond guilt, perfectionism, and overwhelm so they can parent with greater confidence and compassion.Connect with Latiffe:Website: https://www.livinginprogress.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/livingin_progressAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children's book illustrator, book coach, and host of the That's Good Parenting podcast.She helps parenting experts transform their life-changing ideas into children's books that help kids understand big emotions, build resilience, and strengthen family relationships through story.Through her podcast, books, and coaching, Dori shares practical tools that reduce parenting stress and help families raise confident, emotionally healthy children.Connect with DoriWebsite: https://www.doridurbin.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinJoin the That's Good Parenting ClubJoin the That's Good Parenting Club for parenting resources, behind-the-scenes children's book development, early releases, and opportunities to help shape future books before they're published.https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Your Child Doesn't Need a Perfect Parent: How to Build Confidence Without Having All the Answers with Alyssa Smith, EP161
Send us Fan MailWhat if your child doesn't need you to have all the answers?Parents often feel pressure to stay calm, fix problems quickly, and make sure nothing goes wrong. But what if the act of parents giving "the answers" all the time actually keeps our children from developing the skills themselves?In this conversation, parent coach and executive function specialist Alyssa Smith shares how one of the hardest seasons of her own life transformed the way she parents. After experiencing tremendous personal loss and change, she discovered that children don't need perfect parents. But they do need honest, connected ones who are willing to solve problems with them instead of for them.Together, Dori and Alyssa explore:• Why vulnerability can strengthen your relationship with your child• The surprising message behind parental resentment• How to move from fixing problems to coaching through them• Why connection should come before routines and systems• One simple question that helps children build confidence one decision at a timeIf you've ever wondered whether you have to hold everything together for your family, this episode offers a freeing reminder: your child doesn't need perfection. They need your partnership.About Alyssa SmithAlyssa Smith, M.Ed., is a parent coach, educator, and former Montessori and international school teacher with more than 17 years of experience helping children and families thrive. She specializes in helping parents of school-aged children raise resilient, independent kids with more calm, confidence, and connection—and less over-functioning.Drawing on her background in education, psychology, Montessori principles, inquiry-based learning, and Positive Discipline, Alyssa equips parents with practical tools to step back so their children can step up. Her coaching emphasizes child agency, emotional resilience, executive functioning, and stronger family relationships without relying on guilt, shame, or perfection.As a mom of two, Alyssa understands the realities of everyday parenting and is passionate about helping families move from stress and power struggles to collaboration, confidence, and lasting connection.Find AlyssaWebsite: https://www.alyssasmithcoaching.comEmail: [email protected]: https://www.instagram.com/SameTeamFamiliesLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alyssasmithcoaching/Facebook: https://www.alyssasmithcoaching.comFree Parenting Resources:https://www.alyssasmithcoaching.com/resourcesAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children's book illustrator, book coach, and host of the That's Good Parenting podcast.She helps parents and family-focused professionals transform life-changing ideas into children's books that help kids understand big emotions, build resilience, and strengthen family connection through story.Through her podcast, books, and coaching, Dori shares practical tools that reduce parenting stress and help families raise confident, emotionally healthy children.Connect with DoriWebsite: https://www.doridurbin.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinJoin the That's Good Parenting ClubJoin the That's Good Parenting Club for parenting resources, behind-the-scenes book content, early releases, and encouragement to help your family thrive.https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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What Doctors Notice Before You Even Ask a Question | Dr. Emily Boss on Helping Parents Make Better Healthcare Decisions, EP 160
Send us Fan MailBefore your child's doctor says a single word, they've already noticed something important.It isn't your child's symptoms.It isn't your insurance.It's often whether you've already made up your mind.In this episode of That's Good Parenting, Dori Durbin chats with pediatric ENT surgeon Dr. Emily Boss to discuss one of the biggest challenges families face during medical appointments: making confident healthcare decisions when emotions, online research, and outside opinions are already shaping the conversation.Dr. Boss explains why many parents arrive at appointments believing they already know the best treatment. She also shares how doctors can better support families through shared decision-making, helping parents move from uncertainty and pressure to confidence and clarity.Whether your child is dealing with enlarged tonsils, chronic ear infections, snoring, or another medical concern, this episode will help you approach your next doctor's appointment feeling informed, prepared, and empowered.In This Episode You'll LearnWhat doctors notice before the conversation even beginsWhy parents often arrive with a treatment already in mindHow shared decision-making leads to better healthcare outcomesQuestions that help parents make informed medical decisionsHow to reduce decision stress and feel more confident during appointmentsPractical ways to become a stronger advocate for your child's healthAbout Dr. Emily BossDr. Emily Boss is a pediatric ear, nose, and throat (ENT) surgeon, researcher, and nationally recognized leader in shared decision-making. She helps physicians and families work together to make informed healthcare decisions that reflect each child's unique needs and each family's values.Through her clinical practice and research, Dr. Boss is passionate about improving communication between parents and healthcare providers so families feel supported—not pressured—when making important medical decisions.Connect with Dr. Emily BossWebsite: https://dremilyboss.comFreebie: https://mail.google.com/mail/u/0/#search/forms%2C+emily+boss/FMfcgzQgMgQFBZGklrrsRqRtdLfJJZlc?projector=1&messagePartId=0.1About Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children's book illustrator, book coach, and host of the That's Good Parenting podcast.She helps parents and family-focused professionals transform life-changing ideas into children's books that help kids understand big emotions, build resilience, and strengthen family connection through story.Through her podcast, books, and coaching, Dori shares practical tools that reduce parenting stress and help families raise confident, emotionally healthy children.Connect with DoriWebsite: https://www.doridurbin.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinJoin the That's Good Parenting ClubJoin the That's Good Parenting Club for parenting resources, behind-the-scenes book content, early releases, and encouragement to help your family thrive.https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Is Your Child's Self-Worth Tied to Achievement? How Parents Can Build Lasting Confidence with Dr. Carla Caturia, EP 159
Send us Fan MailIs Your Child's Self-Worth Tied to Achievement?What happens when a child's confidence depends on their performance?In this episode of That's Good Parenting, Dori Durbin sits down with Dr. Carla Caturia, elite mental performance coach, speaker, and founder of House of Rise, to explore how parents can help children build confidence without tying their worth to grades, sports, or accomplishments.Dr. Carla works with tweens, teens, young adults, athletes, and families who are navigating perfectionism, anxiety, fear of failure, and the pressure to succeed. Having experienced achievement-driven perfectionism herself, she now helps families break the cycle by developing emotional resilience, healthy self-talk, and lasting confidence.Together, Dori and Carla discuss how well-meaning parents can unintentionally increase pressure by trying to fix problems too quickly, offering advice instead of listening, or focusing more on outcomes than growth.One of the biggest takeaways from this conversation is the importance of helping children separate who they are from what they achieve—a shift that can reduce anxiety, build resilience, and help kids enjoy the activities they love again.In This Episode You'll LearnWhy high-achieving kids often tie their self-worth to performanceHow parents unintentionally add pressure—even with the best intentionsSimple phrases that help children feel heard instead of immediately "fixed"Why allowing kids to solve age-appropriate problems builds confidenceHow positive self-talk shapes emotional resilience and long-term successPractical ways to encourage growth without fueling perfectionismWhether you're raising an athlete, an honor-roll student, a performer, or simply a child who puts a lot of pressure on themselves, this conversation will give you practical tools to help your child thrive with confidence instead of fear.About Dr. Carla CaturiaDr. Carla Caturia is an elite mental performance coach, speaker, and founder of House of Rise. She helps tweens, teens, young adults, athletes, and families build resilience, confidence, emotional intelligence, and healthy relationships without becoming consumed by pressure, anxiety, or achievement.Through her SHIFT framework, Dr. Carla teaches young people how to regulate emotions, develop empowering habits, strengthen their identity, and build lasting confidence that extends far beyond sports, academics, and performance.Connect with Dr. Carla CaturiaWebsite:https://houseofrise.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/houseofriseFreebie link:https://www.skool.com/the-mental-edge-7239/about?ref=f15e91fb0ffe46449e709f6885817ea4About Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children's book illustrator, book coach, and host of the That's Good Parenting podcast.She helps parents and family-focused professionals transform life-changing ideas into children's books that help kids understand big emotions, build resilience, and strengthen family connection through story.Through her podcast, books, and coaching, Dori shares simple, practical tools that reduce parenting stress and help families raise confident, emotionally healthy children.Connect with DoriWebsite:https://www.doridurbin.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinJoin the That's Good Parenting ClubWant to help shape future children's books while receiving exclusive parenting resources?Join the That's Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming manuscripts, sneak peeks, early book releases, and encouragement designed to help your family thrive.https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Are You Accidentally Teaching Your Child That Everything Is an Emergency? with Angela Caldwell, EP 158
Send us Fan MailAre You Accidentally Teaching Your Child That Everything Is an Emergency?In this episode of That's Good Parenting, Dori Durbin sits down with Angela Caldwell, MA, LMFT—licensed marriage and family therapist, professor, and Founder of the Caldwell Family Institute—to explore why so many families feel overwhelmed by conflict, anxiety, and everyday parenting challenges.Angela has spent years helping families heal through life's hardest transitions—from parenting struggles and communication breakdowns to divorce, grief, trauma, and emotional distance. In this conversation, she shares practical ways parents can reduce stress by changing how they respond to conflict and big emotions.One of the most memorable takeaways is Angela's "Band-Aid Rule," a simple strategy that teaches children the difference between a true emergency and the everyday frustrations that are part of growing up. She explains why parents don't need to rescue children from every uncomfortable feeling—and why learning to experience disappointment, sadness, frustration, and anger is essential for building emotional resilience.You'll also hear Angela share the four foundational messages she believes every child needs to grow into a confident, emotionally healthy adult.In this episode, you'll discover:Why family conflict is normal and can strengthen relationships How hidden expectations often create more conflict than the problem itselfAngela's simple Band-Aid Rule for reducing anxiety in your homeHow slowing down can instantly change the emotional tone of your parentingThe Four Messages every child needs to believeWhether you're parenting toddlers who think everything is urgent or teenagers who barely say more than one word, this episode will help you approach conflict with more confidence, more connection, and far less stress.About Angela CaldwellAngela Caldwell, MA, LMFT is a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Family Coach, professor, and Founder and Director of the Caldwell Family Institute in Los Angeles. She specializes in helping families navigate conflict, parenting challenges, divorce, grief, major life transitions, and communication breakdowns through healthier relationships and shared values.Angela believes every parent deserves a village. Her upcoming book, The Four Messages, is the first in her Village Series and explores the four core beliefs every child needs to thrive.Connect with AngelaWebsite: https://www.angelacaldwell.comAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children's book illustrator, coach, and host of That's Good Parenting. She helps parents and family-focused professionals transform life-changing parenting lessons into children's books that help kids understand big ideas through simple stories. Through her podcast, books, and coaching, Dori shares practical tools to help families reduce parenting stress and raise confident, resilient children.Connect with DoriWebsite: https://www.doridurbin.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinJoin the That's Good Parenting ClubGet behind-the-scenes access to upcoming children's books, exclusive parenting resources, sneak peeks, and encouragement designed to help your family thrive.https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIf this episode encouraged you, please share it with another parent who could use this message today.Intro for TDP (version 2)
