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EPISODE · Apr 8, 2026 · 20 MIN

It Takes One: How Changing Yourself Can Save Your Marriage

from THE MAKING OF ME · host Aro Benaiah Kehinde

Struggling in your marriage and wondering if real change is possible—even if your partner isn’t on board?In this powerful episode of The Making of Me Podcast, author and marriage expert Larry Bilotta shares how transforming yourself can be the key to healing your relationship.Discover why it only takes one person to begin the shift from fear to love—and how your personal growth can positively influence your partner and bring peace back into your marriage.Larry introduces the concept of the “pain provider” and explains why the biggest breakthroughs come not from waiting on your spouse, but from changing your own mindset and responses.In this episode, you’ll learn:• Why you don’t need both partners to start healing a marriage• What the “pain provider” concept means and how it applies to you• How to shift from fear-based reactions to love-based responses• Practical steps to rebuild connection, even in difficult situationsIf you’ve felt stuck, hurt, or hopeless in your relationship, this conversation offers a new path forward—starting with you.🔗 For more resources and coaching with Larry Bilotta, visit:https://youcansavethismarriage.com🔗 Connect with Larry Bilotta on LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/larrybilottaSubscribe for more conversations on relationships, growth, and building a meaningful life.#MarriageTips #RelationshipAdvice #LarryBilotta #HealMarriage #PersonalGrowth #MakingOfMePodcast

Struggling in your marriage and wondering if real change is possible—even if your partner isn’t on board?In this powerful episode of The Making of Me Podcast, author and marriage expert Larry Bilotta shares how transforming yourself can be the key to healing your relationship.Discover why it only takes one person to begin the shift from fear to love—and how your personal growth can positively influence your partner and bring peace back into your marriage.Larry introduces the concept of the “pain provider” and explains why the biggest breakthroughs come not from waiting on your spouse, but from changing your own mindset and responses.In this episode, you’ll learn:• Why you don’t need both partners to start healing a marriage• What the “pain provider” concept means and how it applies to you• How to shift from fear-based reactions to love-based responses• Practical steps to rebuild connection, even in difficult situationsIf you’ve felt stuck, hurt, or hopeless in your relationship, this conversation offers a new path forward—starting with you.🔗 For more resources and coaching with Larry Bilotta, visit:https://youcansavethismarriage.com🔗 Connect with Larry Bilotta on LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/larrybilottaSubscribe for more conversations on relationships, growth, and building a meaningful life.#MarriageTips #RelationshipAdvice #LarryBilotta #HealMarriage #PersonalGrowth #MakingOfMePodcast

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Struggling in your marriage and wondering if real change is possible—even if your partner isn’t on board?In this powerful episode of The Making of Me Podcast, author and marriage expert Larry Bilotta shares how transforming yourself can be the key...

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