Is there an Unspoken “Needs”Hierarchy within intimate Relationships?

Once you reach level 250 on Hawkins Map of Consciousness, you have reached the level of neutrality. Without beginning the healing process first, it is difficult to give in a selfless way, due to your lower consciousness and poor modeling during childhood. The healing process must begin in earnest prior to attempting to meet the needs of another. in other words we are giving from a space of broken consciousness, which only serves to create and spread more brokenness.