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Is My Child Being Defiant or Overwhelmed? With Parenting Coach Melissa Schulz, EP 157
Send us Fan MailWhy does my child keep melting down, refusing to listen, or turning everyday routines into a battle?In this episode of That's Good Parenting, Dori Durbin sits down with Parenting Coach, Board Certified Behavior Analyst, and founder of Confidently Momming, Melissa Schulz. Drawing on more than 20 years of experience working with children and families and her own experience parenting three uniquely wired children, Melissa shares why understanding the "why" behind behavior is often the missing piece parents need.Melissa believes that good parents are already good at raising good kids. They simply haven't been given the right tools yet. Her approach helps parents move beyond one-size-fits-all strategies and learn how to respond to challenging behaviors in ways that create more calm, connection, and confidence at home.In this conversation, you'll learn:• Why understanding the reason behind behavior matters more than focusing on the behavior itself• How to tell the difference between emotional overwhelm and intentional defiance• Practical strategies for reducing morning and bedtime power struggles• How routines can become one of the most effective parenting tools• Why emotional regulation is one of the most important life skills parents can teach• Two simple action steps that can immediately reduce stress and improve connectionIf you've ever felt stuck in a cycle of frustration, guilt, or overwhelm, this episode offers a refreshing perspective. Melissa shares practical tools, real-life examples, and encouragement that will help you better understand your child while becoming more confident in your own parenting.About Melissa Schulz:Melissa Schulz is a Parenting Coach, Board Certified Behavior Analyst, founder of Confidently Momming, and mom of three. She helps parents of strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodivergent children understand the reasons behind challenging behaviors so they can respond with greater confidence, reduce stress, and create calmer, more connected homes. Melissa is passionate about helping parents replace shame with curiosity and discover simple, individualized strategies that truly work for their unique child.Connect with Melissa:Website: www.melissaschulz.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/confidentlymommingFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/confidentlymommingAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children's book illustrator, coach, and host of That's Good Parenting. She helps parents and family-focused professionals kid-size their expertise into children's books that children can understand and apply in everyday life. Through her books, podcast, and coaching, Dori shares practical tools to help families reduce parenting stress and raise confident, resilient kids.Connect with DoriWebsite: https://www.doridurbin.comIsntragram: https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinJoin the That's Good Parenting ClubJoin the That's Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming children's book manuscripts, sneak peeks of new books, exclusive offers, and parenting encouragement designed to help families thrive.JOIN TODAY!https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIf this episode encouraged you, please share it with another parent who could use this message today.Intro for TDP (version 2)
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The Empowered Child: How Parents Can Build Confidence, Resilience, and Independence in Kids with Michal Gez, Ep 156
Send us Fan MailEvery parent wants their child to be confident, resilient, independent, and happy.But how do we raise emotionally strong children without protecting them from the very experiences that help them grow?In this episode of That's Good Parenting, Dori Durbin and international speaker, certified coach in positive psychology and CBT-based methods, a lawyer, and the author of The Empowered Child, Michal Gez. Drawing from her background in corporate law, global technology, positive psychology, and CBT-based coaching, Michal shares why so many adults struggle with confidence, boundaries, and resilience—and how parents can help children learn these life lessons much earlier.Michal is the author of The Empowered Child, a practical guide designed to help parents equip children with an emotional "life vest" so they can navigate life's challenges with confidence rather than waiting for adversity to teach them.In this conversation, you'll learn:• Why resilience starts with allowing children to experience manageable challenges• How children can learn to recognize and manage negative self-talk• The "Magic Knight vs. Tragic Knight" technique for emotional regulation• Why parents must model empowerment before teaching it• How to help children dream big without fear of failure• The three qualities every child should look for in a true friend• Practical ways to build confidence, independence, and emotional strength from an early ageIf you've ever wondered how to prepare your child for real life without removing every obstacle, this episode offers practical tools and powerful mindset shifts you can begin using immediately.About Michal Gez:Michal Gez is an international speaker, certified coach in positive psychology and CBT-based methods, a lawyer, and the author of The Empowered Child. Her background in corporate law and global tech, combined with her work coaching individuals, revealed a crucial truth: even highly successful adults often struggle because they were forced to learn life's most important lessons the hard way. Today, her mission is to teach those principles of resilience, confidence, and happiness early, equipping children, parents, and organizations with practical tools to thrive.Connect with Michal:Website: www.michalgez.comAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children's book illustrator, coach, and host of That's Good Parenting. She helps parents and family-focused professionals kid-size their expertise into children's books that children can understand and apply in everyday life. Through her books, podcast, and coaching, Dori shares practical tools to help families reduce parenting stress and raise confident, resilient kids.Connect with Dorihttps://www.doridurbin.comhttps://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinJoin the That's Good Parenting ClubJoin the That's Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming children's book manuscripts, sneak peeks of new books, exclusive offers, and parenting encouragement designed to help families thrive.JOIN TODAY!https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIf this episode encouraged you, please share it with another parent who could use this message today.Intro for TDP (version 2)
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Baby's Here, So Now What? Newborn Support, Postpartum Recovery, and Real Help for New Parents with Jennifer Tawil | EP155
Send us Fan MailHave you ever brought home a new baby and wondered why no one prepared you for what comes next?In this episode, Dori Durbin chats with certified postpartum doula and founder of Lean On Me Westchester Doula, Jennifer Tawil, about one of the biggest transitions families experience: the postpartum season.Jennifer shares her personal journey from private investigator to postpartum doula and explains why so many parents spend months preparing for birth but very little time preparing for life after baby arrives. Together, they explore the realities of postpartum recovery, the importance of building a support system, and why asking for help is often harder than it should be.You'll learn:• Why postpartum planning is just as important as birth planning• The emotional and mental health challenges many new parents face• Why accepting help can be so difficult for parents• Simple ways to prepare your home for a smoother postpartum experience• How postpartum doulas provide practical and emotional support for families• Jennifer's "Trust But Verify" approach to choosing childcare providers• Strategies for helping children adjust to new siblings, caregivers, and life transitionsIf you're expecting a baby, supporting a new parent, or looking for simple ways to reduce stress during one of life's biggest transitions, this episode is for you.About Jennifer TawilJennifer Tawil is a certified postpartum and infant care doula, founder of Lean On Me Westchester Doula, and creator of the Trust But Verify childcare interview system. Along with her team, Jennifer supports busy parents of newborns with the non-judgmental, compassionate care they deeply desire but rarely receive.Jennifer's passion for postpartum support was inspired by her own experience as a new mother. After struggling with anxiety, isolation, and breastfeeding challenges following the birth of her son, she experienced firsthand how life-changing the support of a postpartum doula can be. That experience ultimately led her to leave a 25-year career as a private investigator and dedicate her work to helping families navigate the transition into parenthood with greater confidence and less stress.Today, Jennifer helps parents prepare for birth, recover during the postpartum season, and build the support systems they need to thrive. Through her signature #CompassionInAction approach, she provides practical guidance, emotional support, and hands-on care that allows parents to focus on bonding with their baby while feeling supported every step of the way.Whether supporting first-time parents or families welcoming their fifth child, Jennifer's mission is simple: to help parents feel calm, confident, and cared for during the first weeks and months at home with a newborn.Connect with Jennifer TawilWebsite: https://www.leanonmewestchesterdoula.comChildcare Interview Course: https://www.privateeyeparent.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennifertawilwestchesterdoulahttps://www.privateeyeparent.com/course-waitlistAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children's book illustrator, coach, and host of That's Good Parenting. She helps parents and family-focused professionals kid-size their expertise into children's books that children can understand and apply in everyday life. Through her books, podcast, and coaching, Dori shares practical tools to help families reduce parenting stress and raise confident, resilient kids.Connect with Dorihttps://www.doridurbin.comhttps://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinJoin the That's Good Parenting ClubJoin the That's Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming children's book manuscripts, sneak peeks of new books, exclusive offers, and parenting encouragement designed to help families thrive.JOIN TODAY!https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIf this episode encouraged you, please share it with another parent who could use this message today.Intro for TDP (version 2)
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What If You're Becoming the Parent You Never Wanted to Be? Parenting Triggers, Emotional Regulation & Repair with Angie Weber, EP 154
Send us Fan MailHave you ever reacted to your child and immediately thought, "SHOOT! I promised I'd never parent THIS way"?In this episode, Dori Durbin chats with parent coach, speaker, and Parent Toolbox founder Angie Weber to discuss why so many parents find themselves repeating patterns they never intended to pass on.Angie shares practical strategies for understanding emotional triggers, responding instead of reacting, and creating healthier communication with your children. Together, they explore emotional regulation, repair after difficult parenting moments, and how parents can break generational cycles while building stronger family connections.You'll learn:• Why parenting triggers happen so quickly• How emotions show up in the body before reactions occur• The importance of repair after conflict• Angie's CALM framework for calmer parenting• How modeling healthy coping skills shapes your child's future• A simple family meeting strategy that reduces stress and improves communicationOne powerful reminder from this conversation:"There are no bad emotions—only opportunities to learn how to process and express them in healthy ways."If you're looking for simple steps to reduce parenting stress while building deeper connection with your children, this episode is for you.About Angie Weber:Angie Weber, owner of The Parent Toolbox, developer of the C.A.L.M. Approach to Parenting©, creator of The C.A.L.M. Family Planner, and host of the podcast Mom Essentials, is on a mission to help break generational parenting cycles. Angie helps parents upgrade their own toolboxes with new strategies and approaches to create more communication, connection, and calm in their homes!Connect with Angie Weber:https://www.theparenttoolbox.info/the-calm-family-plannerhttps://www.theparenttoolbox.info/podcastWebsite: https://www.theparenttoolbox.info/Email: [email protected] Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, coach, and host of That’s Good Parenting. She helps parents and family-focused professionals kid-size their expertise into children’s books that children can understand and apply in everyday life. Through her books, podcast, and coaching, Dori shares practical tools to help families reduce parenting stress and raise confident, resilient kids.Connect with Dorihttps://www.doridurbin.comhttps://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinJoin the That’s Good Parenting ClubJoin the That’s Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming children’s book manuscripts, sneak peeks of new books, exclusive offers, and parenting encouragement designed to help families thrive.JOIN TODAY!https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIf this episode encouraged you, please share it with another parent who could use this message today.Intro for TDP (version 2)
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What Parents Say Matters: Building Confidence Instead of Fear in Kids with Jody Hill, EP153
Send us Fan MailWords matter more than most parents realize.In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin sits down with parenting educator, speaker, and author Jody Hill to explore how the everyday words parents use can shape a child’s confidence, identity, emotional resilience, and long-term self-worth.They discuss the hidden power behind common parenting phrases, why labels like “shy,” “difficult,” or “messy” can stick with children for years, and how parents can begin building confidence, rather than fear through simple shifts in how they communicate.Jody shares practical, real-life examples from her own parenting journey: how to correct behavior without shame, why emotional connection matters more than perfection, and how parents can become the loudest positive voice in their child’s life. This is sooo good!If you’ve ever replayed something you said to your child and wished you could say it differently or even wondered how to encourage your child without yelling, shaming, or damaging their confidence... then this conversation is filled with practical encouragement and hope for you!In This Episode You Will Learn:• How everyday words shape a child’s confidence and identity• Why labels like “shy,” “difficult,” or “messy” can stick for years• How to correct behavior without shame, yelling, or fear• Simple ways to build emotional resilience and connection at home• How to become the loudest positive voice in your child’s lifeand more!About Jody HillJody Hill is a parenting educator, speaker, and author of the Amazon best-selling book The Parent’s Secret Superpower. Through her work, Jody helps parents understand how their words, reactions, and everyday interactions can build confident, emotionally resilient children.Drawing from her own experiences as a mother of four, as well as years of personal study in parenting, child development, science, and faith, Jody teaches families practical ways to create stronger connection, healthier communication, and lasting confidence in their children.Connect with Jodyhttps://podcast.itsjodyhill.com/https://[email protected] Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, coach, and host of That’s Good Parenting. She helps parents and family-focused professionals kid-size their expertise into children’s books that children can understand and apply in everyday life. Through her books, podcast, and coaching, Dori shares practical tools to help families reduce parenting stress and raise confident, resilient kids.Connect with Dorihttps://www.doridurbin.comhttps://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinJoin the That’s Good Parenting ClubJoin the That’s Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming children’s book manuscripts, sneak peeks of new books, exclusive offers, and parenting encouragement designed to help families thrive.JOIN TODAY!https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Could Your Child’s “Behavior Problems” Actually Be Sensory Overload? with Jacki Edry, EP 152
Send us Fan MailCould some of the behaviors parents worry about most may not actually be “bad behavior” at all? It may be that they are signs that a child is overwhelmed, overstimulated, or struggling to process the world around them.In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin talks with author, advocate, and educator Jacki Edry about autism, sensory processing, neurodiversity, and the hidden challenges many children experience every day. Jacki shares her unique perspective as both a parent of autistic children and a brain surgery survivor whose own sensory system became dramatically altered after surgery.Together, they discuss how sensory overload can affect behavior, why many children are misunderstood or misdiagnosed, and what parents can do to better understand the root causes behind meltdowns, shutdowns, and frustration.If you’ve ever wondered whether your child’s struggles might be deeper than “just behavior,” this episode offers insight, encouragement, and practical ways to better support your child.In This Episode You Will Learn:• Why sensory overload is often mistaken for bad behavior• How sensory processing challenges can impact school, reading, focus, and communication• Why some children may be misdiagnosed with ADHD or dyslexia• How parents can begin recognizing signs of sensory overwhelm• Why stimming and movement can help children self-regulate• How to approach meltdowns with understanding instead of punishment• Why trusting your instincts as a parent mattersand more!About Jacki EdryJacki Edry is an author, educator, speaker, and advocate focused on autism, neurodiversity, sensory processing, and faith. After years of supporting autistic children and families professionally, Jacki’s own life changed dramatically following a brain stem tumor surgery that left her experiencing severe sensory processing challenges firsthand.Her experiences as both a parent and survivor have given her a powerful perspective on what neurodivergent individuals may experience internally and how families can better support them with compassion and understanding.Jacki is the author of Moving Forward: Reflections on Autism, Neurodiversity, Brain Surgery, and Faith and connects with families around the world through speaking, consulting, and education.Connect with Jackihttps://www.jackiedry.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacki-edry-7583346/https://www.facebook.com/jackisbooksAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, coach, and host of That’s Good Parenting. She helps parents and family-focused professionals kid-size their expertise into children’s books that kids can understand and use in everyday life. Through her books, podcast, and coaching, Dori shares simple, practical tools to help families reduce parenting stress and raise confident, resilient kids.Connect with Dorihttps://www.doridurbin.comhttps://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinJoin the That’s Good Parenting ClubJoin the That’s Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming children's book manuscripts, sneak peeks of new books, and exclusive offers:That’s Good Parenting ClubJOIN TODAY!Intro for TDP (version 2)
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How Outdoor Time Builds Resilient, Confident Kids with Scott Shepherd, M.Ed
Send us Fan MailOutdoor time doesn’t have to mean expensive gear, complicated adventures, or a full weekend camping trip. And, the smallest moments outside can make the biggest difference for our kids.In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin talks with outdoor educator Scott Shepherd about how simple outdoor experiences help children build resilience, confidence, emotional regulation, patience, and focus. Scott shares why nature connection matters for kids’ mental and emotional health and how parents can start small without adding more pressure their already busy days.If you want to help your child build grit, confidence, and a healthier relationship with the world around them, this episode shows you how can start today!In This Episode You Will Learn:• Why outdoor experiences help kids build resilience and confidence• How outdoor time supports emotional regulation and focus• Why "manageable discomfort" helps children develop grit• What a “sit spot” is and how it helps kids feel grounded• How nature experiences can support neurodivergent and ADHD children and more!About Scott Shepherd, M.EdScott Shepherd is an outdoor educator and Founder of the Wildward Institute, where he helps families, schools, and communities reconnect children with nature and outdoor learning. Through his work, Scott focuses on helping young people build confidence, resilience, environmental awareness, and meaningful relationships with the natural world through accessible outdoor experiences.Scott has worked extensively with schools, nonprofits, parks departments, and outdoor education programs to expand equitable access to nature-based learning opportunities for children and families.Connect with Scotthttps://www.wildwardinstitute.net/https://www.linkedin.com/in/scott-shepherd-m-ed-979815b7/About Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children's book illustrator, coach, and host of the That’s Good Parenting podcast. She helps parents and family-focused professionals kid-size their expertise into children's books that kids can understand and use in everyday life. Through her books, podcast, and coaching, Dori shares simple, practical tools to help families reduce parenting stress and raise confident, resilient kids.Connect with Dorihttps://www.doridurbin.com https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinJoin the That’s Good Parenting ClubJoin the That’s Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming children's book manuscripts, sneak peeks of new books, and exclusive offers:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubJOIN TODAY!Intro for TDP (version 2)
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Why You Lose Your Patience With Your Kids (And How to Stop) with Emily Hughes, EP 150
Send us Fan MailHave you ever reacted to your child in a way that surprised you?You meant to stay calm, but in the moment, something took over.In this episode Dori Durbin talks with Conscious Parenting Coach, Somatic Therapist, Emily Hughes about why parents react instead of respond and how understanding their nervous system can help you stay calmer and more in control. Parenting isn’t just about strategies. It’s a full-body experience, and when stress builds, your nervous system can shift into fight, flight, fawn, or freeze without you even realizing it.When you learn to recognize these patterns, you can reduce guilt, respond more calmly, and create a more peaceful home.This conversation will help you stop asking, “What’s wrong with me?” and start understanding what’s actually happening in your body and what to do next.In This Episode You’ll Learn: Why you lose patience with your kids What nervous system responses fight, flight, fawn, and freeze look like as a parent How to pause in the moment and shift your reaction Why slowing down can actually make parenting easier How to reduce shame and build more confidence as a parent This Episode Is For You If: You feel triggered or overwhelmed by your child’s behavior You’re trying to stay calm—but keep snapping or shutting down You want practical tools to handle stressful parenting moments You’re ready to understand yourself (not just your child) on a deeper level About Emily HughesEmily is a Conscious Parenting Coach, Somatic Therapist and Mum of 2. She works with parents who are stuck in frustration and overwhelm to rise into inner trust so they can feel more empowered to handle family life with calm, sturdy confidence. Emily uses a parent centric, nervous system, mind and body based approach to help parents get out of survival mode and into trusting in themselves. She works 1:1 and with couples. Connect with Emilyhttps://findingflowparenting.coach/https://www.instagram.com/findingflowparentingAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, ghostwriter, and host of the That’s Good Parenting podcast. She helps parents and family-focused professionals kid-size big ideas into simple tools that children can understand and use in everyday life.Connect with Dorihttps://www.doridurbin.comhttps://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinReady to help your kids?Be a part of the That’s Good Parenting Club! You will get: Behind-the-scenes access to upcoming children’s books Early sneak peeks and feedback opportunities Simple tools to reduce parenting stressJoin for FREE here: https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Why Does My Child Hate Writing? Dysgraphia Signs Parents Miss with Kelli Fetter, EP 149
Send us Fan MailWhen kids struggle with writing, parents often assume they just need more practice.But sometimes the real issue is something many families have never heard of: dysgraphia.In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin talks with certified handwriting specialist Kelli Fetter, founder of Handwriting Solutions, about why writing can feel so difficult for some kids—even when they are bright, creative, and full of ideas.Kelli shares the personal story that led her into this work after her daughter was diagnosed with both dyslexia and dysgraphia. If writing homework regularly turns into frustration in your home, this conversation will help you better understand what might be happening—and how to support your child in a way that builds confidence instead of conflict.In this episode you will learn:• Why writing avoidance is often the first sign of a deeper challenge• What dysgraphia is and why it’s often misunderstood• Why writing involves more than handwriting alone• How dysgraphia can affect spelling, organization, and written expression• Simple ways parents can support writing practice without turning it into a battleAbout Kelli FetterKelli Fetter is a Certified Handwriting Specialist and the founder of Handwriting Solutions, LLC, where she leads a team providing world-class virtual handwriting, reading, and spelling support to students worldwide. She’s also a respected educator for teachers and therapists, known for her evidence-based approach to handwriting, dysgraphia, and dyslexia.With a background in pediatric occupational therapy across clinics, schools, and early intervention, and inspired by her own daughter’s dyslexia and dysgraphia journey, Kelli is dedicated to empowering families and professionals to unlock every child’s potential.Connect with Kelliwebsite: https://www.handwritingsolutions.org/instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handwriting.solutions/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100076416486347LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelli-fetter-27256029/About Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, ghostwriter, and host of the That’s Good Parenting podcast.She helps therapists, educators, and family-focused professionals kid-size their expertise into children’s books that support emotional regulation, shared language, and connection for families.Connect with Doriwebsite: https://www.doridurbin.cominstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinWant to Help Shape Future Children’s Books?Join the That’s Good Parenting Club to get behind-the-scenes access to upcoming manuscripts, early book concepts, and insider opportunities to help shape the stories being created for families.Join here:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Why Parenting Stress Turns Into Emotional Eating (And What Parents Can Do Instead) with Zoe Klein, EP 148
Send us Fan MailHave you ever found yourself standing in the closet eating cookies and wondering how parenting stress got the best of you . . . again?In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin talks with registered social worker Zoe Klein, who specializes in perinatal care, parenting support, and women’s health.Zoe shares what is really happening underneath everyday coping habits like emotional eating, stress snacking, and withdrawing when parenting feels overwhelming.They also talk about the hidden pressure many parents feel to “do everything right,” how social expectations can create shame and isolation, and why fathers often struggle silently during the early years of parenting.If you’ve ever felt exhausted, overwhelmed, or like you’re the only parent struggling to keep it together, this episode will remind you that you’re not alone. It also offers practical ways to respond with more understanding instead of more pressure.In This Episode You’ll Learn• Why emotional eating and stress habits often show up • Why many parents feel ashamed to talk about the emotional side of parenting• How fathers can experience postpartum stress and trauma too• Why comparison culture and social media can increase parenting pressure• A simple “10-minute pause” strategy to interrupt stress-driven habitsAbout Zoe KleinZoe Klein is a registered social worker who focuses on perinatal care, parenting coaching, and women’s health. Through her practice, she helps parents navigate the emotional realities of pregnancy, early parenthood, and family life while building healthier coping strategies and stronger relationships.Connect with Zoe KleinInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenshealththerapyWebsite:www.Zoemswrsw.comAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, children's book coach, ghostwriter, and host of the That’s Good Parenting podcast.She helps therapists, educators, and family-focused experts transform their expertise into children’s books that support emotional regulation, shared language, and connection between parents and kids.Through her books, podcast, and coaching, Dori shares simple tools to help families reduce parenting stress and raise resilient kids.Connect with DoriWebsite:https://www.doridurbin.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinEmail: [email protected] the That’s Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming manuscripts, sneak peeks of new books, and insider opportunities.https://www.club.thatsgoodparenting.comIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Why (Re)Capturing Intimacy Doesn't Start with Date Night, with Angela Griffith, EP 147
Send us Fan MailSomewhere between school schedules, endless meals, and bedtime routines, did your marriage stop feeling like married partners and start feeling like coworkers managing a household? In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin talks with sex and intimacy coach Angela Griffith about the season of parenting that many couples struggle through but rarely talk about.Angela works with couples navigating connection, intimacy, and communication during the parenting years. As a homeschooling mom herself, she understands firsthand how exhausting family life can be and why connection between partners can fade under the weight of daily responsibilities.Together, Dori and Angela explore how couples can rebuild intimacy in realistic ways that fit the life parents are actually living.In This Episode You’ll Learn• Why many couples begin to feel like teammates instead of partners after kids• Why exhaustion and sensory overload affect intimacy more than most people realize• Why traditional advice like “just schedule a date night” doesn’t always work• Small everyday ways couples can reconnect without adding more pressure to their lives• A simple 30-second habit that can help couples rebuild connectionWhether you're parenting toddlers or navigating the busy years of older kids, this conversation offers practical ways to reconnect and strengthen your relationship.About Angela GriffithAngela Griffith is a sex and intimacy coach who helps couples rebuild connection and healthy intimacy in marriage. She works with individuals and couples navigating sexuality, faith, disability, and long-term relationships.Angela is also the host of the Go Have Good Sex Podcast and offers coaching, courses, and educational resources for couples seeking deeper connection.Website: https://www.thechristiansexpert.com/About Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, and host of the That’s Good Parenting podcast.She helps parents and family-focused experts “kid-size” their ideas into children's books that help kids understand big life concepts in ways they can grow from.Through her books, podcast, and coaching, Dori shares simple, practical tools to help families reduce parenting stress and build stronger relationships.Website: www.doridurbin.com Instagram: @dori_durbinJoin the That’s Good Parenting ClubWant to help shape future children's books created by experts?Join the That’s Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming manuscripts, sneak peeks of new books, and insider opportunities.https://www.club.thatsgoodparenting.comIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Is Screen Time Hurting Your Child’s Brain? What Parents Need to Know with Amy Reyes-Hauff, EP 146
Send us Fan MailScreens are everywhere in childhood today. But what are they actually doing to kids’ brains, behavior, and emotional development?In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin talks with early childhood expert Amy Reyes-Hauff, a State Early Learning and Literacy Specialist who shares what she’s seeing in classrooms across the country. She also tells how parents can recognize early signs of digital dependency and how small daily habits can help families create a healthier relationship with technology.If you’re wondering how screens may be affecting your child’s attention, emotional regulation, or creativity, this episode offers simple steps you can start today.In This Episode You Will Learn:• Sure signs that screen use may be turning into digital dependency• Why boredom is essential for creativity and emotional development• How screen exposure can impact focus, emotional regulation, and behaviorand more!About Amy Reyes-HauffAmy Reyes-Hauff is an early childhood expert with more than 26 years of experience in child development and education. She currently serves as the State Early Learning and Literacy Specialist for the Wyoming Department of Education. Amy has worked as a Head Start Director, Montessori Director, kindergarten teacher, and state administrator. She specializes in Social Emotional Learning, Digital Tech Wellness, Outdoor Learning, and Early Literacy. Through the Get Wild Wyoming Initiative, she has helped bring outdoor learning to more than 300 classrooms serving over 6,000 children, helping kids develop emotional regulation, curiosity, and healthy relationships with technology.Connect with Amyhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/amy-reyes-hauff-a1b15844/https://edu.wyoming.gov/parents/early-childhood-readiness/get-wild-wyoming/Why Did They Do That? by Amy Reyes-Hauffhttps://www.amazon.sg/they-that-behavior-problem-biological/dp/B0GN9355J5About Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children's book illustrator, coach, and host of the That’s Good Parenting podcast.She helps parents and family-focused professionals kid-size their expertise into children's books that kids can understand and use in everyday life.Through her books, podcast, and coaching, Dori shares simple, practical tools to help families reduce parenting stress and raise confident, resilient kids.Connect with Dorihttps://www.doridurbin.com https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinJoin the That’s Good Parenting ClubJoin the That’s Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming children's book manuscripts, sneak peeks of new books, and exclusive offers:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubJOIN TODAY!Intro for TDP (version 2)
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How to Help Young Athletes Handle Pressure, Confidence, and Failure with Kina Wilson-Feick, EP 145
Send us Fan MailYouth sports can look fun from the outside. But many kids are carrying heavy pressure that their parents cannot see.In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin talks with youth and family coach Kina Wilson-Feick, founder of Radiant Joy Coaching. Kina works with athletes to build identity, confidence, and emotional resilience both on and off the field.They explore what is really happening behind the scenes for many athletes: pressure to perform, fear of disappointing parents or coaches, and the challenge of bouncing back after mistakes.Kina shares simple ways that parents can support their kids without adding more pressure and how one small daily habit can help kids build a healthier mindset.If you are raising a young athlete or supporting a child navigating pressure, competition, or confidence struggles, this episode offers practical steps you can use right away.In This Episode You Will Learn• Why pressure, not performance, is often the biggest challenge for young athletes• How kids can approach coaches in a confident and respectful way• The 24-hour rule that helps athletes process emotions after tough moments• Why positive self-talk matters during high pressure situations• How parents can help kids recover after mistakes or losses• A simple nightly habit that builds resilience and confidenceAbout Kina Wilson-FeickKina Wilson-Feick is a mom of six, a passionate lover of Jesus, a professional speaker, and the creator of the 3 Positives Journals. Currently earning her master’s in social work, she’s on a mission to help athletes become their healthiest selves so they can show up and perform at their very best.Through coaching, speaking, and journaling resources, Kina helps athletes navigate pressure, leadership challenges, and confidence struggles both in sports and in life.Connect with KinaInstagram:https://www.instragram.com/radiantjoycoachingWebsite:https://www.kinawilsonfeick.com3 Positives Each Day Journals: https://a.co/d/615WcaN (Women) https://a.co/d/h7FRLLf (Teen Girls) https://a.co/d/7sZ3SMS (Kids) https://a.co/d/cd9G73J (Teen Boys) About Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children's book illustrator, coach, and host of the That’s Good Parenting podcast.She helps parents and family-focused professionals kid-size their expertise into children's books that kids can understand and use in everyday life.Through her books, podcast, and coaching, Dori shares simple, practical tools to help families reduce parenting stress and raise confident, resilient kids.Connect with DoriWebsite:https://www.doridurbin.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinJoin the That’s Good Parenting ClubJoin the That’s Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming children's book manuscripts, new kids book sneak peeks, and insider only offers:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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How to Work with Your Child's Personality Instead of Fighting It, with Karen Wagnon, EP 144
Send us Fan MailWhat if the behavior that frustrates you most is actually telling you about an important gap?In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori talks with Karen Wagnon, human behavior specialist, parent coach, and creator of the Parenting Blueprint, about how understanding your child’s personality can reduce conflict and help you reconnect.Karen shares how the DISC personality model transformed her own parenting and explains why so many parents get stuck trying to use the same approach with every child. Learn about what’s really underneath the defiance, shutdowns, emotional overwhelm, and parent-child tension.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why behavior is often communication, not just disobedienceHow unmet emotional needs shape a child’s reactionsWhy one-size-fits-all parenting often increases conflictHow to parent with more curiosity, collaboration, and calmWhat it can look like to repair a strained relationship with your childThis episode is especially helpful for parents of tweens and teens, or for any parent who feels deeply connected to one child and completely puzzled by another.About Karen Wagnon:Karen Wagnon is a human behavior specialist, parent coach, and creator of the Parenting Blueprint. She helps parents of tweens and teens understand their child’s personality so they can communicate better, reduce conflict, and feel close again. Karen’s work is rooted in real-life parenting experience and personality-based behavior science.Connect with Karen Wagnon: Website: www.teachingouryouth.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kwagnon/?hl=en Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/pbdwithkaren LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karen-wagnon-35813732/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RealTalkwithTheCoachesAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, ghostwriter, and parenting podcast host who helps therapists, educators, and family-focused professionals transform their expertise into children’s books that support emotional regulation, shared language, and connection.Website: https://www.doridurbin.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinEmail: [email protected] to help shape future children’s books created by experts?Join the That’s Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming manuscripts, early feedback opportunities, and community support:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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How to Have THOSE Awkward Conversations (that Teens REALLY Need) with Nitza Jimenez, EP 143
Send us Fan MailHave you ever avoided a conversation with your child because you weren’t sure what to say?In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin speaks with Nitza Jimenez, Parent and Family Connection Coach and founder of Kinected Coaching. Together they explore why conversations about topics like sex, relationships, identity, and mental health can feel so uncomfortable for parents . . . and why avoiding them often creates even more distance.Drawing from her experience as an educator, community health educator, and family coach, Nitza shares practical ways parents can build trust, communicate their values, and create a safe environment where kids feel comfortable asking questions.In this episode, you’ll learn:• Why silence about difficult topics can leave kids searching for answers elsewhere• How family values can guide conversations about sex, identity, and relationships• Why emotional regulation from parents shapes how kids communicate• How social media is influencing what kids believe about relationships• One simple step parents can take to reconnect with their tween or teenIf you’ve ever felt unsure how to start conversations about uncomfortable topics—or if you want your child to come to you instead of the internet for answers—this conversation offers practical parenting insights you can apply immediately.About Nitza JimenezNitza Jimenez is a Parent and Family Connection Coach and founder of Kinected Coaching. She supports families—especially multicultural and first- and second-generation households—in navigating values, identity, and conversations that are often considered taboo.With a background as a teacher and community health educator, Nitza has worked with hundreds of families helping parents build stronger connections with their children through open communication, emotional awareness, and culturally responsive parenting strategies.Through her coaching programs, workshops, and the Rooted Connection program, she equips parents with tools to navigate difficult conversations while strengthening family trust and connection.Connect with Nitza:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nitza-danielleAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, ghostwriter, and parenting podcast host who helps therapists, educators, and family-focused professionals transform their expertise into children’s books that support emotional regulation, shared language, and connection.Website: https://www.doridurbin.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinEmail: [email protected] to help shape future children’s books created by experts?Join the That’s Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming manuscripts, early feedback opportunities, and community support:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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The Power of Presence: What Deaf Culture Teaches Parents About Listening with Maria Gallucci, EP 142
Send us Fan MailHave you ever noticed how quickly your child can tell when you’re not fully present?In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin speaks with Maria Gallucci. She's the author of Raised in Silence, a Child of Deaf Adults (CODA), an ASL communicator, and advocate. They spokle about what growing up in a Deaf family taught Maria about listening, emotional safety, inclusion, and choosing connection over control.In this episode, you’ll learn:• The difference between hearing and truly listening• Why kids remember your tone longer than your words• How presence builds emotional safety at home• What Deaf culture teaches about awareness and empathy• How to raise inclusive children who defend and empower othersIf you’ve been feeling distracted, reactive, or stretched thin, or if you want to raise children who are emotionally intelligent and inclusive . . . Then this conversation offers practical parenting insights you can apply immediately.About Maria GallucciMaria Gallucci is a multi-award-winning broker/owner, ASL-fluent communicator, and author of Raised in Silence. As a Child of Deaf Adults, she grew up navigating both the Deaf and hearing communities, interpreting for her parents from a young age. Her life experience shaped her passion for advocacy, inclusion, and bridging communication gaps. She now helps families and professionals understand the power of presence, emotional awareness, and connection.Her book, Raised in Silence, is available on major book platforms.Website: https://raisedinsilence.comContact: https://galluccihomes.comAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, ghostwriter, and parenting podcast host who helps therapists, educators, and family-focused professionals transform their expertise into children’s books that support emotional regulation, shared language, and connection.Website: https://www.doridurbin.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinEmail: [email protected] you considering getting a pet?Listen to this episode with Amy Castro about Child Readiness for Pets:https://www.petparenthotline.com/childreadyWant to help shape future children’s books created by experts?Join the That’s Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming manuscripts, early feedback opportunities, and community support:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Mindful Parenting: Self-Compassion & Nervous System Calm with Kimberly Brown, EP 141
Send us Fan MailHave you ever noticed how quickly your own stress spills into your child’s behavior?In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin speaks with meditation teacher and author Kimberly Brown about mindful parenting, self-compassion, emotional regulation, and how a parent’s nervous system directly impacts a child’s nervous system.Kimberly explains that parenting overwhelm, anxiety, control, and emotional reactivity are often signs that a parent is struggling internally — not signs of failure. When parents practice loving-kindness and become aware of their nervous system, they can calm themselves first and create connection through co-regulation instead of control.In this episode, you’ll learn:• Why parental control often signals stress and anxiety• How your nervous system shapes your child’s emotional regulation• How welcoming anxiety reduces fight-or-flight responses• Why mindfulness strengthens co-regulation and connection• A simple 1-minute meditation for overwhelmed parents• How gratitude and appreciation increase emotional resilienceIf you’re experiencing parenting stress, snapping more than you’d like, struggling with anxiety, or feeling stuck in daily power struggles, this conversation offers practical calm parenting strategies you can use immediately.About Kimberly BrownKimberly Brown is a meditation teacher rooted in the Buddhist tradition specializing in loving-kindness meditation, compassion practices, and emotional regulation. She works with parents and individuals navigating grief, anxiety, stress, and relationship challenges. Her work centers on helping families build resilience through mindfulness and self-compassion.She is the author of: Happy Relationships, Navigating Grief and Loss, and Steady, Calm and BraveConnect with Kimberly Brown|Website: https://meditationwithheart.comPrivate sessions and weekly guided meditation recordings available.About Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, ghostwriter, and parenting podcast host who helps therapists, educators, and family-focused professionals transform their expertise into children’s books that support emotional regulation, shared language, and connection.Website: https://www.doridurbin.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinEmail: [email protected] you considering getting a pet?Listen to this episode I recorded with Amy Castro about Child Readiness for Pets! https://www.petparenthotline.com/childreadyWant to help shape future children’s books created by experts?Join the That’s Good Parenting Club for behind-the-scenes access to upcoming manuscripts, early feedback opportunities, and community support:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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From Tantrums to Tools: Practical Occupational Therapy Strategies for Parents with Stephanie Ford, EP 140
Send us Fan MailHave you ever stood at the door wondering why putting on shoes feels like the hardest part of your day?In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin speaks with pediatric occupational therapist Stephanie Ford about why everyday tasks like getting dressed, riding the bus, going to school, or walking through a busy store can become overwhelming for children. Its all about how understanding the brain-body connection can completely shift how you respond.Stephanie helps parents understand that what looks like stubbornness, defiance, or child behavior problems is often sensory overload, anxiety, trauma response, or difficulty with executive functioning skills.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why behavior is often driven by sensory processing challenges, not disobedienceHow sensory processing disorder and overwhelm can trigger fight-or-flight responsesThe difference between “won’t” and “can’t” in child behaviorHow executive functioning difficulties impact routines and transitionsPractical tools to support emotional regulation in childrenSigns your child may benefit from occupational therapyHow noticing patterns can reduce daily parenting stressIf your child struggles with transitions, meltdowns in busy environments, inconsistent reactions, school avoidance, or daily power struggles, this conversation will give you clarity — and simple strategies you can start using right away.About Stephanie FordStephanie Ford is a pediatric occupational therapist with over 20 years of experience supporting children, teens, and families. Her work focuses on helping children improve daily functioning by understanding how the brain, body, sensory systems, emotions, and environment all work together. Stephanie specializes in sensory processing, emotional regulation, trauma-informed care, and practical strategies that reduce family stress.Find and Follow Stephanie FordWebsite: https://actionforward.com.au Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/actionforward Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/actionforward LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephaniefordAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, ghostwriter, and podcast host who helps therapists, educators, and family-focused experts “kid-size” their work into children’s books that truly support kids and parents.Her work centers on using stories as tools for emotional regulation, shared language, and connection — helping families navigate big feelings with clarity and care.Connect with DoriWebsite: https://www.doridurbin.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbin Email: [email protected] you considering getting a pet?Listen to this episode I recorded with Amy Castro about Child Readiness for Pets!https://www.petparenthotline.com/childreadyWant to help shape future children’s books created by experts?Join the That’s Good Parenting Club to get behind-the-scenes access to upcoming manuscripts, vote on book concepts, share feedback, and be part of the stories we’re putting into children’s hands:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Pregnancy, Picky Eaters, and Mealtime Stress: A Dietitian’s Real-Life Guide for Parents with Aderet Dana Hoch, EP 139
Send us Fan MailHave you ever stood in your kitchen wondering why feeding your family feels so overwhelming?In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin speaks with registered dietitian Aderet Dana Hoch, founder of Dining with Nature with the goal of breaking down why food becomes such a major source of stress for parents . . . and how make food fit real family life.Aderet helps women nourish their bodies from fertility through pregnancy, postpartum, and family life using holistic, sustainable nutrition. She blends science-based guidance with a natural, relatable approach that supports families in building lifelong, positive relationships with food.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why feeding kids and adults doesn’t require separate mealsHow the plate method helps simplify nutrition without tracking or guiltHow to support hunger and fullness cues in young childrenWhy consistency reduces resistance and mealtime stressHow to approach meal prep in a realistic, sustainable wayWhat nutrition support looks like across fertility, pregnancy, and family lifeWhether you’re pregnant, postpartum, feeding picky eaters, or simply exhausted by daily food decisions, this conversation will help you rethink nutrition as a tool for support and not just stress.About Aderet HochAderet Hoch is a Registered Dietitian and the founder of Dining with Nature. She helps women nourish their bodies from fertility through family life with holistic, sustainable nutrition. Aderet blends science-based guidance with a natural, relatable approach and supports families in building lifelong, positive relationships with food.Find and Follow Aderet HochWebsite: https://diningwithnature.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/diningwithnature/Free Bi-Monthly Newsletter: https://aderets-newsletter.beehiiv.com/subscribeEmail: [email protected] Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, ghostwriter, and podcast host who helps therapists, educators, and family-focused experts “kid-size” their work into children’s books that truly support kids and parents.Her work centers on using stories as tools for emotional regulation, shared language, and connection and helping families navigate big feelings with clarity and care.Connect with DoriWebsite: https://www.doridurbin.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinEmail: [email protected] to help shape future children’s books created by experts ?Join the That’s Good Parenting Club to get behind-the-scenes access to upcoming manuscripts, vote on book concepts, share feedback, and be part of the stories we’re putting into children’s hands:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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How to Plan a Family Vacation Without Meltdowns (Even With Teens) with Laura Rahn, EP 138
Send us Fan MailHave you ever returned from a family vacation more stressed than when you left?In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin sits down with certified family travel coach Laura Rahn to unpack why so many family vacations end in frustration—and how to plan trips that actually bring families closer.Laura introduces her Dream–Design–Depart approach to family travel and explains why involving kids before booking anything can prevent meltdowns, resentment, and disappointment—especially with tweens and teens.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why most family vacations go wrong before the trip even startsHow to get kids off screens without constant battlesWhat to do when everyone wants a different kind of vacationHow to plan meaningful trips on a realistic budgetWhy family travel builds confidence, resilience, and lifelong connectionWhether you’re planning a big trip or just dreaming about one, this conversation will help you rethink vacations as a tool for connection—not stress.About Laura RahnLaura Rahn is a certified family travel coach and a military BRAT who loves to involve her family in the vacation planning process, including her two “big kids.” As her family lives by their mantra, Seldom A Dull Moment, Laura has been dreaming, designing and departing on family vacations for close to 20 years. Find and Follow Laurawebsite: https://www.seldomadullmoment.com/ instagram handle: laurarahn_travelcoachFacebook page: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552757152218 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laura-rahn/ About Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, ghostwriter, and podcast host who helps therapists, educators, and family-focused experts "kid-size" their work into children’s books that truly support kids and parents.Her work centers on using stories as tools for emotional regulation, shared language, and connection — helping families navigate big feelings with clarity and care.Connect with Doriwebsite: https://www.doridurbin.comemail: [email protected] to help shape future children’s books created by experts and educators?Join the That’s Good Parenting Club to get behind-the-scenes access to upcoming manuscripts, vote on book concepts, share feedback, and be part of the stories we’re putting into children’s hands:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Mom Burnout: Why You’re Exhausted and What Actually Helps with Calvalyn Day, EP 137
Send us Fan MailAre you wondering if you should really be this tired? In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin talks with trauma informed coach, educator, and author Calvalyn Day about mom burnout and the invisible emotional labor that makes momming feel so heavy.This conversation explores why burnout is not just about doing too much, but about carrying the mental load, staying emotionally regulated, and being always available while your own nervous system never gets to rest.In this episode, you will learn:Why mom burnout shows up as exhaustion, irritability, and emotional shutdownA simple grounding question to guide burnout recovery: “What do you want to feel?”Practical ways to build real breaks into your day, including the Quiet Box ideaHow to set limits around activities and expectations without guiltWhy supporting moms helps kids too, especially kids with anxietyIf you have ever thought, “I love my kids but this feels like too much,” this episode is for you.About Calvalyn DayCalvalyn Day is a coach, author, speaker, lifelong lover of pizza and recent lover of a chai tea latte with almond milk. She is the mother of 4 daughters and mimi of 4 grandsons. Known for straight talk, rooted in science and sprinkled with faith, you leave the conversation not just inspired but ready for action. Find and Follow Calvalynhttps://www.CalvalynDay.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@calvalyndayhttps://www.instagram.com/calvalynAbout Dori DurbinDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, ghostwriter, and podcast host who helps therapists, educators, and family-focused experts "kid-size" their work into children’s books that truly support kids and parents.Her work centers on using stories as tools for emotional regulation, shared language, and connection — helping families navigate big feelings with clarity and care.Connect with Doriwebsite: https://www.doridurbin.comemail: [email protected] to help shape future children’s books created by experts and educators?Join the That’s Good Parenting Club to get behind-the-scenes access to upcoming manuscripts, vote on book concepts, share feedback, and be part of the stories we’re putting into children’s hands:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Why Kids Don’t Need Perfect Answers, Just Clear Ones with Dori Durbin, EP 136
Send us Fan MailHave you ever felt stuck and maybe like you might be revising your decisions a lot? Maybe you are second-guessing your choices and wondering if you should make just one more change to get it right?If decision fatigue, inconsistency, or over-adjusting leaves you feeling unsure or overwhelmed, this episode is for you.In this solo episode of That’s Good Parenting, host Dori Durbin explores the powerful connection between revision and decision-making and how both parenting and children’s books benefit from clarity, consistency, and emotional containment. Drawing on her work as a children’s book illustrator and coach, Dori explains why endless revising often keeps parents stuck, while thoughtful decisions help kids feel calmer, safer, and more regulated.IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT:Revision vs. Decision-Making in ParentingWhy Overthinking Can Increase Stress for Parents and KidsHow Consistency Supports Emotional RegulationWhat Children Actually Need to Feel Safe and CalmWhat Children’s Books Teach Us About Focus, Containment, and ClarityABOUT DORI DURBINDori Durbin is a children’s book illustrator, book coach, ghostwriter, and podcast host who helps therapists, educators, and family-focused experts "kid-size" their work into children’s books that truly support kids and parents.Her work centers on using stories as tools for emotional regulation, shared language, and connection — helping families navigate big feelings with clarity and care.CONNECT WITH DORIwebsite: https://www.doridurbin.comemail: [email protected] to help shape future children’s books created by experts and educators?Join the That’s Good Parenting Club to get behind-the-scenes access to upcoming manuscripts, vote on book concepts, share feedback, and be part of the stories we’re putting into children’s hands:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Why Parenting Feels Like a Power Struggle: Executive Functioning Help with Dr. Anna Levy-Warren, EP 135
Send us Fan MailHave you ever felt like you’re repeating yourself all day long. It's the reminding, prompting, and enforcing that still makes you wonder why your perfectly "capable" child just can’t follow through?If routines turn into power struggles and you’re exhausted from being the “bad guy" then this episode is for You!.In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Anna Levy-Warren helps parents understand executive functioning including: what it really is, how it develops, and why kids who struggle with it aren’t lazy, defiant, or unmotivated. She also shares practical ways parents can support their kids without constant conflict or burnout.IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT:Executive Functioning 101Power Struggles & the “Broken Record” FeelingStress, Screens & BurnoutDevelopmental Expectations ExplainedPractical Tools That Actually HelpABOUT DR. ANNA LEVY-WARRENAnna Levy-Warren is the Founder and Chief Executive Officer of Organizational Tutors, a leading network of executive functioning experts. With over 20 years of experience in the field of psychology including a PhD in Clinical Psychology, Anna is a leader in the field addressing executive functioning challenges in students of all ages. As a mother of three Dr. Anna brings both professional expertise and lived experience to her work, helping families move from daily frustration to understanding, regulation, and connection.CONNECT WITH DR. ANNAhttps://www.organizationaltutors.com/https://www.annalevywarrenphd.comhttps://www.facebook.com/OTcoachingservicesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/organizationaltutors/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/organizational-tutors/posts/?feedView=allCONNECT WITH DORIhttps://www.doridurbin.comWant to help shape future children’s books created by experts like Dr. Anna? Join the That’s Good Parenting Club to vote on concepts, give feedback, and get early access to new releases: https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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How to Advocate for Your Child at School (Without Being “That Parent”) with Scotti Weintraub, EP134
Send us Fan MailYou've gotten THAT school email. And now, there's that sinking feeling that things aren't working and that you need more direction. Help is on the way!In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin is joined by Scotti Weintraub, a Parent School Navigator who helps families confidently partner with schools when kids are struggling academically, behaviorally, or emotionally.Together, they talk about how to advocate for your child without feeling pushy, defensive, or overwhelmed—even when the feedback from school feels heavy or confusing.You’ll learn:How to talk to teachers using language that builds collaboration (not conflict)Why leading with your child’s strengths changes everythingThe simple phrase that lowers defensiveness fast: “I wonder…”How to focus on next best steps instead of trying to fix everything at onceWhy school success is about more than grades—and what really matters long termThis episode is especially helpful if:You’re getting frequent emails or calls from schoolYou suspect something is “off” with learning or behaviorYour child has ADHD, learning differences, or school anxietyYou want to support your child without becoming “that parent”If school feels stressful right now, this conversation will help you find more clarity, confidence, and calm—one step at a time.Connect with Scotti Weintraub:Scotti Weintraub, MA, founder of Reframe Parenting, is a parent coach, school navigator, problem-solver, and podcast host who knows firsthand how hard it is to support a child when school isn’t working. Parenting her own two teens has taught her about anxiety, ADHD, learning differences, and the exhausting process of advocating with schools. Now she helps other parents cut through the noise, understand what their child truly needs, and finally feel confident walking into school conversations that used to feel impossible.Visit https://www.reframeparenting.com/Contact Scotti: https://www.reframeparenting.com/contactTake the FREE quiz: https://www.reframeparenting.com/quiz-golden-girlsConnect with DoriWebsite & children’s book coaching: https://www.doridurbin.comWant to help shape future children’s books created by experts like Becky? Join the That’s Good Parenting Club to vote on concepts, give feedback, and get early access to new releases:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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How to Parent as a Servant Leader with Jonathan Fanning, EP 133
Send us Fan MailParenting today is anything but simple. Most of us end the day wondering, Did I make the right decisions? Am I leading my kids well?In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin sits down with author, speaker, and leadership coach, Jonathan Fanning to explore how servant leadership can become one of the most powerful mindsets inside our homes.Jonathan shares a pivotal moment from his college basketball days that sparked a lifelong question: Why do we give certain people permission to shape us—and how do we become that kind of positive influence for our kids? From there, he breaks servant leadership into practical, parent-friendly ideas that you can actually use when your energy is low, your patience is thin, and your kids are being kids.In this conversation, we talk about:What servant leadership really looks like in parentingWhy kids translate LOVE as TIMEA simple weekly “scoreboard” practice How to “win a moment”Why we forget what matters mostThe powerful idea of “the last time”Jonathan also shares two free resources for parents, including a reality-check poem/video and an audio download of his book.Connect with Jonathan Fanning:Visit jonathanfanning.comWatch/download “The Last Time”: jonathanfanning.com/lasttimeConnect with DoriWebsite & children’s book coaching: https://www.doridurbin.comWant to help shape future children’s books created by experts like Becky? Join the That’s Good Parenting Club to vote on concepts, give feedback, and get early access to new releases:https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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The Big 6: Healthy Daily Habits to Help Anxious Teens Thrive with Becky Funk, EP 132
Send us Fan MailAnxiety, overwhelm, perfectionism, and “Why are you snapping at me? I just asked a question!” Parenting teens can feel like walking gingerly through an emotional battle. In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, teen anxiety coach and former teacher Becky Funk introduces a whole new way to understand and start to help what’s really going on beneath your teen’s stress.Becky shares why so many teens are overcharged by everyday habits like caffeine, late-night texting, and skipped meals. She shares how 6 simple lifestyle areas (what she calls The Big 6) can completely transform how your teen feels, copes, and responds to everyone at home.In this episode, we talk about:Why “attitude” is often anxiety in disguiseThe Big 6 daily habits that make anxiety worseHow caffeine, dehydration, and skipped meals spark emotional overloadWhy teen sleep patterns are nothing like adults and what helpsHow notifications, Snapchat streaks, and comparison trigger FOMO pressureWhy movement and sunlight help regulate your teen’s nervous systemHow perfectionism and all-or-nothing thinking keep anxious teens stuckWhat teens actually want from parents when they’re overwhelmedSimple first steps families can start todayAbout Becky FunkBecky Funk is a Certified Master Life Coach, Confidence Coach, and former educator who helps anxious teens stop overthinking and start speaking up. Using her Stand Strong Coaching method, she helps high-achieving teens who feel like they have to be perfect, do it all, and never let anyone down to build resilience, self-awareness, and the confidence to stand up for themselves—without the fear of disappointing others.Connect with BeckyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/beckyfunkcoaching Website: https://thebeckyfunk.comConnect with DoriWebsite & children’s book coaching: https://www.doridurbin.com Want to help shape future children’s books created by experts like Becky? Join the That’s Good Parenting Club to vote on concepts, give feedback, and get early access to new releases: https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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The Worry Garden: Helping Kids Overcome Fear of New Foods and Build Mealtime Confidence with Lum Frundi, EP 131
Send us Fan MailPicky eating, food battles, and “just eat one more bite” can turn meals into a stress storm for both parents and kids. In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, pediatrician and new children’s book author, Dr. Lum Frundi shares a completely new way to look at food anxiety and how it feels through your child's eyes.Dr. Lum shares why so many kids shut down at the sight of new foods, how our well-meaning language about “picky eaters” can actually reinforce fear, and how her new book, The Worry Garden: Planting Seeds of Calm, helps families name their “worry worms” and grow to try new foods and beyond.In this episode, we talk about:Why picky eating and food anxiety are rarely about kids being “difficult” or “defiant”How unfamiliar foods, textures, and past gagging experiences lead to scared feelings at mealtimesThe problem with labels like “picky eaters” can shape their identityPractical ways to reframe mealtimes How parents can use Lum's book The Worry GardenSimple first steps parents can take at the very next mealAbout Dr. Lum Frundi Dr. Lum Frundi, MD is a pediatrician and the author of her first children’s book, The Worry Garden: Planting Seeds of Calm. In her practice, she supports families through some of the most stressful parts of childhood—especially picky eating and food anxiety. Dr. Lum is passionate about helping parents move from power struggles to curiosity, connection, and compassion at the table and in everyday life.Connect with Dr. LumInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlummd/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/generationalwellbeing/Her book: The Worry Garden: Planting Seeds of Calm – available on Amazon and wherever you buy books: https://a.co/d/aRWvDfRConnect with DoriWebsite & children’s book coaching: https://www.doridurbin.comWant to help shape future kids’ books written by experts like Dr. Lum? Join the That’s Good Parenting Club to vote on story ideas, give feedback, and get early access to new releases.https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Helping Kids Handle Big Frustrations: Inside Sammy’s Super Stretchy Shoelaces with Parent Coach Mindy Green, EP 130
Send us Fan MailWhat do shoe-tying struggles and emotional resilience have in common? In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, I’m talking with certified parent coach, author, parent, and grandparent Mindy Green about her NEW children’s picture book, Sammy’s Super Stretchy Shoelaces—a story born from her grandson’s real-life frustration with shoelaces that just… wouldn’t… cooperate.We explore how Sammy’s “stretchy” shoelaces become a powerful analogy for patience, problem-solving, and emotional flexibility -- for both kids and the grown-ups who love them.You’ll hear:How a real moment turned into a published children’s book Why “small” tasks can trigger big feelings for kidsSimple ways parents and grandparents can respond How to use picture books for meaningful conversationsMindy’s journey from lifelong dream to a published bookWe also chat about what it’s like to kid-size your expertise by creating her character first, her story, and seeing it all in print! Find out what's next for Sammy and Winston, too!About MIndyMindy Green is a certified parent coach, speaker, parent, and grandparent who helps families navigate everyday challenges with more calm, connection, and confidence. Through her coaching, resources, and newsletter, Mindy gives parents practical tools for handling big emotions, building problem-solving skills, and strengthening relationships at home.Her debut children’s picture book, Sammy’s Super Stretchy Shoelaces, weaves a real-life story from her grandson’s experience into a playful, relatable tale that helps kids—and their grown-ups—stretch through frustration and learn simple calming strategies together.Connect with Mindy Green👉 Book: Sammy’s Super Stretchy Shoelaces (hardcover & paperback on Amazon)https://a.co/d/ifpqRgp 👉 Parent Coaching & Free Newsletter: www.mindygreencoaching.comConnect with Dori / Work Together on a Children’s BookI’m Dori Durbin—children’s book author, illustrator, and book coach. I help experts, educators, and coaches “kid-size” their big ideas into meaningful stories that families can grow with.👉 Learn more about working with me: doridurbin.com 👉 Join That’s Good Parenting Club to help shape future expert-created kids’ books: https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIf You Enjoyed This EpisodeFollow/subscribe to That’s Good ParentingShare this episode with a parent, grandparent, or teacher who supports kids with big feelingsLeave a rating or review so more families can find us 💛Intro for TDP (version 2)
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Before You Get That Pet: What Parents Should Know First with Amy Castro, Pet Parent Hotline EP 129
Send us Fan MailEver wonder if that “cute puppy” impulse might turn into chaos at home?Rescue founder and Pet Parent Hotline host Amy Castro joins Dori Durbin to unpack what families should know before bringing home a pet—so you pick the right fit (not just the cutest face) and protect connection in your home from day one. You’ll walk away with a calm, practical plan to prepare your space, your kids, and your routines.In this Episode You’ll discover: • The real difference between shelters and rescues • How to build a pet criteria list • The first-week setup: • Why enrichment creates calmer, happier pets • The surprising case for adopting older pets • How a trainer can help before you adopt“There are no bad pets—only bad fits. To them, you are their whole world.” — Amy CastroAbout Amy: Amy Castro is a communication expert, professional speaker, and lifelong animal advocate who’s helped thousands of families make smart, informed decisions about pet ownership. As host of The Pet Parent Hotline podcast and founder of Starlight Outreach and Rescue, she’s on a mission to keep pets out of shelters by helping people understand what it really takes to be ready for a pet, BEFORE they bring one home.Find Amy:www.petparenthotline.comEmail: [email protected] Dori: Dori Durbin is a children's book illustrator, coach, Christian wife, and mom, who helps nonfiction experts “kid-size” their content into impactful children’s books.Follow Dori:https://www.doridurbin.comhttps://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinemail: [email protected] the That’s Good Parenting Club (FREE): 👉 Help shape the children’s books families will read for years—and get member-only perks! https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Is Your Teen’s “Attitude” Actually Anxiety? How to Build Calm & Confidence with Becky Funk, EP 128
Send us Fan MailEver wonder if your teen’s eye-rolling, silence, or outburst might be something deeper than "just being a teen"?Teen confidence & anxiety coach Becky Funk joins host Dori Durbin to unpack what anxiety really looks like in teens—and how parents can protect connection while helping their kids self-advocate with calm and confidence. You’ll walk away feeling less alone and more equipped to respond, not react.You’ll discover: • How to tell the difference between explosive and shutdown anxiety • Why high-achieving perfectionists often fly under the radar • The 4-step process Becky teaches teens: awareness → calm → resiliency → self-advocacy • What warm parenting styles do for teen resilience (and why it’s never too late to change) • How small-talk practice can ease college transitions“Communication is key—and protecting the relationship at all costs brings harmony to your home.” — Becky FunkAbout Becky: Becky Funk is a Certified Master Life Coach, Confidence Coach, and former educator who helps anxious teens stop overthinking and start speaking up. Using her Stand Strong Coaching method, she helps high-achieving teens who feel like they have to be perfect, do it all, and never let anyone down to build resilience, self-awareness, and the confidence to stand up for themselves—without the fear of disappointing others.thebeckyfunk.com | @beckyfunkcoachingFollow Becky:https://www.thebeckyfunk.comhttps://www.instagram.com/beckyfunkcoaching/Free resources:https://www.thebeckyfunk.com/free About Dori:Dori Durbin is a Christian wife, mom, author, illustrator, and children’s book coach who, after a life-changing illness, followed her dream of deepening parent-child connection through books. She helps nonfiction authors and experts “kid-size” their content into impactful children’s books.Follow Dori:https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinhttps://www.facebook.com/doridurbin7.comhttps://www.doridurbin.com Join the That’s Good Parenting Club:👉 You can be part of the brand-new FREE That’s Good Parenting Club—where parents help shape the stories their kids will read for years to come . . . and get extra members only perks for joining!https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Three Books for Courageous, Resilient, and Confident Kids with Dori Durbin EP 127
Send us Fan MailWhat if you could turn powerful life lessons into stories your kids will love—and beg to read again and again? Better yet? What if you could vote which are created?In this special edition of That’s Good Parenting, Dori Durbin, children’s book illustrator, author, podcaster, and coach takes big ideas from her recent conversation with Jonathan Fanning and kid-sizes them into three brand-new picture book concepts. These stories are designed to help kids grow courage, resilience, and connection in simple, playful ways.You’ll hear about: 1. Brave and Daring Day 2. Happen to the World, Maya 3. The Listening Minute Now it’s your turn, parents! Which book should become a reality? 🎉 Head over to Dori’s Facebook page : https://www.facebook.com/dori.durbin.7 and vote for your favorite book concept. Your voice will help decide which story gets created for families everywhere.👉 Plus, and you can be part of the brand-new That’s Good Parenting Club—where parents help shape the stories their kids will read for years to come . . . and get extra members only perks for joining!https://club.thatsgoodparenting.com/clubAbout Dori:Dori Durbin is a Christian wife, mom, author, illustrator, and children’s book coach who, after a life-changing illness, followed her dream of deepening parent-child connection through books. She helps nonfiction authors and experts “kid-size” their content into impactful children’s books.Follow Dori:https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinhttps://www.facebook.com/doridurbin7.comhttps://www.doridurbin.comInterested in writing your own children’s book? Let’s Chat:https://link.dreambuildercrm.com/widget/bookings/mydori15chatIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Brave & Daring Parenting: Tiny Habits that Build Big Courage with Jonathan Fanning EP 126
Send us Fan MailDo you wonder how to grow authentic, courageous kids—without adding more stress to family life?In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, host Dori Durbin talks with Jonathan Fanning, international keynote speaker, leadership expert, and author of Who Are You Becoming? Jonathan shares practical, story-driven ways parents can stress less, listen better, and build family rhythms that grow courage and character.This Episode Is Perfect For:Parents with kids of all agesEducators, coaches, and mentors who guide kidsLeaders who want servant leadership to start at homeFamilies craving simple habits that deepen connectionYou’ll Hear:“Who are you becoming?”How Brave & Daring Day builds lasting confidenceUpgrade parent-child conversations in minutesS + R = O (Situation + Response = Outcome)Why stories and role models shape identityAbout Jonathan:Jonathan Fanning has delivered 500+ keynotes worldwide and authored multiple books including Who Are You Becoming? His work equips leaders—and parents—to close the gap between who they are and who they’re becoming through small, repeatable habits that compound over time.Connect with Jonathan:https://www.jonathanfanning.comwww.jonathanfanning.com/last-timeAbout Dori:Dori Durbin is a Christian wife, mom, author, illustrator, and children’s book coach who, after a life-changing illness, followed her dream of deepening parent-child connection through books. She helps nonfiction authors and experts “kid-size” their content into impactful children’s books.Follow Dori:https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinhttps://www.facebook.com/doridurbin7.comhttps://www.doridurbin.comInterested in writing your own children’s book? Let’s Chat: https://link.dreambuildercrm.com/widget/bookings/mydori15chatIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Turning Car Rides Into Confidence-Building Conversations with Eric Stevenson, EP 125
Send us Fan MailDo you wonder if today’s youth sports are helping kids—or secretly hurting their confidence?In this episode of That’s Good Parenting, host Dori Durbin talks with Eric Stevenson, licensed counselor and founder of Athletic Mind Performance. Eric specializes in helping kids, families, and athletes of all levels build resilience and healthier mindsets around sports.This Episode Is Perfect For: Parents with kids of all agesCoaches of kids of all agesFans of kids of all agesAthletes who want more with less stressYou’ll Hear:Why kids are giving up (and even cheating) earlier than ever in sportsThe “Goldilocks Effect” of praise—and how too much or too little backfiresHow parents can use stress to boost performance instead of crushing confidenceA powerful story that helps kids turn “I can’t” into “I’ll try”The car ride home: what to say (and what NOT to say) after gamesAbout Eric: Eric Stevenson is a licensed therapist in Illinois and Florida, a Certified Mental Performance Consultant, and founder of Athletic Mind Performance. He works with athletes and families to reduce anxiety, build growth mindsets, and create lasting confidence on and off the field.Connect with Eric:https://www.athleticmindperformance.comhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/eric-stevenson-1094a4132https://www.instagram.com/athleticmindperformance/About Dori: Dori Durbin is a Christian wife, mom, author, illustrator, and children's book coach who, after experiencing a life-changing illness, followed her dream of creating a deeper connection between parents and children through books. She now helps nonfiction authors and experts "kid-size" their content into impactful children's books.Follow Dori:https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinhttps://www.facebook.com/doridurbin7.comhttps://www.doridurbin.comInterested in writing your own children's book? Let's Chat: https://link.dreambuildercrm.com/widget/bookings/mydori15chatIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Why Stories Last a Lifetime: The Power of Picture Books for Parent-Child Connection With Dori Durbin EP 124
Send us Fan MailWhat Can Children's Books Do For Families?In our screen-dominated world, meaningful parent-child connection is becoming increasingly difficult. Children's book illustrator, coach, and podcaster Dori Durbin reveals why stories—not advice—create the lasting impact every parent wants to achieve with their children.In this episode, you'll learn: • Why stories can help your parenting • How picture books serve as both mirrors and windows for children's emotional development • Simple techniques to transform story time into connected time• The secret to using illustrations to peek into your child's inner world—even before they can read • Why children's books aren't just for kids (and how they can transform your perspective too)Perfect for: Parents, caregivers, educators, child development professionals, and anyone who believes in the transformative power of storytelling.Listen now and discover how a simple children's book can become your most powerful parenting tool.Got an expert in your life who should write a children's book? Dori wants to hear about them!About Dori Durbin: Dori Durbin is a Christian wife, mom, author, illustrator, and children's book coach who, after experiencing a life-changing illness, followed her dream of creating a deeper connection between parents and children through books. She now helps nonfiction authors and experts "kid-size" their content into impactful children's books.Find out more at: https://www.doridurbin.comFollow Dori:https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinhttps://www.facebook.com/doridurbin7.comhttps://www.doridurbin.comInterested in writing your own children's book? Let's Chat: https://link.dreambuildercrm.com/widget/bookings/mydori15chatIntro for TDP (version 2)
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The 42-Minute Hour: How Busy Parents Can Reclaim Lost Time and Reduce Daily Stress with Michelle Oucharek-Deo, EP 123
Send us Fan MailDo you feel like there are never enough hours in the day? Are you struggling to find time for creativity while managing family chaos? You're not alone—and there's hope.In this episode of "That's Good Parenting," Dori Durbin speaks with Michelle Oucharek-Deo, a creative arts therapist and time recovery coach who has spent over 30 years helping families reclaim their time and reduce stress. After her own "time-wasting bender" of binge-watching 92 Netflix episodes in 28 days, Michelle developed her revolutionary 42-Minute Hour Strategy—a simple yet powerful system that helps parents accomplish meaningful goals while tackling everyday tasks.Michelle shares how parents can break free from time disruptors, create intentional moments with their children, and build deeper family connections through creativity and presence.Michelle shares:The story behind her breakthrough 42-Minute Hour Strategy How to identify and overcome your biggest time disruptorsWhy teaching children to respect your time helps them to respect their ownThe power of intentional momentsWhy getting your feet in the dirt can reset your entire dayAbout Michelle: Michelle Oucharek-Deo is a registered art therapist with over 30 years of experience, practicing both creative arts therapy and horticultural therapy. After developing her time recovery system, she now coaches parents and teenagers on reclaiming their time while reducing stress and adding sparks of joy to daily life. She's passionate about helping families create intentional connections and teaching children the value of time respect.Resource mentioned:FREE Time Strategy Handbook https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/28276/137588728564549346/shareConnect with Michelle:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/moucharekdeoauthor/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/301016942051038webpage: https://van-artexpression.com/About Dori Durbin: Dori Durbin is a Christian wife, mom, author, illustrator, and children's book coach who, after experiencing a life-changing illness, followed her dream of creating a deeper connection between parents and children through books. She now helps nonfiction authors and experts "kid-size" their content into impactful children's books.Find out more at: https://www.doridurbin.comFollow Dori:https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinhttps://www.facebook.com/doridurbin7.comhttps://www.doridurbin.comInterested in writing your own children's book? Let's Chat: https://link.dreambuildercrm.com/widget/bookings/mydori15chatIntro for TDP (version 2)
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How Every Parent Can Write a Book (And Get Your Kids Get Into College, too) with Mila Johansen, EP 122
Send us Fan MailWriting a book doesn't have to feel overwhelming—it's more accessible than you think, and it could create an author model for your entire family.In this episode of "That's Good Parenting," Dori Durbin speaks with Mila Johansen, a writing, publishing, and public speaking coach who helps people write and publish books of every genre. Drawing from her decades of experience as a writer and her magical childhood dream of jumping into the world of Mary Poppins, Mila offers practical, encouraging guidance for parents who have ever thought their parenting experiences could make a great book.Mila shares how parents can overcome imposter syndrome and perfectionism and get their stories on paper—and why starting with just 20 minutes a day can lead to a published book.Mila shares:Why "blathering it down" beats perfectionism every timeThe "magic book formula" for first-time authorsHow to become an Amazon bestseller with just 10-20 salesWhy you should publish your paperback FIRST (not your ebook)The secret to getting 500-2000 readers How a published book can help kids stand out on their college applicationsAbout Mila: Mila Johansen is a writing, publishing, and public speaking coach who guides authors through every step from idea to advertising on Amazon. Inspired by childhood dreams of magical worlds, she has written 22 plays and musicals and helps clients become published authors through her "write your short book in a day" methodology. Mila believes everyone should write their memoir and that publishing is more accessible than ever.Learn more about Mila:https://www.milajohansen.comEmail: [email protected] Dori Durbin: Dori Durbin is a Christian wife, mom, author, illustrator, and children's book coach who, after experiencing a life-changing illness, followed her dream of creating a deeper connection between parents and children through books. She now helps nonfiction authors and experts "kid-size" their content into impactful children's books.Find out more at: https://www.doridurbin.comFollow Dori:https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinhttps://www.facebook.com/doridurbin7.comhttps://www.doridurbin.comInterested in writing your own children's book? Let's Chat: https://link.dreambuildercrm.com/widget/bookings/mydori15chatIntro for TDP (version 2)
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How to Build Your Teen Daughter's Confidence Before (and in) College with Suzanne Hanna, EP 121
Send us Fan MailParenting teen girls doesn't have to feel like walking on eggshells—there's a way to build deeper connection and trust.In this episode of "That's Good Parenting," Dori Durbin speaks with Suzanne Hanna, a life coach for teen and college girls and former high school assistant principal. Drawing from her career in school administration and her own experience as a mom, Suzanne offers practical, heart-centered guidance for parents navigating the complexities of raising confident, resilient daughters.Suzanne shares how parents can shift from reactive responses to thoughtful connection --- thereby creating the foundation for girls to feel safe sharing their struggles and triumphs with their moms... for life.Suzanne discusses:Why your response NOW matters in the futureReacting VS respondingHow to recognize when your teen daughter needs more support "Bandaid Friends" definedPractical strategies for genuine confidence and self-relianceParenting with honest conversationsNavigating social pressures and comparisonAbout Suzanne: Suzanne Hanna is a life coach for teen and college girls with over 25 years of experience in education as a former high school assistant principal. She helps young women develop confidence and self-reliance through one-on-one coaching, while also supporting their mothers through this challenging transition. Suzanne is passionate about helping girls recognize that all the answers they need are already within them.Learn more about Suzanne:https://www.suzannehannacoaching.comhttps://www.instagram.com/suzannehannacoachingAbout Dori Durbin: Dori Durbin is a Christian wife, mom, author, illustrator, and children's book coach who, after experiencing a life-changing illness, followed her dream of creating a deeper connection between parents and children through books. She now helps nonfiction authors and experts "kid-size" their content into impactful children's books.Find out more at: https://www.doridurbin.comFollow Dori:https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinhttps://www.facebook.com/doridurbin7.comhttps://www.doridurbin.comInterested in writing your own children's book? Let's Chat: https://link.dreambuildercrm.com/widget/bookings/mydori15chatIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Beyond Sleep: Creating Safety, Connection, and Rest for Sleepless Kids with Ahna de Vena EP 120
Send us Fan MailIf bedtime feels like a nightly battle, you're not alone—and there’s a gentler way towards real rest.In this episode of "That's Good Parenting" Dori Durbin speaks with Ahna De Vena, the founder of the Sleep and Dream Foundation and REVIVE Global, and the creator of Holistic Sleep Therapy. Drawing from her own childhood struggles with trauma and insomnia, Ahna offers a deeply compassionate and whole-person approached suggestions when you or your children struggle with sleep.With over two decades of experience, Ahna shares how parents can shift from stress and frustration to peace and healing—both for themselves and their children—through simple, practical changes that nurture calm and connection.Ahna discusses:Why calming your own nervous system is the first step to helping your child sleepThe surprising impact of artificial light on children’s sleep patternsHow to create a nurturing, sleep-friendly environment at homeGentle breathing techniques (like the "bubble breath") that empower kids to relaxWhy focusing on rest and emotional regulation—not just "getting to sleep"—builds lifelong habits of resilience and well-beingAge specific sleep strategiesAbout Ahna:Ahna De Vena is the founder of the Sleep and Dream Foundation and REVIVE Global. After healing from her own struggles with trauma and sleep, she developed Holistic Sleep Therapy to help children and adults create lasting, healthy relationships with rest. Ahna works internationally with families, organizations, and corporations to foster healthier sleep habits and emotional wellness.Learn more about Ahna:https://www.ahnadevena.com About Dori Durbin:Dori Durbin is a Christian wife, mom, author, illustrator, and children’s book coach who, after experiencing a life-changing illness, followed her dream of creating a deeper connection between parents and children through books. She now helps nonfiction authors and experts "kid-size" their content into impactful children's books.Find out more at: https://www.doridurbin.comFollow Dori:https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinhttps://www.facebook.com/doridurbin7.comhttps://www.doridurbin.comInterested in writing your own children's book?Let's Chat: https://link.dreambuildercrm.com/widget/bookings/mydori15chatIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Cuddle Chemistry: How Baby Wearing Creates Unbreakable Bonds & Brilliant Brains with Azja Pryor E119
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Dori Durbin speaks with Azja Pryor, a certified baby wearing educator and senior marketing manager for brands like LILLE Baby and Moby Wrap. Azja brings a wealth of experience working with hundreds of parents, NICU hospital teams, and organizations supporting families through trauma. As a mom of two children 18 years apart, she offers a unique perspective on parenting and the transformative power of baby wearing.Azja Discusses:The science-backed benefits of baby wearing for both parents and babiesHow baby wearing supports developmental milestones and emotional bondingPractical advice for parents struggling with their first baby wearing attemptsSupporting children with special needs through baby wearingTips for using carriers as part of self-care routines for new parentsAbout Azja: Azja Pryor, a Certified Babywearing Educator (CBWS), former fitness coach, and mom of two (a teenage son and a grade-school daughter) who is passionate about helping parents feel more confident and connected to their children.Azja has worked with leading babywearing brands and educated hundreds of parents, caregivers, and NICU healthcare teams on the positive aspects of babywearing.Follow Azja, LILLE Baby, and Moby Wrap:https://www.instagram.com/loveazja/https://www.lillebaby.com/https://mobywrap.com/One-on-one fit checks are available through customer serviceAbout Dori Durbin:Dori Durbin is a Christian wife, mom, author, illustrator, and a kids' book coach who after experiencing a life-changing illness, quickly switched gears to follow her dream. She creates kids' books to provide a fun and safe passageway for kids and parents to dig deeper and experience empowered lives. Dori also coaches non-fiction authors, professionals, and aspiring authors to "kid-size" their content into informational and engaging kids' books! Find out more here: https://www.doridurbin.com/Follow Dori:https://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinhttps://www.facebook.com/doridurbin7.comhttps://www.doridurbin.comInterested in writing your own children's book?Let's Chat: https://link.dreambuildercrm.com/widget/bookings/mydori15chatIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Get Neuroscience-Backed Strategies to Curb Your Kids' Big Emotions with Ginny Ellsworth, EP 118
Send us Fan MailDo you find your kids trapped in negative thoughts like "No one likes me" or "I'm just not good at that"? In this episode, Dori Durbin speaks with Ginny Ellsworth, the founder of Mindful Kids, who brings a unique and powerful blend of neuroscience training, coaching skills, and brain health expertise to her work with children. Ginny shares advice and practical tools for parents to help their kids understand themselves better, manage their feelings, and thrive as people. She emphasizes the importance of helping children notice and shift their thought patterns and even train their brains to work for them.Ginny Discusses:Introducing Mindful Kids When Do Kids Feel Out of Control?The Power of Curiosity in ParentingUnpacking Negative Thought PatternsChoices and Conversations for Mindful ParentingAbout Ginny:Ginny has always had a passion for working with children. At Mindful Kids, she merges her neuroscience training with coaching skills and brain-health expertise to help kids recognize and shift their thought patterns, behavior, and beliefs. Her methods include asking powerful questions, the use of art and creativity to understand emotions, and equipping children with easy to use mindfulness skills to regulate their nervous systems.Ginny is also the author of multiple children’s books, and a former preschool teacher and children’s ministry program leader. She’s affectionately known as the Queen of Fun to her three nephews.Follow Ginny:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mindfulkids30aInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mindfulkids30aWebsite: https://www.mindfulkids.me/Free Teach Kids How to Meditate course and Sleepy Time meditation: https://www.mindfulkids.me/You can also find links to Ginny's children's books on her social media.About Dori Durbin:Dori Durbin is a Christian wife, mom, author, illustrator, and a kids' book coach who after experiencing a life-changing illness, quickly switched gears to follow her dream. She creates kids' books to provide a fun and safe passageway for kids and parents to dig deeper and experience empowered lives. Dori also coaches non-fiction authors, professionals, and aspiring authors to "kid-size" their content into informational and engaging kids' books! Find out more here: https://www.doridurbin.com/Follow Dorihttps://www.instagram.com/dori_durbinhttps://www.facebook.com/doridurbin7.comhttps://www.doridurbin.comInterested in writing your own children's book?Let's Chat: https://link.dreambuildercrm.com/widget/bookings/mydori15chatIntro for TDP (version 2)
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Parenting stress, child development, confident kids, and strong family relationships all start with effective parent-child communication, emotional support, and practical tools to treduce overwhelm, anxiety, and frustration.“That’s Good Parenting” is your trusted family resource for simple, expert-backed strategies that help busy parents navigate the challenges of raising resilient, happy children while building deeper connection and harmony at home. Whether you’re dealing with exhaustion, guilt, or feeling stuck, you’ll find guidance from family experts, proven methods for fostering growth and resiliency, and actionable steps to create more “good parent” moments so you can confidently guide your kids and nurture a thriving family environment.Join host Dori Durbin - children's book illustrator, book coach, ghostwriter, former high school teacher, and happily married Christian mom of two young adults- as she searches alongside you
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